Surviving a First Breakup

Surviving a First Breakup
Author: Sherri Mabry Gordon
Publisher: Enslow Publishing, LLC
Total Pages: 50
Release: 2017-12-15
Genre: Juvenile Nonfiction
ISBN: 0766093425

Breaking up hurts, and it can be hard to cope. A breakup is something almost everyone must go through, especially when staying together is unhealthy. Teen readers will not only learn how to survive and move on after a breakup, but how to grow stronger along the way. From discovering what went wrong to avoiding common break-up mistakes, this book offers everything a teen needs to survive the end of a relationship, including one ended via text message. Both sides, the dumper and the dumpee, are supported, helping teens learn how to handle things with compassion and sensitivity.

The Official Teen Survival Guide for Getting Over a Breakup

The Official Teen Survival Guide for Getting Over a Breakup
Author: Emilee Day
Publisher: Createspace Independent Publishing Platform
Total Pages: 0
Release: 2016-01-10
Genre: Dating (Social customs)
ISBN: 9781523337576

You really thought it was going to last forever, but it's over. It doesn't even matter at this point who initiated the breakup, the fact is it's killing you and you're pretty certain you won't recover. So what are you supposed to do now? As hard as is to believe, you will get past the pain. While there isn't a one-size-fits-all method, there are a lot of innovative thoughts and actions you can take to adapt to what has happened and live comfortably with its memory. The official teen survival guide for getting over a breakup. Bestselling author Emilee Day, is a therapist who counsels teens and their families, addressing a wide range of emotional and social issues to help them overcome incredible obstacles. And at this moment, she's here for you. Her guide includes 22 steps you can take right now to begin recovering after a breakup, including: * How to learn to be kind to yourself * Dealing with the one who broke your heart - Dos and Don'ts * Begin to rebuild a future for yourself * The three foundations of a renewed and happy life * And more The author candidly shares the emotionally-charged and intimate details of her first love and the subsequent breakup. Readers not only glimpse her personal recovery, but will be well on the way to their own after reading her journey. The process of rebuilding after a bad fall is rough at times, but you emerge stronger, more spirited and ready for life again. You know now that no matter how bad it gets, you can survive. This is valuable knowledge, and it all begins here.

Breakup Bootcamp

Breakup Bootcamp
Author: Amy Chan
Publisher: HarperCollins
Total Pages: 227
Release: 2020-12-01
Genre: Self-Help
ISBN: 0062914758

“A relationship expert whose work is like that of a scientific Carrie Bradshaw.” —THE OBSERVER A self-affirming, holistic guide for everyone—single or married, divorced or dating—to transforming heartbreak into healing by the founder of the innovative and revolutionary Renew Breakup Bootcamp Amy Chan hit rock bottom when she discovered that her boyfriend cheated on her. Although she was angry and broken-hearted, Chan soon came to realize that the breakup was the shakeup she needed to redirect her life. Instead of descending into darkness, she used the pain of the breakup as a bridge to self-actualization. She devoted herself to learning various healing modalities from the ancient to the scientific, and dived into the psychology of love. It worked. Fast forward years later, Amy completely transformed her life, her relationships and founded a breakup bootcamp helping countless women heal their hearts. In Breakup Bootcamp, Amy Chan directs her experience as a relationship columnist and as the creator of Renew Breakup Bootcamp into a practical, thoughtful guide to turning broken hearts into an opportunity to break out of complacency and destructive habits. Dubbed "the Chief Heart Hacker," Amy Chan grounds her practical advice and tried and tested methods rooted in cutting-edge psychology and research, helping first her bootcamp attendees and now her readers most effectively heal and reclaim their self-love. Breakup Bootcamp comes at the perfect time, when many are feeling the intensity of being in or out of a relationship, lonely or suffocated, and flirting with old toxic relationships they’ve outgrown. Relatable, life-changing, and backed by sound scientific research, Breakup Bootcamp can help anyone turn their greatest heartbreak into a powerful tool for growth.

Getting Past Your Breakup

Getting Past Your Breakup
Author: Susan Elliott JD, MEd
Publisher: Da Capo Lifelong Books
Total Pages: 266
Release: 2009-05-05
Genre: Family & Relationships
ISBN: 0738213284

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Best Friends Forever

Best Friends Forever
Author: Irene S. Levine
Publisher: Abrams
Total Pages: 208
Release: 2009-09-01
Genre: Psychology
ISBN: 1590203704

Men, jobs, children, personal crises, irreconcilable social gaps—these are just a few of the strange and confusing reasons which may cause a female friendship to end. No matter the cause, the breakup of a female friendship leaves a woman devastated and asking herself difficult questions. Was someone to blame? Is the friendship worth fighting for? How can I prevent this from ever happening again? Even more upsetting is that women suffering from broken friendships often have no one to confide in; while the loss of a romantic partner garners sympathy among peers, discussing the loss of a platonic friend is often impossible without making other friends jealous or uncomfortable. Written by journalist and psychologist Irene Levine, Ph.D., Best Friends Forever is an uplifting and heroically honest book for abandoned friends seeking solace. Dr. Levine draws from the personal testimonials of thousands of women to provide anecdotes and groundbreaking solutions to these complicated situations. Offering tools for personal assessment, case stories, and actionable advice for saving, ending, or re-evaluating a relationship, Levine shows that breakups are sometimes inevitable. Although the dissolution of female friendships can be difficult, Best Friends Forever teaches women to stop blaming themselves and probing the wounds, and that the sad experience of a broken friendship can make them stronger people, and more able to handle their relationships with wisdom.

How To Survive A Breakup: (When All of Your Friends are Birthing Their Second Child)

How To Survive A Breakup: (When All of Your Friends are Birthing Their Second Child)
Author: Lisa Cleary
Publisher: Apprentice House
Total Pages: 174
Release: 2020-05-15
Genre: Family & Relationships
ISBN: 9781627202664

At 31 years old, self-help writer Lisa Cleary experienced a mass layoff, a tumultuous breakup after three years, the subsequent start of a new job, and two unexpected moves -- all in three months. Irony was at its best: Cleary coached others on finding happiness and, as a never married, single female and one without children -- she felt unworthy of it, particularly when it came to a lasting relationship. How to Survive a Breakup: When all of your friends are birthing their second child is Cleary's snarky account of her meltdown. She discusses how a breakup at this age -- while much less extreme than a divorce -- feels juvenile, particularly when others are settling down. Friends relate less. People are busy. Cleary ditches the cheerleader mantra in this how-to guide to share her awkward story from beginning to end. She explains the Burning Feelings, how it feels to live alone for the first time, and why she hates her friends -- all from the perspective of everyone's go-to bridesmaid. Cleary's hilarious account of getting over a breakup at her age will not only help you process yours, but she'll help you get over the toxic milestone mentality -- and then over yourself.

How to Fix a Broken Heart

How to Fix a Broken Heart
Author: Guy Winch
Publisher: Simon and Schuster
Total Pages: 128
Release: 2018-02-13
Genre: Psychology
ISBN: 1501120131

Imagine if we treated broken hearts with the same respect and concern we have for broken arms? Psychologist Guy Winch urges us to rethink the way we deal with emotional pain, offering warm, wise, and witty advice for the broken-hearted. Real heartbreak is unmistakable. We think of nothing else. We feel nothing else. We care about nothing else. Yet while we wouldn’t expect someone to return to daily activities immediately after suffering a broken limb, heartbroken people are expected to function normally in their lives, despite the emotional pain they feel. Now psychologist Guy Winch imagines how different things would be if we paid more attention to this unique emotion—if only we can understand how heartbreak works, we can begin to fix it. Through compelling research and new scientific studies, Winch reveals how and why heartbreak impacts our brain and our behavior in dramatic and unexpected ways, regardless of our age. Emotional pain lowers our ability to reason, to think creatively, to problem solve, and to function at our best. In How to Fix a Broken Heart he focuses on two types of emotional pain—romantic heartbreak and the heartbreak that results from the loss of a cherished pet. These experiences are both accompanied by severe grief responses, yet they are not deemed as important as, for example, a formal divorce or the loss of a close relative. As a result, we are often deprived of the recognition, support, and compassion afforded to those whose heartbreak is considered more significant. Our heart might be broken, but we do not have to break with it. Winch reveals that recovering from heartbreak always starts with a decision, a determination to move on when our mind is fighting to keep us stuck. We can take control of our lives and our minds and put ourselves on the path to healing. Winch offers a toolkit on how to handle and cope with a broken heart and how to, eventually, move on.

Splitopia

Splitopia
Author: Wendy Paris
Publisher: Simon and Schuster
Total Pages: 336
Release: 2016-03-15
Genre: Family & Relationships
ISBN: 1476725535

Packed with research, insights, and illuminating (and often funny) examples from Paris’s own divorce experience, this book is a “practical and reassuring guide to parting well.” —Gretchen Rubin, author of The Happiness Project Engaging and revolutionary, filled with wit, searing honesty, and intimate interviews, Splitopia is a call for a saner, more civil kind of divorce. As Paris reveals, divorce has improved dramatically in recent decades due to changes in laws and family structures, advances in psychology and child development, and a new understanding of the importance of the father. Positive psychology expert and author of Happier, Tal Ben-Shahar, writes that Paris’s “personal insights, stories, and research” create “a smart and interesting guide that can be extremely helpful for those going through divorce.” Reading this book can be the difference between an expensive, ugly battle and a decent divorce, between children sucked under by conflict or happy, healthy kids. This is “a compelling case that it’s high time for a new definition of Happily Ever After—for everyone” (Brigid Schulte, author of Overwhelmed: Work, Love, and Play When No One Has the Time).

All Groan Up

All Groan Up
Author: Paul Angone
Publisher: Zondervan
Total Pages: 155
Release: 2015-04-21
Genre: Religion
ISBN: 0310341434

All Groan Up: Searching for Self, Faith, and A Freaking Job! is the story of the GenY/Millennial generation told through the individual story of author Paul Angone. It’s a story of struggle, hope, failure, and doubts in the twilight zone of growing up and being grown, connecting with his twentysomething post-college audience with raw honesty, humor, and hope.