200 Ideas for BDSM Sessions

200 Ideas for BDSM Sessions
Author: Lady Sas
Publisher:
Total Pages: 126
Release: 2017-11-26
Genre:
ISBN: 9781981145300

Fresh impulses and ideas keep every relationship alive and vibrant. The experienced Femdom Lady Sas from Frankfurt/Main has compiled 200 exciting, lustful and erotic ideas for you. Get inspired and use these ideas to make your next session a special highlight. The 200 ideas are divided into six categories: 1. SessionPlay: Ideas for a classic session between Mistress and slave. 2. Role-playing: Ideas for a different role and setting. 3. MindGames: Psycho games for the brain cinema. 4. Humiliation: Ideas on how to make the slave's cheeks blush with shame. 5. Chastity Control: Ideas for a slave wearing a chastity belt. 6. PartyPlay: Ideas for Femdom parties or games with several Femdoms. "It was very enjoyable to read and you have some amazing and creative ideas :) You have given me some lovely lifestyle ideas!" - Domina Liza, UK

Femdom Academy

Femdom Academy
Author: Lady Sas
Publisher: Independently Published
Total Pages: 258
Release: 2021-02-17
Genre:
ISBN:

The private Mistress Lady Sas lives BDSM. She writes one of the most popular Femdom blogs in Germany and shares her BDSM expertise in this course. This book is aimed at Femdoms and subs, singles and couples, beginners and advanced, who are looking for a contemporary course and guide to BDSM. With many helpful tips and countless practical ideas for great sessions and shining eyes. "Femdom Academy" goes far beyond BDSM basics and is also aimed at advanced players who are open to fresh impulses. Content Foreword - 7 Introduction - 9 About the Author - - 9 How Did the Femdom Academy Come About? - - 11 Contemporary SM Instead Clichés from the 90s - - 12 Everyone Has to Find Their Own SM Style - - 14 Lesson 1. The Mindset of a Femdom and a Sub - - 15 Understanding and Living the Femdom Role - - 17 The Intonation of a Femdom - - 19 Why Does a Man Submit? - 20 The Silence Challenge - - 24 The Femdom Mindset - - 28 The Malesub Mindset - - 30 The SSC Principle - 31 The RACK Principle - 33 Short Theory Section - - 35 Lesson 2. The Relationship Between Mistress and Sub - - 38 Rules Help to Distinguish Between Everyday Life and BDSM - - 41 Create Your Own Role - - 45 Lesson 3. Prepare the Session - - 52 The Location - - 52 What Should I Wear? - 55 Lesson 4. Start the Session - - 57 Greeting the Mistress - 58 Practical Tips - - 60 Practical Examples - - 62 A Mistress Needs No Reason - - 63 Topping from the Bottom - - 66 Lesson 5. The Language of a Mistress - 68 Practical Exercise - - 68 Role Models Are Not Always Easy to Find - - 69 The Art of Verbal Eroticism - 72 Lesson 6. One Session and 1,000 Possibilities - - 78 The Most Important SM Practices - - 81 Lesson 7. How to Come up with Creative Ideas for Your Session - - 143 The Mechanics of Imagination: "Carrot and Stick" - - 144 The Idea of a "Challenge" - - 146 The Idea of a "Surprise" - - 147 Lesson 8. Concrete Ideas for Your Session - - 161 Lesson 9. Your Equipment - - 156 Lesson 10: Safety and Communication During the Session - 163 Saying No - - 167 Slave Questionnaire - - 169 Golden SM Safety Rules - - 176 Covering - - 179 Lesson 11: Sexual Gratification - 181 The Orgasms of the Femdom - - 181 The Ruined Orgasm - 185 Forced Orgasms - 186 Prostate Milking - - 187 Lesson 12: Ending the Session - 191 The Follow-up Conversation - - 193 Hygiene - - 197 Lesson 13: Personal Development - 198 Goals for Femdoms - - 200 The Session Log - - 201 The Slave Contract - - 202 Lesson 14: Finding a Play Partner - 220 Finding the Right Play Partner: 10 Tips for Malesubs - 223 Finding the Right Play Partner: 10 Tips for Femdoms - - 227 Lesson 15. Happiness in BDSM - 232 Glossary/Terms - 237 Bonus - 249 Reader comments "A great book that has given me many new ideas and impulses." - Dominatrix Lisa "Very interesting, worth reading for beginners and advanced. Even we, who have been active in this genre for many years, found new inspiration. Clearly structured and logically built, the book is a pageturner." - Manuela "The book describes very sensitively and in detail how a femdom relationship can work best. It reveals secrets of the experienced, charming Lady Sas and encourages the open-minded readers to experience something new on the further way. Very well done and incredibly rich in advice." - Fluffy "Certainly the best book I have read so far on the subject of BDSM. And I have read many." - Mistress Emma

Femdom for Nice Girls

Femdom for Nice Girls
Author: Lucy Fairbourne
Publisher:
Total Pages: 106
Release: 2017-10-20
Genre: Family & Relationships
ISBN: 9781905605521

A female-friendly guide to the erotic domination of the male by the female in a way that will benefit both. Each chapter is followed by a self-guided journal section, where you are encouraged to explore and clarify your feelings and responses to the themes being explored, thus helping both lovers illuminate mutual desires, needs and boundaries.

Pro-Domme

Pro-Domme
Author: Aleta Cai
Publisher: Independently Published
Total Pages: 122
Release: 2019-04-15
Genre:
ISBN: 9781794544680

In this guide, you'll learn practical steps towards becoming a professional dominatrix. You'll learn how to brand yourself, how to advertise, how to vet clients as well as how to sustain your business. Additionally, there are 24 lessons that I, Aleta Cai, a well-known independent dominatrix in NYC learned through my experience in the industry over many years.

The Professional Dominatrix Handbook

The Professional Dominatrix Handbook
Author: Blonde Goddess
Publisher:
Total Pages: 131
Release: 2017-01-30
Genre:
ISBN: 9781520271286

A handbook for BDSM specifically meant for professionals. Ladies who practice BDSM for pay encounter unique situations which are not discussed in other books about BDSM. Learn what to expect during the initial days as a Dominatrix, as well as information regarding important legal issues and safety issues, and business practices that will augment your professional practice. This book contains detailed discussions of submissive male psychology, types of sessions commonly requested of professional Dominants, a detailed discussion of types of equipment that you should be familiar with, as well as equipment care. Although it is meant as an introduction only, this book will provide invaluable information to any professional sex worker, as well as the lay person who would like access to information which can only be found in this book.

Bow Down

Bow Down
Author: Lindsay Goldwert
Publisher: Tiller Press
Total Pages: 304
Release: 2021-01-19
Genre: Self-Help
ISBN: 1982130512

*One of Glamour’s Best Books of 2020* Popular podcast host and personal finance expert Lindsay Goldwert explores what professional dominatrixes can teach us about confidence, power, and happiness. Imagine, for a moment, a world where the usual power dynamic is turned on its head. Where women not only stop apologizing, but seize—and enjoy—control. This is the quickly mainstreaming world of BDSM (bondage, discipline, sadism, masochism)—and it has a lot to teach women about empowerment, negotiation, open-mindedness, and more. Journalist Lindsay Goldwert, intrigued by this seismic cultural shift, traveled across the United States to meet the stars of the subculture, who spoke frankly with her about their lives and work. In this “lively, funny, thoughtful channeling of wisdom” (Sara Benincasa, author of Real Artists Have Day Jobs), these Alpha women show you how you can reset the power dynamic in any situation to get what you want—whether it’s from a husband, a boss, or partner. They share strategies for revolutionizing not only your sex life, but your career, your relationships, and most importantly, your inner foundations. With bondage gear popping up on the big screen, the runway, the red carpet, and in celebrity lingerie lines, BDSM is officially moving out of the dungeon and into the sun. Let Bow Down help you learn how to use it. “Whether your fantasies lie in the bedroom or the boardroom, Lindsay will give you the courage to go forth and dominate.” (Sarah Cooper, author of How to Be Successful without Hurting Men’s Feelings).

Kink

Kink
Author: R.O. Kwon
Publisher: Simon and Schuster
Total Pages: 288
Release: 2021-02-09
Genre: Fiction
ISBN: 1982110228

A New York Times Notable Book Kink is a groundbreaking anthology of literary short fiction exploring love and desire, BDSM, and interests across the sexual spectrum, edited by lauded writers R.O. Kwon and Garth Greenwell, and featuring a roster of all-star contributors including Alexander Chee, Roxane Gay, Carmen Maria Machado, and more. A Most-Anticipated book of 2021 as selected by * Marie Claire * O, The Oprah Magazine * Cosmopolitan * Time * The Millions * The Advocate * Autostraddle * Refinery29 * Shape * Town & Country * Book Riot * Literary Hub * Kink is a dynamic anthology of literary fiction that opens an imaginative door into the world of desire. The stories within this collection portray love, desire, BDSM, and sexual kinks in all their glory with a bold new vision. The collection includes works by renowned fiction writers such as Callum Angus, Alexander Chee, Vanessa Clark, Melissa Febos, Kim Fu, Roxane Gay, Cara Hoffman, Zeyn Joukhadar, Chris Kraus, Carmen Maria Machado, Peter Mountford, Larissa Pham, and Brandon Taylor, with Garth Greenwell and R.O. Kwon as editors. The stories within explore bondage, power-play, and submissive-dominant relationships; we are taken to private estates, therapists’ offices, underground sex clubs, and even a sex theater in early-20th century Paris. While there are whips and chains, sure, the true power of these stories lies in their beautiful, moving dispatches from across the sexual spectrum of interest and desires, as portrayed by some of today’s most exciting writers.

Radical Ecstasy

Radical Ecstasy
Author: Dossie Easton
Publisher: SCB Distributors
Total Pages: 179
Release: 2011-08-02
Genre: Self-Help
ISBN: 1890159905

For millennia, seekers have used physical and emotional extremes to achieve transcendence and exaltation. Today, many BDSM and leather practitioners are discovering the potential of SM practice to reach personal, interpersonal and spiritual goals. In Radical Ecstasy, bestselling BDSM/sexuality authors Easton and Hardy document their own journeys into the transcendent realm of kink. With their trademark frankness and humor, they share their own stories and philosophies. They also share techniques that have worked for them - techniques which combine tantric breathing, visualization and movement with a combined half-century of BDSM experience - to create states of transcendence during solo and partnered sexual and BDSM practice. As outrageously revolutionary as any sex book published in the last decade, Radical Ecstasy sets the stage for the new millennium in BDSM and sacred-sex practices - a "must" for any kink, tantra, pagan or sacred-sex practitioner. "Amazingly mindful exploration of that which cannot be easily put into words... the ecstatic experience from sex to sadomasochism, from trance to intuition to archetypes and spiritual awakening. Totally real and personal. Not a 'how to' but a nurturing 'can do' book." - Fakir Musafar, father of the modern primitive movement. "Progressive, deliciously honest, and HOT HOT HOT! Dossie and Janet ask difficult questions about the nature of sex, intimacy and ecstasy, then they actually manage to answer the questions, plus turn us on when they do. These two erotically gifted women have a way with words - and sex. They raise the bar on erotic writing and sex education to new heights. I'm in awe." - Annie Sprinkle, Ph.D., prostitute/porn star turned sex guru/sexologist "Fascinating, heartfelt, honest, real stories of the heart/spirit/energy connection experienced in the passionate rituals of intimate consensual power play. These two courageous women write brilliantly of how erotic energies connect us with the big love we all seek from the source." - Cleo Dubois, educator, ritualist, video producer/star

A Girl's Guide to Femdom

A Girl's Guide to Femdom
Author: Lucy Fairbourne
Publisher:
Total Pages: 58
Release: 2017-01-27
Genre: Self-Help
ISBN: 9781905605514

This book is a rich resource of ideas for the woman who has embarked upon a femdom journey with her man and is hungry for new kinky territory to conquer. The material is arranged across twelve monthly sections, with 52 varied entries offering a different idea or scenario for each week of the year.

How To Handle Disobedience

How To Handle Disobedience
Author: Sharyn Ferns
Publisher:
Total Pages: 145
Release: 2019-12-27
Genre:
ISBN: 9781673462517

"My submissive won't do what I want!" This is a common complaint, especially for new femdoms. This guide will help.Whether your submissive forgets to do things you've asked of them, or doesn't complete tasks you set, or thinks it's fun to disobey, or outright says 'no' when you ask something of them, this guide is for you. As a new Domme, disobedience can shake your confidence and leave you struggling because you just aren't sure what to do. Maybe you've tried a bunch of things to get your dynamic back on track, but it hasn't worked out as you'd hoped.This short, sharp, practical 'How To' femdom guide is for you.Discover why your submissive disobeys, what makes them obey, and how you can build a dynamic that makes them want to fall over themselves to obey you. Far past the basics of building a relationship where obedience is a given, this guide presents an actionable strategy for handling your submissive's disobedience: SLAPS*.SLAPS is an acronym that describes 5 practical steps that will not only help you handle your submissive's disobedience, but that will also strengthen your dynamic while you're at it. S - Seek Clarity L - Listen A - Agree P - Punish (optional) S - Start fresh SLAPS is not just going to help you to deal with an instance of disobedience, but will help you use the experience to better understand your submissive, to improve communication, to increase intimacy, and to make your dynamic and your relationship better. The toolset and strategies in this guide reach wider than simple disobedience and you can apply them more broadly, but if you just want to deal with your submissive not doing what you want, it will absolutely help you. *This guide contains no actual slaps!