How to Be a Healthy and Happy Submissive

How to Be a Healthy and Happy Submissive
Author: Kate Kinsey
Publisher: Createspace Independent Publishing Platform
Total Pages: 0
Release: 2014-09-06
Genre:
ISBN: 9781501093609

Beyond any shades of grey, there's an entire kinky world of BDSM, full of real life dominants and submissives enjoying an intimacy and satisfaction in their relationships that vanilla folk only dream of. Whether you want to explore your own submissive fantasies, or you're just curious about what BDSM is really like, this book will answer all your questions, plus some you didn't know you had. Erotic author Kate Kinsey ("Red," and "The Totally Uncensored Kinky Adventures of Chloe St. Claire, Sex Slave") brings over a decade of experience as a submissive and kinky educator to this practical step-by-step guide to being a healthy and happy submissive.Topics covered include: the differences between dominants and masters, submissives and slaves, and tops and bottoms; the different dominant styles; the truth about "training" to be a submissive; how to find like-minded folks in your area; how to negotiate scenes and relationships; what to expect at your first dungeon party; why some people actually enjoy pain; and the warning signs to look out for when talking to potential partners."Kinsey has written a no-nonsense guide that thoroughly explains the various kinks and fetishes that come under the umbrella of BDSM. Most importantly, she emphasizes the importance of protecting yourself along the way with knowledge, friends and self-awareness.""This is not fiction, but reality. Kate Kinsey has the experience to tell it like it is, not the way some vanilla writer imagines it to be."

What Submissives Want to Know

What Submissives Want to Know
Author: Kate Kinsey
Publisher:
Total Pages: 191
Release: 2018-02-23
Genre:
ISBN: 9781976921230

Kate Kinsey, best-selling author of "How to be a Healthy and Happy Submissive," has been an author, educator and collared submissive in the kinky world for more than 15 years.Kinsey answers 39 questions from real submissives, both newbie and experienced, that encompass the most common problems faced by those who choose the submissive path. Kinsey offers down-to-earth, non-judgmental advice on questions including: Do I need to be trained? Can I build my own dominant? What if my husband wants me to be his mistress? What if I only want to serve non-sexually? Do I have to let a dominant demean me? What should I look for in a dominant's profile? How much should I share in my online profile? Are there counselors for kinky folk? What do I wear to a high-protocol dinner? What if I'm not a skinny Minnie? is it normal to feel so needy? Should a dominant ask me for money? "What Submissives Want to Know" builds on the foundation set out in "How to be a Healthy and Happy Submissive" with a deeper dive into real-life situations and the complexities of Dominant/submissive relationships. "Even if a particular question doesn't seem to reflect your relationship," Kinsey says, "there are elements to every question that resonate with the submissive heart, and help you better understand the kind of submissive you want to be."

Submissive's Guide to BDSM Volume 1

Submissive's Guide to BDSM Volume 1
Author: Matthew Larocco
Publisher:
Total Pages:
Release: 2016
Genre:
ISBN: 9781310925887

What does it really mean to be a submissive, or sub? Much of what we see in BDSM practice, especially in the mainstream, focuses on how to become dominant and act like the ideal Dom or Master, or "Top." However, a lot of newcomers are confused as to how this works. They vaguely understand that the submissive or sub or slave is supposed to obey. But they don't understand the emotional dynamics, or how to act like the ideal sub, or even how to enjoy the experience.That's what this book is going to teach you: How to be a better sub, and have a happy & healthy BDSM lifestyle.Here are just some of the things you will discover in volume 1 of "Submissive's Guide To BDSM":- Why you want to experience punishment...- The science of pain & pleasure...- Type of Doms to beware of...- How to pick the right Dom just for you...- How to protect yourself from wannabe Doms and predators...- The right way to explore taboo fantasies in BDSM...- Type of limits and when & how to use them...- How to communicate with your Dom...- Common mistakes new subs make...- How to "train" your Master...- How to "fire" your Dom if it's not working out...- And much more...

Submissive Training

Submissive Training
Author: Hayden Reese
Publisher:
Total Pages: 108
Release: 2020-06-14
Genre:
ISBN:

BDSM - do these four letters bring shivers of pleasure - or pain down your back? There are many misconceptions about what BDSM is, but if approached with the idea that it is a conscious lifestyle choice, it might be more properly understood. Or do you find yourself wondering what would the perfect submissive do, what would they say, how would they act, what would they wear, and so on? Being a submissive involves a lot more than submitting to your Dom's will, dressing up and speaking down. You have to pay attention to your whole being - how you think, react, feel, position yourself, speak and look. In this book, we will explore the oft-taboo subject of BDSM and you will learn: Tips on how to present yourself as a perfect sub, things you have to prepare and look out for 17 hottest sub roleplay roles that you can use to titillate your Dom 239 naughtiest BDSM dirty talk examples to arouse each other to greater sexual heights If applied all these correctly, it can actually elevate your love life, so here's to exploring new and exciting world!

Submissive's Guide to Bdsm

Submissive's Guide to Bdsm
Author: Matthew Larocco
Publisher: Createspace Independent Publishing Platform
Total Pages: 114
Release: 2016-05-06
Genre: Bondage (Sexual behavior)
ISBN: 9781533120922

Being a sub means this BDSM game is really all about your pleasure. The Dom's goal is to provide you with the pleasure you crave and send you to a higher level of eroticism through very intensive sessions of bondage, discipline, sadism and masochism. During volume 1 we talked about trust; finding a Dom you can trust and one that meets your high standards. In this book, we are going to explain how you as a sub can develop a criteria for your Dom and ensure that each session is going to be enjoyable. Here are just some of the things you will discover in volume 2 of "Submissive's Guide To BDSM": What is your "Ideal Scene"--How and what you should tell your Dom, when he creates the scene --- How to create a mutually beneficial relationship with your Dom --- Etiquette on being a sub for the first time --- How to enjoy the pain as a sub --- How to work with multiple Doms --- How to reach a whole zenith of pleasure --- How to make your vanilla spouse enjoy BDSM with you --- And much more.

Guide to BDSM

Guide to BDSM
Author: Donna Prince
Publisher:
Total Pages: 194
Release: 2020-04-16
Genre:
ISBN:

You or your partner are fascinated by BDSM, but don't know how and where to start? Everything you need to know, you will find it in this book. Most of what people think about BDSM, is wrong. In reality BDSM is not degrading women or men and you will also understand that it's not as obscure as you think. And also the concept of "pain" we are talking about is not what people think. You will also understand that having the role of the Dom is not just about having pleasure, on the contrary, the Dom has the role of giving pleasure and discipline to the submissive. He must have pleasure in giving pleasure and not simply receiving what he wants. This book is intended for both Dominant and Submissive training. It's also perfect for those who haven't experience in this world. This is a taste of what you will find in this book: What is BDSM and Why? Introducing BDSM to your Partner What is Domination and Submission 8 Tips on how to get Started in BDSM 7 Mistakes New Submissives Make 10 must-have BDSM Toys for Beginners Bondage play Punishments Examples Types of Consents: SSC vs RACK Dominance Techniques Role-Play types SAFE WORDS: how to Choose them and why After reading this book you will have made your sex life richer and your partner will beg you for more. So... Scroll up, click the buy now button and get your copy of "Guide to BDSM" ! Check also the others "Sex Life Tips" books: 1 - Art of Seduction: Boost your Sexual Intelligence Learning How to Flirt with Techniques of Verbal Communication, Signal and Understand a Sex Desire for Woman and Man 2 - DIRTY TALK LANGUAGE: How to Learn with Examples of Phrases of Lust to Have a Great Sex with Your Man or Woman, Make It Wilder and Drive Your Partner Crazy 3 - Sex Games for Couples: Ways to Spice up your Relationship with Hot Quiz, Games and Sexy Conversation 4 - Guide to BDSM: to Have a Healthy and Mindful Dom / Sub Relationship, with Techniques of Dominance and How to be a Good Submissive for your Master

What Shamu Taught Me About Life, Love, and Marriage

What Shamu Taught Me About Life, Love, and Marriage
Author: Amy Sutherland
Publisher: Random House
Total Pages: 194
Release: 2008-02-12
Genre: Self-Help
ISBN: 1588366901

While observing exotic animal trainers for her acclaimed book Kicked, Bitten, and Scratched, journalist Amy Sutherland had an epiphany: What if she used these training techniques with the human animals in her own life–namely her dear husband, Scott? In this lively and perceptive book, Sutherland tells how she took the trainers’ lessons home. The next time her forgetful husband stomped through the house in search of his mislaid car keys, she asked herself, “What would a dolphin trainer do?” The answer was: nothing. Trainers reward the behavior they want and, just as important, ignore the behavior they don’t. Rather than appease her mate’s rising temper by joining in the search, or fuel his temper by nagging him to keep better track of his things in the first place, Sutherland kept her mouth shut and her eyes on the dishes she was washing. In short order, Scott found his keys and regained his cool. “I felt like I should throw him a mackerel,” she writes. In time, as she put more training principles into action, she noticed that she became more optimistic and less judgmental, and their twelve-year marriage was better than ever. What started as a goofy experiment had such good results that Sutherland began using the training techniques with all the people in her life, including her mother, her friends, her students, even the clerk at the post office. In the end, the biggest lesson she learned is that the only animal you can truly change is yourself. Full of fun facts, fascinating insights, hilarious anecdotes, and practical tips, What Shamu Taught Me About Life, Love, and Marriage describes Sutherland’s Alice-in-Wonderland experience of stumbling into a world where cheetahs walk nicely on leashes and elephants paint with watercolors, and of leaving a new, improved Homo sapiens.

Toxic Positivity

Toxic Positivity
Author: Whitney Goodman
Publisher: Penguin
Total Pages: 305
Release: 2024-04-02
Genre: Self-Help
ISBN: 0593542754

A powerful guide to owning our emotions—even the difficult ones—in order to show up authentically in the world, from the popular therapist behind the Instagram account @sitwithwhit. Every day, we’re bombarded with pressure to be positive. From “good vibes only” and “life is good” memes, to endless reminders to “look on the bright side,” we’re constantly told that the key to happiness is silencing negativity wherever it crops up—in ourselves and in others. Even when faced with illness, loss, breakups, and other challenges, there’s little space for talking about our real feelings—and processing them so that we can feel better and move forward. But if non-stop positivity is the answer, why are so many of us anxious, depressed, and burned out? In this refreshingly honest guide, sought-after therapist Whitney Goodman shares the latest research along with everyday examples and client stories that reveal how damaging toxic positivity is to ourselves and our relationships, and presents simple ways to experience and work through difficult emotions. The result is more authenticity, connection, and growth—and ultimately, a path to showing up as you truly are.

The Respect Dare

The Respect Dare
Author: Nina Roesner
Publisher: Thomas Nelson Inc
Total Pages: 239
Release: 2012
Genre: Family & Relationships
ISBN: 140020447X

"A long and happy marriage." It sounds like the end of a fairy tale--an illusion that modern times have exposed. And it is, if marriage depends on a constant stream of romantic emotion, or even on copious amounts of time or money. Thank the Lord, none of those are necessary. Two thousand years ago, Paul gave women the key to a successful marriage, and it can be summed up in two words: unconditional respect. It's not popular. It doesn't sound fair. It can be hard to imagine. But it works. Nina Roesner has led countless women through this practical and life-changing journey, and in The Respect Dare she offers you the hope that so many others have found. Day by day, true stories and thought-provoking questions will help you apply biblical wisdom to the most important relationship in your life. The book is filled with stories of struggle and success, and many practical applications of respect that have dramatically impacted marriages. Give it forty days. Experience the intimacy God intended and discover what he can do in your heart and in your marriage when you choose to show respect his way.

Domme Chronicles

Domme Chronicles
Author: Sharyn Ferns
Publisher: Createspace Independent Publishing Platform
Total Pages: 468
Release: 2013-12-16
Genre:
ISBN: 9781494737054

This anthology of true life vignettes offers intimate glimpses into hot BDSM play between a female dominant and her boy. It includes passionate moments that cover the gamut of play: teasing, denial, chastity, flogging, caning, pegging, slapping, and much more. It also includes incredibly sweet exchanges full of tenderness and ownership, lots of kissing, laughter, affection, and silliness. "Your breaths come hard and fast. I bite you relentlessly, thrusting up against you from behind. Every new attack makes you wince and moan, but still you push back against me until I am shoving you up against the wall, tearing at your skin like I am going to devour you."