When It Hurts Too Much To Cry

When It Hurts Too Much To Cry
Author: Jerry Falwell
Publisher: Tyndale House
Total Pages: 123
Release: 2014-02-06
Genre: Religion
ISBN: 1939348455

We know the what of suffering, but we don’t always understand the why. Regardless of our age, ability, or attitude, we wonder what purpose it accomplishes. Is pain a part of some immutable law of the universe as is the law of gravity? Has it always existed? Will it continue to hound our steps as long as we live? Does it serve any good purpose? Some partial answers to these very basic questions will be attempted in the pages to follow—partial, I say, because the full reason for pain and suffering remains a dark, undeclared secret, locked in the bosom of God, to be revealed only on the other side of eternity. This book deals with the suffering experienced by the child of God. Such horrors as the Nazi holocaust, the starvation of millions of innocent children in the world, the horrors of war, or other tragedies demand their own explanations. Right now, let us limit ourselves to a discussion of pain and sorrow in the lives of believers

Hurts So Good

Hurts So Good
Author: Leigh Cowart
Publisher: PublicAffairs
Total Pages: 263
Release: 2021-09-14
Genre: Science
ISBN: 1541798023

An exploration of why people all over the world love to engage in pain on purpose--from dominatrices, religious ascetics, and ultramarathoners to ballerinas, icy ocean bathers, and sideshow performers Masochism is sexy, human, reviled, worshipped, and can be delightfully bizarre. Deliberate and consensual pain has been with us for millennia, encompassing everyone from Black Plague flagellants to ballerinas dancing on broken bones to competitive eaters choking down hot peppers while they cry. Masochism is a part of us. It lives inside workaholics, tattoo enthusiasts, and all manner of garden variety pain-seekers. At its core, masochism is about feeling bad, then better—a phenomenon that is long overdue for a heartfelt and hilarious investigation. And Leigh Cowart would know: they are not just a researcher and science writer—they’re an inveterate, high-sensation seeking masochist. And they have a few questions: Why do people engage in masochism? What are the benefits and the costs? And what does masochism have to say about the human experience? By participating in many of these activities themselves, and through conversations with psychologists, fellow scientists, and people who seek pain for pleasure, Cowart unveils how our minds and bodies find meaning and relief in pain—a quirk in our programming that drives discipline and innovation even as it threatens to swallow us whole.

Are You the One for Me?

Are You the One for Me?
Author: Barbara De Angelis
Publisher: Dell
Total Pages: 277
Release: 2009-08-05
Genre: Family & Relationships
ISBN: 0307417050

Finally--the book you've been waiting for to help you find and keep the right partner and make love last. Best-selling author and renowned relationship expert Barbara De Angelis reveals everything you need to know about compatibility and shows you how to create the fulfilling relationship you deserve whether you are- Married, and wondering if you could be happier. Single, and wondering how to avoid another wrong partner. In love, and wondering whether your partner is the right one for you. with powerful advice and groundbreaking techniques that have helped thousands of people transform their lives, Dr. De Angelis will show you the formula for creating love that lasts, and help you to understand yourself and the one you love as you never have before. Discover: How to avoid making the biggest mistakes in love. The six essential qualities to look for in a mate. How to spot fatal flaws in a partner. How to create the sexual chemistry you want. The compatibility formula to make your relationship work.

The Authenticity Principle

The Authenticity Principle
Author: Ritu Bhasin
Publisher:
Total Pages: 193
Release: 2017
Genre: Authenticity (Philosophy)
ISBN: 9781775016205

In a society that pushes conformity, how can you be courageously authentic despite fear of judgment? Award-winning leadership and diversity expert Ritu Bhasin gives you the tools to make this happen. This is more than a call to "be yourself"-it's a rally to disrupt the status quo, bring your differences to the light, and help others do the same.

Obsessive Love

Obsessive Love
Author: Susan Forward
Publisher: Bantam
Total Pages: 290
Release: 2002-01-02
Genre: Self-Help
ISBN: 0553381423

Is it impossible to let go — despite the pain? • Do you yearn for someone who is not physically or emotionally available to you? • Do you believe that if you love him enough he will have to love you? • When you feel insecure, does it drive you only to want her more? • Do you find yourself phoning repeatedly or waiting long hours for the phone to ring? Do you wish someone would let go of you? • Does an ex-lover or ex-spouse refuse to believe that it’s over? • Do you receive unwanted phone calls, letters, presents, or visits? • Is this pursuit of you creating so much anxiety that it affects your physical or emotional well-being? In this invaluable self-help guide, Dr. Susan Forward presents vivid case histories as well as the real-life voices of men and women caught in the grip of obsessive passion. Whether you’re an obsessive lover or the target of such an obsession, here is a proven, step-by-step program that shows you how to recognize the “connection compulsion,” what causes it, and how to break its hold on your life so that you can go on to build healthy, lasting, and pain-free relationships.

If It Hurts, It Isn't Love

If It Hurts, It Isn't Love
Author: Chuck Spezzano
Publisher: Da Capo Lifelong Books
Total Pages: 416
Release: 2000-03-27
Genre: Family & Relationships
ISBN: 9781569246344

In If It Hurts, It Isn't Love, author Chuck Spezzano finds truth in simple insights: What I think I need is what I am called to give. Depression is the fear that something new will leave me. When someone gets angry at me, there is a lesson for me to learn. Jealousy is a birthing place. These principles show how to look afresh at one's most important relationships, in a way that heals pain and brings love and forgiveness. After each principle, the author gives brief exercises that nudge readers further, prompting them to absorb the insights even more deeply.

Start Living and Stop the Pain

Start Living and Stop the Pain
Author: Kristine Hester
Publisher: CreateSpace
Total Pages: 30
Release: 2015-04-01
Genre:
ISBN: 9781511547550

START LIVING AND STOP THE PAIN Why does LIFE hurt so much? The book "Start Living and Stop the Pain: Why does life hurt so much?" is for people who are suffering from pains brought by loss, separation, failures or death. It aims to assist them understand why life hurts so much. There are certain truths about life that bring sufferings and hardships. When you do not understand these truths, the agony of pains is unbearable. But when you do, you will be able to stop the excruciating pain faster. The book "Start Living and Stop the Pain: Why does life hurt so much?" provides insights on the capacity of pains to affect the life of its victim. It brings adverse effects on the emotional, mental and physical functioning of the person. Pain is real and it is unavoidable. It is a normal emotion that you will feel when you lose someone and do not get what you desire. Being hurt is inevitable and will always bring change in your life. It is better if you turn this experience into positive step towards personal growth rather than believing that you are a victim of circumstances. Remember that you are not alone in the journey of pain, loneliness and frustrated feelings. Everybody in one time or another experienced what you are feeling right now. Do not become bitter after the pain; become better and live your life to the fullest. No one is responsible for your own happiness but you. Make your life meaningful each day after you have overcome the pains. There is no easy way out from hurting. You need to feel the pain and accept it. When you start accepting that your situation is real, you can slowly release yourself from the torture. Keep your faith and continue living. Living your life with full acceptance of the past would make your present better and welcome the future with confidence. You are not afraid to fail because you know that you can stand again. You are more positive that better outcomes would happen because you are living your life with purpose."

Why Love Hurts

Why Love Hurts
Author: Eva Illouz
Publisher: John Wiley & Sons
Total Pages: 191
Release: 2013-05-20
Genre: Social Science
ISBN: 0745672116

Few of us have been spared the agonies of intimate relationships. They come in many shapes: loving a man or a woman who will not commit to us, being heartbroken when we're abandoned by a lover, engaging in Sisyphean internet searches, coming back lonely from bars, parties, or blind dates, feeling bored in a relationship that is so much less than we had envisaged - these are only some of the ways in which the search for love is a difficult and often painful experience. Despite the widespread and almost collective character of these experiences, our culture insists they are the result of faulty or insufficiently mature psyches. For many, the Freudian idea that the family designs the pattern of an individual's erotic career has been the main explanation for why and how we fail to find or sustain love. Psychoanalysis and popular psychology have succeeded spectacularly in convincing us that individuals bear responsibility for the misery of their romantic and erotic lives. The purpose of this book is to change our way of thinking about what is wrong in modern relationships. The problem is not dysfunctional childhoods or insufficiently self-aware psyches, but rather the institutional forces shaping how we love. The argument of this book is that the modern romantic experience is shaped by a fundamental transformation in the ecology and architecture of romantic choice. The samples from which men and women choose a partner, the modes of evaluating prospective partners, the very importance of choice and autonomy and what people imagine to be the spectrum of their choices: all these aspects of choice have transformed the very core of the will, how we want a partner, the sense of worth bestowed by relationships, and the organization of desire. This book does to love what Marx did to commodities: it shows that it is shaped by social relations and institutions and that it circulates in a marketplace of unequal actors.

Hope When It Hurts

Hope When It Hurts
Author: Sarah Walton
Publisher: The Good Book Company
Total Pages: 220
Release: 2017-04-01
Genre: Religion
ISBN: 1784980749

Thirty biblical meditations for women that offer hope in times of suffering. Thirty biblical meditations for women that offer hope in times of suffering. Hurt is real. But so is hope. Kristen and Sarah have walked through, and are walking in, difficult times. So these thirty biblical reflections are full of realism about the hurts of life-yet overwhelmingly full of hope about the God who gives life. This book will gently encourage and greatly help any woman who is struggling with suffering-whether physical, emotional or psychological, and whether for a season or for longer. It is a book to buy for yourself, or to buy for a member of your church or friend. For anyone who is hurting, this book will give hope, not just for life beyond the suffering, but for life in the suffering. Each chapter contains a biblical reflection, with questions and prayers, and a space for journaling.

So Much It Hurts

So Much It Hurts
Author: Melanie Dawn
Publisher: CreateSpace
Total Pages: 342
Release: 2013-08-21
Genre: Fiction
ISBN: 9781490962054

Kaitlyn Thomas, a weary wife and mother, is taking a much needed getaway with her friends. All she wants to do is relax and rejuvenate on her weekend escape to the beach. Having a drink at the bar with the girls sounds like the perfect way to unwind. That is, until Kaitlyn hears a familiar voice from the stage that shakes her to her core.