Bdsm Basics For Submissives Dealing With The Mental And Emotional Side Of Submission
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| Author | : Michelle Fegatofi |
| Publisher | : Lulu.com |
| Total Pages | : 54 |
| Release | : 2014-09-24 |
| Genre | : Family & Relationships |
| ISBN | : 1312348305 |
Over the years, I have found a lot of helpless and sometimes clueless submissives that were mentally and emotionally abused by dominants. They each felt like they deserved anything they got and never even questioned the dominants about their behavior. One of the hardest things to learn as a new submissive in the world of BDSM is how to navigate and deal with the whirlwind of mental and emotional stress that can come from being in a D/s or M/s relationship. Many people believe they are not allowed to feel any bad feelings, think bad or wrong thoughts, and always have to be a happy submissive. As humans, we all have to deal with negative feelings and thoughts from time to time, even though we may be submissives. This guide is a tool that will help you understand, analyze, and deal with different types of emotions and mental stresses associated with being a submissive.
| Author | : Michelle Fegatofi |
| Publisher | : Lulu.com |
| Total Pages | : 103 |
| Release | : 2013-03-14 |
| Genre | : Family & Relationships |
| ISBN | : 1300837101 |
You have been drawn to the world of BDSM, but searching for one book to give you an overview of both Dominance and Submission. This book provides you with descriptions of all roles, different BDSM relationships, commonly used terms, guidelines for roles and responsibilities, and much more. After reading this book, you should have a well rounded foundation to start your journey further into the ever changing world that is known as BDSM.
| Author | : Belle |
| Publisher | : |
| Total Pages | : |
| Release | : 2014-03-18 |
| Genre | : |
| ISBN | : 9780992515928 |
Have you ever wanted to dominate or serve your lover? Whether you're just after something naughty to spice up your love life, or you are entering a devoted BDSM relationship and you'd like to formalise it with a contract, this adaptable deed is for you.Boost your intimacy and sexual repertoire. Use this legal style document to help you negotiate and define your kinky arrangement. This practical guide is ideal for establishing a power exchange experience. Use it to discuss your deepest desires and to keep your love life fresh. It's the perfect way to record your goals, desires and boundaries.Adds a new dynamic to your relationship. This deed covers all the essentials of a power exchange. Suitable for all levels of BDSM (from training to a total power exchange) including Master/slave, Mistress/slave or Dominant/submissive dynamics.Helps you bring up the topic. Some never get the chance to express their desires. This could be from fear of being judged (even by your own partner) or perhaps not knowing how to approach the topic. Filling out a kinky Contract is a light-hearted way to introduce a saucy conversation.Entices you to explore. Going over this document together can be fun and exciting (a real eye opener). The Activity Questionnaire guides you to create, talk about and plan your kinky scenes.Keeps communication open. A main reason any relationship fizzles is lack of communication. A written agreement encourages you to negotiate and communicate with each other. Revise it regularly to stay on track and to keep things fresh.Helps you stick to the arrangement. Having your rules set out in writing makes your roles seem more official.Suitable for: Married couples, partners & lovers looking to explore a kinky lifestyle; and BDSM couples (D/s, M/s) wishing to define the relationship.It's fun and easy to start.Please note: the Dominant/submissive Contract is for entertainment purposes only. It is NOT legally binding
| Author | : Chris M. Lyon |
| Publisher | : Createspace Independent Publishing Platform |
| Total Pages | : 0 |
| Release | : 2012-10-26 |
| Genre | : |
| ISBN | : 9781480160941 |
Have you felt 'left out' of the traditional relationship self-help books because you derive great pleasure from following your partner's requests and direction on many things in your life? Or do you respond to the natural inclination to guide, direct and protect your partner? Are your friends and family having difficulty understanding that your relationship works more like a captain and first mate on a boat? If so, this innovative book, Leading and Supportive Love, the Truth about Dominant and Submissive Relationships, can help with new and clearer understanding of yourself, your relationship and acceptance with those that you love and care for. The Dominant and Submissive Relationship is an ancient and contemporary harmonious dance that has become mysterious, magnetic, powerful, and controversial in modern day society. It may not be what you think, and some of the truth may surprise you! It's a law of nature for socialized animals and humans to have hierarchical relationships. There are those who answer that call in a more literal, thorough way. The couple has a 'pack leader'; or a dominant leader; and a submissive member. Through history to modern day, both roles have been held by both men and/or women...Oh and yes, this is a relationship where both partners are equals. Read about case illustrations, research insights, relationship help, and surprising details that may make you look at this type of long-term, committed relationship in a whole different way, no matter what gender you are! Do you identify with one of these lists of traits? Most people either do identify or know someone who does. If so, this unprecedented book is for you! S-Type Service to your partner is of great priority to you and you take it very seriously. Decisiveness, direction, and guidance from your partner makes you feel secure and loved. You avoid conflict and are generally non-confrontative in nature in close relationships. You greatly appreciate your partner being clear and direct with communication, so there are no doubts about what the expectations are. You appreciate the freedom that comes from structure, surrender, and personal discipline. L-Type You have natural dominant traits and seem comfortable and confident when using them. You place an importance on follow-through and follow-up from your partner. You step into your natural abilities to lead, guide, protect and direct. It's important to you that you earn trust from your partner. You will not ask for it or demand it up front. You feel safe, secure and valued when your partner trusts you to lead and make decisions in the areas agreed upon.
| Author | : Philip Miller |
| Publisher | : |
| Total Pages | : 0 |
| Release | : 1995 |
| Genre | : Sadomasochism |
| ISBN | : 9780964596009 |
Light-hearted and fun to read, SCREW THE ROSES, SEND IN THE THORNS tells readers everything they need (and want!) to know about sadomasochism. Deeply committed to the blend of trust, fantasy and sensuality that makes S/M an intensely erotic and deeply intimate experience, Miller and Devon here offer everyone - from the complete novice to the well-practised sub or dom - clear explanations, solid advice, safety measures and steamy suggestions. Illustrated with over 225 photos and illustrations, the book also includes a glossary and 30-page resources listing.
| Author | : Dossie Easton |
| Publisher | : SCB Distributors |
| Total Pages | : 182 |
| Release | : 2011-06-09 |
| Genre | : Self-Help |
| ISBN | : 1890159875 |
Three decades ago, this book and its companion volume "The New Topping Book" began teaching tens of thousands of people the joyous arts of BDSM topping and bottoming - not just "how-to," but "why-to"... the insider details of emotional support and ethical interaction during kinky play. Since then, the growing popularity of BDSM, and the blossoming of the Internet as a source of information and connection, have created a whole new universe of possibilities for players. Now, the completely updated revised New Bottoming Book and New Topping Book give even more insights and ideas, updated for a new millennium, about how to be a successful, popular player! What the experts are saying "The only way I can think of to learn more about bottming than Dossie Easton and Janet Hardy teach you in [The New Bottoming Book] is to go out and bottom for yourself." - William A. Henkin, Ph.D., co-author, Consensual Sadomasochism
| Author | : Elizabeth Cramer |
| Publisher | : Living Plus Healthy Publishing |
| Total Pages | : 61 |
| Release | : 2015-03-05 |
| Genre | : Self-Help |
| ISBN | : |
Nothing will prepare you for a life of submission in the same way as your formal training. Submissive training isn’t just a “good idea” when it comes to creating a BDSM relationship. It is essential. "Submissive Training: 23 Things You Must Know About How To Be A Submissive" is designed to help you know what to expect when you go through training with a new Dom. Every couple is unique and every Dom may have different ways of teaching you the systems of service he prefers. However, these are the basics all trained subs and slaves learn and employ in daily life. Rushing into a relationship or service contract with a Dom without training puts the future of your time together at risk. All of the arguments, resistance, misunderstandings and hurt feelings that go with a new submissive’s experiences can be eradicated by a period designated for learning, listening, trial and error. Even if you have been with a previous Dom you will need to go through an abbreviated training time to ensure your patterns and understandings match one another. Training is a way to “get in the same rhythm” and find the perfect groove. If you are a Dom, this guide is the perfect gift to give to your new sub. If you are a sub, this guide will teach you how to go through your submissive training. As you go through these things on the journey to become the woman you were made to be, you will be tested but you will also be proud, joyful and, perhaps for the first time in your life, you will be at peace.
| Author | : Catherine Scott |
| Publisher | : McFarland |
| Total Pages | : 229 |
| Release | : 2015-05-01 |
| Genre | : Social Science |
| ISBN | : 0786498633 |
When the mildly kink-themed trilogy 50 Shades of Grey became popular reading in 2012, the media speculated that feminism was in reverse, as the public went mad over bondage and discipline, domination and submission and sadomasochism (BDSM). The novels provoked academic debate about BDSM and the issues it raises for feminists. Is the female dominant truly powerful or is she just another objectified body? Does lesbian BDSM avoid the problematic nature of heterosexual kink, or is it actually more subject to the "male gaze" of feminist theory? And what is it about kink that has creators of pop culture--from Anne Rice to the producers of Scrubs--using it to attract audiences? Examining the tropes of kink in books, TV shows, film and the music industry, this work addresses these and other questions that depictions of BDSM raise for the feminist audience. The author interweaves her own research and experiences in the BDSM scene with the subculture's portrayal in the media. Instructors considering this book for use in a course may request an examination copy here.
| Author | : Sharyn Ferns |
| Publisher | : Createspace Independent Publishing Platform |
| Total Pages | : 468 |
| Release | : 2013-12-16 |
| Genre | : |
| ISBN | : 9781494737054 |
This anthology of true life vignettes offers intimate glimpses into hot BDSM play between a female dominant and her boy. It includes passionate moments that cover the gamut of play: teasing, denial, chastity, flogging, caning, pegging, slapping, and much more. It also includes incredibly sweet exchanges full of tenderness and ownership, lots of kissing, laughter, affection, and silliness. "Your breaths come hard and fast. I bite you relentlessly, thrusting up against you from behind. Every new attack makes you wince and moan, but still you push back against me until I am shoving you up against the wall, tearing at your skin like I am going to devour you."
| Author | : Gigi Engle |
| Publisher | : St. Martin's Griffin |
| Total Pages | : 384 |
| Release | : 2020-01-21 |
| Genre | : Self-Help |
| ISBN | : 9781250189738 |
Come As You Are meets How to Date Men When You Hate Men in this sex handbook for the millennial feminist on how to own your body and sexuality, and use that confidence to take charge of your life "This bold, sex-positive book delivers on its promise.” —Publishers Weekly Stop Apologizing for Your Sexuality and Take Charge of Your Life If you've ever wished you had a big sister or older cousin who could show you all the ropes of womanhood, look no further: Gigi Engle has done it all and is here to tell you all about it in All the F*cking Mistakes, a practical handbook for all the slutty and wanna-be-slutty women out there. It is the ultimate sex-talk book, demystifying female sexuality without any of the awkwardness of "the talk." From learning how to take back your confidence in a world full of slut shaming, to discovering and owning your sexual empowerment through masturbation, to demanding the love you really deserve, this book is an ode to the women of the world who deserve to be empowered, sexually and otherwise, without guilt. Offering bite-sized lessons that incorporate Gigi's own special brand of no-nonsense advice to provide clarity and guidance on all things slutty, sexually normative and non-normative, and everything that falls between the cracks of these brackets, this book is your how-to guide to living your sexy AF, fabulous life.
