What Men with Asperger Syndrome Want to Know About Women, Dating and Relationships

What Men with Asperger Syndrome Want to Know About Women, Dating and Relationships
Author: Maxine Aston
Publisher: Jessica Kingsley Publishers
Total Pages: 210
Release: 2012-07-15
Genre: Psychology
ISBN: 0857005545

Positive, practical and realistic, this book offers a wealth of information on women, dating and relationships for men with Asperger Syndrome (AS). Many AS men are totally confused and bewildered by women and relationships and find it hard to know what to do, what to say and how to get it right. For these men, understanding the emotional side to relationships and women's needs can be a complete mystery and they often get it disastrously wrong. This practical handbook provides the answers to Asperger men's most frequently asked questions about women, dating and relationships, helping them to understand the way relationships work and increasing their confidence and ability to have successful relationships. This comprehensive handbook is essential reading for men with Asperger Syndrome (and their partners). It will also be of immeasurable use to counsellors and other professionals working with such individuals.

22 Things a Woman with Asperger's Syndrome Wants Her Partner to Know

22 Things a Woman with Asperger's Syndrome Wants Her Partner to Know
Author: Rudy Simone
Publisher: Jessica Kingsley Publishers
Total Pages: 146
Release: 2012
Genre: Psychology
ISBN: 1849058830

Rudy Simone covers 22 common areas of confusion for someone dating a female with AS, including advice from her own experience and that of other couples. She talks with humour and honesty about the little things that might be different from a relationship with a neurotypical woman and discusses first dates, sex, and even having children.

22 Things a Woman Must Know If She Loves a Man with Asperger's Syndrome

22 Things a Woman Must Know If She Loves a Man with Asperger's Syndrome
Author: Rudy Simone
Publisher: Jessica Kingsley Publishers
Total Pages: 116
Release: 2009-05-15
Genre: Family & Relationships
ISBN: 1846429455

Although having Asperger Syndrome (AS) can make romantic relations difficult, having a fulfilling relationship with an Asperger man is certainly not impossible. A woman in love with a man with AS may interpret his difficulties with communication and socialization as a lack of interest in the relationship. He may vacillate between being gentle and caring to seeming cold and distant. She may find his behaviour hard to understand, resulting in feelings of loneliness, isolation, and confusion. This book shows how to overcome these difficulties and maintain a loving relationship with an AS partner. From an unwillingness to show affection in public or even sleep in the same bed to problems holding down a job, this book looks at 22 common traits that women may discover when they are dating, living with or married to a man with Asperger's Syndrome. Rudy Simone explores the complications of Asperger's relationships with honesty and understanding, drawing on research and personal experience to inform and advise women with AS partners. She offers helpful tips for improving the relationship and finding fulfillment both individually and as a couple. This book will help women to understand the male Asperger's mind and, equally, it can help men with AS to see things from their partner's perspective. It will also be of interest to counsellors working with couples where the male partner has Asperger's Syndrome.

A Field Guide to Earthlings

A Field Guide to Earthlings
Author: Ian Ford
Publisher: Ian Ford Software Corp
Total Pages: 220
Release: 2010
Genre: Education
ISBN: 0615426190

Autistic people often live in a state of anxiety and confusion about the social world, running into misunderstandings and other barriers. This book unlocks the inner workings of neurotypical behavior, which can be mysterious to autistics. Proceeding from root concepts of language and culture through 62 behavior patterns used by neurotypical people, the book reveals how they structure a mental map of the world in symbolic webs of beliefs, how those symbols are used to filter perception, how they build and display their identity, how they compete for power, and how they socialize and develop relationships--

Neurodiverse Relationships

Neurodiverse Relationships
Author: Joanna Stevenson
Publisher: Jessica Kingsley Publishers
Total Pages: 218
Release: 2019-07-18
Genre: Family & Relationships
ISBN: 1787750299

Comprised of the accounts of twelve heterosexual couples in which the man is on the Autism Spectrum, this book invites both partners to discuss their own perspectives of different key issues, including anxiety, empathy, employment and socialising. Autism expert Tony Attwood contributes a commentary and a question and answer section for each of the twelve accounts. The first book of its kind to provide perspectives from both sides of a relationship on a variety of different topics, Neurodiverse Relationships is the perfect companion for couples in neurodiverse relationships who are trying to understand one another better.

Aspergers in Love

Aspergers in Love
Author: Maxine Aston
Publisher: Jessica Kingsley Publishers
Total Pages: 234
Release: 2003-03-14
Genre: Psychology
ISBN: 1846423945

Asperger syndrome (AS) has often been considered to be incompatible with love and relationships, but as the number of people who are diagnosed with the disorder increases, it is becoming apparent that people with AS can and do have full and intimate relationships. Comparing and contrasting both AS and non-AS partners' viewpoints, this book frankly examines the fundamental aspects of relationships that are often complicated by the disorder. With all findings illustrated with case examples taken from interviews conducted with couples, the author tackles issues such as attraction, trust, communication, sex and intimacy, and parenting. Drawing on her extensive research and established career as a Relate counsellor, Maxine Aston has produced a much-needed analysis of intimate relationships where one adult has AS and this book is a must for all those with AS and their partners, as well as for friends, family and counsellors.

Love, Sex and Long-term Relationships

Love, Sex and Long-term Relationships
Author: Sarah Hendrickx
Publisher: Jessica Kingsley Publishers
Total Pages: 148
Release: 2008
Genre: Psychology
ISBN: 1843106051

"This accessible book is an invaluable source of information and support for couples in which one or both partners has Asperger Syndrome, as well as counsellors and health and social care professionals."--BOOK JACKET.

Undercover Sex Signals

Undercover Sex Signals
Author: Leil Lowndes
Publisher: Citadel Press
Total Pages: 274
Release: 2006
Genre: Self-Help
ISBN: 9780806527932

Leil Lowndes offers a new way to look at male-female communication offering straightforward advice in a relaxed no-nonsense style on how to recognise and read the 26 most common female sex signals. Bestselling author and communications expert Leil Lowndes literally shows men what sex signals to look for with dozens of photos that illustrate women's non-verbal body language. Full of foolproof dating advice on everything from the best activity for a first date to how a guy should dress to impress, UNdercover Sex Signals can help even the most clueless men to dating success.

The Journal of Best Practices

The Journal of Best Practices
Author: David Finch
Publisher: Simon and Schuster
Total Pages: 235
Release: 2012-01-03
Genre: Biography & Autobiography
ISBN: 1439189757

*A New York Times Bestseller* A warm and hilarious memoir by a man diagnosed with Asperger syndrome who sets out to save his relationship. Five years after David Finch married Kristen, the love of his life, they learned that he has Asperger syndrome. The diagnosis explained David’s ever-growing list of quirks and compulsions, but it didn’t make him any easier to live with. Determined to change, David set out to understand Asperger syndrome and learn to be a better husband with an endearing zeal. His methods for improving his marriage involve excessive note-taking, performance reviews, and most of all, the Journal of Best Practices: a collection of hundreds of maxims and hard-won epiphanies, including “Don’t change the radio station when she’s singing along” and “Apologies do not count when you shout them.” David transforms himself from the world’s most trying husband to the husband who tries the hardest. He becomes the husband he’d always meant to be. Filled with humor and wisdom, The Journal of Best Practices is a candid story of ruthless self-improvement, a unique window into living with an autism spectrum condition, and proof that a true heart is the key to happy marriage.