Fear Of Intimacy

Fear Of Intimacy
Author: Jo Ann Carter
Publisher:
Total Pages: 0
Release: 2023-02-10
Genre: Fiction
ISBN: 9780997441963

Gregory Allen Young, ordered by the court to attend Family Counseling before his fourth divorce is granted. Doing so Gregory realizes being raised in church and not applying the Word in his everyday affairs has made a shambles of his life. Discover along with Gregory what other information is revealed in counseling and what he accomplishes with that information.

Stop Running from Love

Stop Running from Love
Author: Dusty Miller
Publisher: New Harbinger Publications
Total Pages: 224
Release: 2008-03-01
Genre: Family & Relationships
ISBN: 160882120X

Are you afraid of or unable to create intimacy or closeness with your intimate partner? Do you find that sometimes you create emotional, communicative, or even physical distance from that special someone in your life, even when, deep down, you really don't want to? If so, you share the relationship style psychologists refer to as the distancer. Distancers are often afraid of being engulfed or controlled by their partners. They fear rejection, vulnerability, and dependence. Sadly, they also tend to have short and unhappy relationships. If you want to stop running from love in your life, this book offers a simple, step-by-step approach you can use to move beyond your fear of intimacy and start building strong and lasting relationships. The exercises and self-evaluations in the book will help you become aware of how you operate in romantic relationships. You'll review and reassess your relationship patterns, deciding what changes you want to make in future relationships. Then you'll commit to actions that can make it happen.

Deeper Dating

Deeper Dating
Author: Ken Page
Publisher: Shambhala Publications
Total Pages: 265
Release: 2014-12-30
Genre: Family & Relationships
ISBN: 0834829924

With exercises, practical tools, and inspiring stories, Deeper Dating will guide you on a journey to find the love—and personal fulfillment—you long for Lose weight. Be confident. Keep your partner guessing. At the end of the day, this soulless approach to dating doesn't lead to love but to insecurity and desperation. In Deeper Dating, Ken Page presents a new path to love. Out of his decades of work as a psychotherapist and his own personal struggle to find love, Page teaches that the greatest magnet for real love lies in our "Core Gifts"—the places of our deepest sensitivity, longing, and passion. Deeper Dating guides us to discover our own Core Gifts and empowers us to express them with courage, generosity, and discrimination in our dating life. When we do this, something miraculous happens: we begin to attract people who love us for who we are, we become more self-assured and emotionally available, and we lose our taste for relationships that chip away at our self-esteem. Without losing a pound, changing our hairstyle, or buying a single new accessory, we find healthy love moving closer . . . Deeper Dating integrates the best of human intimacy theory with timeless spiritual truths and translates them into a practical, step-by-step process.

Overcoming Fears of Intimacy and Commitment

Overcoming Fears of Intimacy and Commitment
Author: Herb Goldberg
Publisher: Rowman & Littlefield
Total Pages: 309
Release: 2016-10-17
Genre: Family & Relationships
ISBN: 1442266856

Romantic relationships can be difficult, but to browse the shelves for advice, readers are mostly introduced to the woman’s viewpoint and concerns. Seldom do books address the innermost thoughts, feelings, fears, and concerns of men in relationships. Through the use of in-depth psychological insights, noted author-psychologist Herb Goldberg, takes the reader through twelve phases of romantic relationships. From the initial excitement to the time when things fall apart, he explores the “gender undertow,” prescribes remedies, and describes the healthy relationship from both perspectives, offering tips and advice for both men and women. Taking his starting point from the perspective of men in relationships, Goldberg lays out the concerns many men have – from fears of intimacy to the recognition that one’s partner may not be perfect. Addressing the most common problems that may stem from these relationship troubles, he guides readers through the fears and troubles that may arise and offers cogent advice in an effort to bring men and women together in healthier and more intimate unions.

The Fear of Intimacy

The Fear of Intimacy
Author: Kelsey Huntington
Publisher:
Total Pages: 36
Release: 2014-10-30
Genre:
ISBN: 9781981638062

If you want to overcome the emotional or physical intimacy issues in your relationship or marriage, then this book is for you!What happens when someone in a relationship won't allow the other to get too close? Naturally, you can expect major problems to arise from this kind of situation. It also doesn't help when the person who has fear of intimacy cannot explain to the partner why he or she won't let the other person come any closer. Moreover, people with this disorder may or may not be aware of the fact that they are creating barriers in their relationship. As a result, keeping the relationship in a healthy state is almost impossible. The person being held at a distance may feel confused and left out, and will eventually feel dissatisfied with the whole relationship. Whether you're the one with a fear of intimacy, or whether it's your partner who has the intimacy issues, the good news is that there are things that can be done to overcome this relationship-crippling problem. Thanks to more and more scientific research, psychologists are beginning to understand more about the disorder, and how people can get beyond the barriers that they have placed in their own relationships. This book will share many useful tips on how you and your partner can deal with the fear of intimacy and thus, create a long-lasting and meaningful relationship for many years to come.

Inner Bonding

Inner Bonding
Author: Margaret Paul
Publisher: Harper Collins
Total Pages: 244
Release: 2012-10-16
Genre: Self-Help
ISBN: 0062260928

Inner bonding is the process of connecting our adult thoughts with our instinctual, gut feelings—the feelings of the "inner child"—so that we can minimize painful conflict within ourselves. Free of inner conflict, we feel peaceful, open to joy, and open to giving and receiving love. Margaret Paul, coauthor of Healing Your Aloneness, explores how abandonment of the inner child leads to increasingly negative and destructive feelings of low self-worth, codepenclence, addiction, shame, powerlessness, and withdrawal from relationships. Her breakthrough inner bonding process teaches us to heal past wounds through reparenting and clearly demonstrates how we can learn to parent in the present. Real-life examples illustrate the dynamics of the healing process and show the benefits we can expect in every facet of our lives and in all our relationships. Inner Bonding provides the tools we need to forge and maintain the inner unity that makes our family, sexual, work, and social relationships productive, honest, and joyful.

Voice Therapy

Voice Therapy
Author: Robert Firestone
Publisher:
Total Pages: 300
Release: 1988
Genre: Language Arts & Disciplines
ISBN:

Based on the idea that the Voice is an internal system of hostile thoughts and attitudes antithetical to the self, the book identifies the characteristics of this phenomenon. Voice Therapy, as developed by Dr. Firestone, is designed to elicit and identify these negative thoughts.

Daring to Love

Daring to Love
Author: Tamsen Firestone
Publisher:
Total Pages: 0
Release: 2018
Genre: Defense mechanisms (Psychology)
ISBN: 9781684030736

Preserving Individuality to Strengthen Your Relationship -- Developing the Skills for Communicating in an Intimate Relationship -- Dealing with Anger Constructively -- The Act of Loving -- A Few Final Words -- Acknowledgments -- References

The Fear of Intimacy

The Fear of Intimacy
Author: Osho
Publisher: Osho Media International
Total Pages: 32
Release: 2013-04-09
Genre: Self-Help
ISBN: 0880500255

Intimacy generally refers to the feeling of being in a close personal association and belonging together. Everybody is afraid of intimacy. It is another thing whether we are aware of it or not. Intimacy means exposing yourself before a stranger. We are all strangers -- nobody knows anybody. We are even strangers to ourselves, because we don't know who we are.This talk by Osho is an invitation to discover who you are.

Intimacy

Intimacy
Author: Osho
Publisher: St. Martin's Griffin
Total Pages: 191
Release: 2007-04-01
Genre: Body, Mind & Spirit
ISBN: 1429907665

One of the greatest spiritual teachers of the twentieth century shares his wisdom about building loving relationships in Intimacy: Trusting Oneself and the Other. “Hit-and-run” relationships have become common in our society as it has grown more rootless, less tied to traditional family structures, and more accepting of casual sex. But at the same time, there arises an undercurrent of feeling that something is missing—a quality of intimacy. This quality has very little to do with the physical, though sex is certainly one possible door. Far more important is a willingness to expose our deepest feelings and vulnerabilities, with the trust that the other person will treat them with care. Ultimately, the willingness to take the risk of intimacy has to be grounded in an inner strength that knows that even if the other remains closed, even if that trust is betrayed, we will not suffer any permanent damage. In this gentle and compassionate guide, Osho takes his readers step-by-step through what makes people afraid of intimacy, how to encounter those fears and go beyond them, and what they can do to nourish themselves and their relationships to support more openness and trust. Osho challenges readers to examine and break free of the conditioned belief systems and prejudices that limit their capacity to enjoy life in all its richness. He has been described by the Sunday Times of London as one of the “1000 Makers of the 20th Century” and by Sunday Mid-Day (India) as one of the ten people—along with Gandhi, Nehru, and Buddha—who have changed the destiny of India. Since his death in 1990, the influence of his teachings continues to expand, reaching seekers of all ages in virtually every country of the world.