Rebuilding Your Life After Homicide

Rebuilding Your Life After Homicide
Author: Victim Support Services
Publisher: Createspace Independent Publishing Platform
Total Pages: 80
Release: 2016-05-05
Genre:
ISBN: 9781533134059

Victim Support Services, formerly Families and Friends of Missing Persons and Violent Crime Victims originally published this booklet in 1983 under a different title called "Grief by Homicide". The new title of this book, "Rebuilding your Life after Homicide" has been chosen because it reflects the experience that surviving victims of homicide undergo after the unthinkable happens. Survivors report that they literally had to pick up the pieces of the old, and find a new way to carry on. Rebuilding a new normal and a new way of living. Life as they knew it was different after the violent loss of their loved one. The most important message of this book is to convey that you are not alone. Many mothers, fathers, husbands, wives, sisters, brothers, aunt's, uncle's, steps, grandparents, and close friends have walked a similar path before you. Losing a loved one to homicide is a very misunderstood form of grief, no one is prepared for such a sudden and violent act. We are sorry that you are going through this. This book was written with you, your loved one, and your family in mind. Everyone's story is unique. There is no blue print available to get you through this. There is no right way to grieve or recover. This book has been developed as a guide of what you might expect along the way. This journey will not be easy. It will take everything that you have to make it through it, there will be really difficult moments, as well as positive ones. You are not alone, agencies like Victim Support Services are across the United States to help guide you through this process. Please don't hesitate to reach out to someone if you need help.

Grief After Homicide

Grief After Homicide
Author: Al Haste
Publisher:
Total Pages: 210
Release: 2021-05-15
Genre:
ISBN:

Someone you love has been murdered. It is an understatement to say that your life has been changed. Your anger and pain are deep, and it will take a great deal of hard work and time to recover. You may never feel as if you have "recovered." It may be difficult to believe now, but many persons who have been in your situation learn to manage their grief. You will need time, determination, and the support of a caring listener. This book offers a beacon of hope. It inspires us to have the courage to work through grief, anger, loss, confusion, disappointment, fear, shock, resentment, and the pain of having life suddenly change without warning. It helps us learn to change our perspectives and soften our judgments. This book illustrates that humans and human emotions are complex and that at the core, all of us wish to maintain our dignity and be treated with compassion. This is the story of a mind-boggling murder but also shows us how to find courage in trauma, forgiveness in devastation, and triumph after heartbreak.

Rebuilding Life After Trauma

Rebuilding Life After Trauma
Author: Tonya L Whiteside
Publisher: Xulon Press
Total Pages: 94
Release: 2013-03-01
Genre: Body, Mind & Spirit
ISBN: 9781625099136

What would you do if you had just become the victim and witness to a murder-suicide? How are you going to process standing between two friends, seeing one friend murder the other? Do you scream? Do you run? The journey from sorry to a sunny day can be long and emotional. In this life-changing book, Tonya L. Whiteside, founder of The Whiteside Group and award winning author of her bestselling book, Change the Atmosphere with Encouraging Words, tells the eye-witness account of the murder of her longtime friend, Stacey Bryant. Sadly, Stacey was tragically murdered by her husband and high school sweetheart, Eddie. In this book, Rebuilding Life after Trauma, Tonya shares of her battles with Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder, depression and other struggles due to the effects of what she witnessed. Tonya shares that even on her emotional road upward to recovery, you can rebuild your life and that you may already have in your possession useful components. You can retrain your brain with the right resources and guidance. How we handle depression, adversity, personal crisis, and stress is crucial. Drawing from the wisdom and knowledge gained, Tonya discusses how you can find: healing for your heart, happiness in your relationships, and hope for better days. If you have lost a loved one tragically due to violence or are trying to move forward in your life due other effects of a traumatic experience, follow Tonya on this journey. Rebuilding Life after Trauma will propel you toward lifelong transformation. By using the positive strategies in the book, you will realize greater possibilities and outcomes for your life. You will discover that everything happens for a reason and nothing is an accident.

Permanent Heartache

Permanent Heartache
Author: Marcella Hammett
Publisher: Nova Kroshka Books
Total Pages: 0
Release: 2000
Genre: Homicide
ISBN: 9781560726302

Marcella Hammett writes, It is a sad commentary that parents today must be more concerned with murder than with measles. The headlines are true. Homicide is destroying America. Our families, our friends, and our neighbours are dying at unbelievable rates. More than 20,000 people are murdered each year, leaving thousands behind to struggle with the aftermath of this life-altering event. If you've ever cared or wondered how people cope after their lives have been impacted by homicide, read this book. Marcella Hammett is an epidemiologist by training and a humanitarian at heart. Her life as a researcher was forever changed after attending a Valentine's Day memorial rally for the family members of victims of homicide held in a tiny church in Atlanta in 1994. As a result of that experience, she was inspired to take on this courageous task. Permanent Heartache contains twenty-two testimonials from family survivors in six different cities. In their own words, they memorialise their loved ones and describe an unenviable transformation. With time periods ranging from one to eighteen years after the loss, surviving family and friends take you through the stages of shock, rage, hope, healin

After the Eclipse

After the Eclipse
Author: Sarah Perry
Publisher: Houghton Mifflin Harcourt
Total Pages: 371
Release: 2017
Genre: Biography & Autobiography
ISBN: 0544302656

A fierce memoir of a mother's murder, a daughter's coming-of-age in the wake of immense loss, and her mission to know the woman who gave her life

Murder Survivor's Handbook

Murder Survivor's Handbook
Author: Connie Saindon
Publisher:
Total Pages: 244
Release: 2014-09-25
Genre: Counseling
ISBN: 9780989691307

Murder Survivor's Handbook: Real-Life Stories, Tips & Resources provides information, resources, and strategies for learning to live with the aftermath of a homicide, including safety issues, dealing with the criminal justice system, addressing the news media, and coping with traumatic grief, while preserving the memory of a loved one. In the book, Survivor Writers describe their own experiences and, through their tips and suggestions, lend a helping hand to those who follow in their footsteps.

A Shopping List for Murder - Part Ii

A Shopping List for Murder - Part Ii
Author: Robyn Beveridge
Publisher: Trafford Publishing
Total Pages: 297
Release: 2013-12-05
Genre: Biography & Autobiography
ISBN: 1490719814

This story is about a woman who suffered a serious assault as a result of her husbands actions. Once he had been through the court system, and was imprisoned the story didn't end. Robyn had to rebuild her world and start again, always considering she could be harmed again. Slowly, step by step, she did the things she could to start her new life. Her world had to change totally. The story tells of that rebuilding, of the laughs, tears, and challenges that she faced every step of the way. In the background, she had the support of members of New Zealand Police, both working and retired who supported, encouraged, laughed with her. Without their support the story would have been totally different. This story tells of one woman's life after a crime that the Public would never see.

While We Slept

While We Slept
Author: Marcy Pusey
Publisher:
Total Pages: 294
Release: 2018-12-17
Genre: Biography & Autobiography
ISBN: 9781948283052

Murder changed their lives. Faith and hope changed their grief. On July 13, 2005, newlyweds Marcy and Jeremy woke up to the murder of his mother-- just down the hall--while they'd slept. In this evocative book, Marcy and Jeremy Pusey bring you straight into the heart of their survival story, sharing the hope they found with the shock and anguish of their family tragedy. This gripping work chronicles the grief journey of the newlyweds, tackles the nature of forgiveness, and shows how they moved through their pain to change the world. Their story demonstrates how faith can move mountains of resentment and hate to rebuild a life of healing, reconciliation, and joy. While We Slept is a eulogy for a missed mother, a legacy for her children and grandchildren, and a lighthouse of hope for anyone else flailing through a tragedy. This book is not only the story of one mind-boggling murder, but also about how we can find courage in trauma, forgiveness in devastation, and how we can triumph after heartbreak. And then there's hope. *The print book edition contains news articles, used with permission.

Life after Death Row

Life after Death Row
Author: Saundra D. Westervelt
Publisher: Rutgers University Press
Total Pages: 301
Release: 2012-10-17
Genre: Social Science
ISBN: 0813553393

Life after Death Row examines the post-incarceration struggles of individuals who have been wrongly convicted of capital crimes, sentenced to death, and subsequently exonerated. Saundra D. Westervelt and Kimberly J. Cook present eighteen exonerees’ stories, focusing on three central areas: the invisibility of the innocent after release, the complicity of the justice system in that invisibility, and personal trauma management. Contrary to popular belief, exonerees are not automatically compensated by the state or provided adequate assistance in the transition to post-prison life. With no time and little support, many struggle to find homes, financial security, and community. They have limited or obsolete employment skills and difficulty managing such daily tasks as grocery shopping or banking. They struggle to regain independence, self-sufficiency, and identity. Drawing upon research on trauma, recovery, coping, and stigma, the authors weave a nuanced fabric of grief, loss, resilience, hope, and meaning to provide the richest account to date of the struggles faced by people striving to reclaim their lives after years of wrongful incarceration.

Ghettoside

Ghettoside
Author: Jill Leovy
Publisher: One World/Ballantine
Total Pages: 386
Release: 2015
Genre: Law
ISBN: 0385529988

"Discusses the hundreds of murders that occur in Los Angeles each year, and focuses on the story of the dedicated group of detectives who pursued justice at any cost in the killing of Bryant Tennelle"--Publisher's description.