Tricky People: How to Deal With Horrible Types Before They Ruin Your Life

Tricky People: How to Deal With Horrible Types Before They Ruin Your Life
Author: Andrew Fuller
Publisher: HarperCollins
Total Pages: 288
Release: 2013-07-01
Genre: Psychology
ISBN: 9781460701249

TRICKY PEOPLE profiles the whole range of 'difficult' types we've all encountered at times in social or business situations: back-stabbers, white-anters, blamers, whingers, bullies, tyrants, controllers, charmers, know-it-alls, perfectionists, competitors and the seriously self-obsessed. It offers imaginative yet practical ways to deal with these dangerous and frustrating creatures and identify the slippery techniques they employ to get their way. Buried cleverly within all the humour is an in-depth look at how difficult people manage us for their own ends - and how to overturn that. It helps us understand relationship patterns, office politics, our own shortcomings in our dealings with others, and what a difficult person might be able to teach us.

In the Land of Difficult People

In the Land of Difficult People
Author: Terrence L. GARGIULO
Publisher: Amacom Books
Total Pages: 183
Release: 2008-04-30
Genre: Business & Economics
ISBN: 0814401856

A gripping, entertaining—and instructive—collection of tales about wicked wolves, power-hungry lions... and other creatures at work.

Getting Along

Getting Along
Author: Amy Gallo
Publisher: Harvard Business Press
Total Pages: 326
Release: 2022-09-13
Genre: Business & Economics
ISBN: 164782107X

Named one of "22 new books…that you should consider reading before the year is out" by Fortune "This practical and empathetic guide to taking the high road is worth a look for workers lost in conflict." — Publisher's Weekly A research-based, practical guide for how to handle difficult people at work. Work relationships can be hard. The stress of dealing with difficult people dampens our creativity and productivity, degrades our ability to think clearly and make sound decisions, and causes us to disengage. We might lie awake at night worrying, withdraw from work, or react in ways we later regret—rolling our eyes in a meeting, snapping at colleagues, or staying silent when we should speak up. Too often we grin and bear it as if we have no choice. Or throw up our hands because one-size-fits-all solutions haven't worked. But you can only endure so much thoughtless, irrational, or malicious behavior—there's your sanity to consider, and your career. In Getting Along, workplace expert and Harvard Business Review podcast host Amy Gallo identifies eight familiar types of difficult coworkers—the insecure boss, the passive-aggressive peer, the know-it-all, the biased coworker, and others—and provides strategies tailored to dealing constructively with each one. She also shares principles that will help you turn things around, no matter who you're at odds with. Taking the high road isn't easy, but Gallo offers a crucial perspective on how work relationships really matter, as well as the compassion, encouragement, and tools you need to prevail—on your terms. She answers questions such as: Why can't I stop thinking about that nasty email?! What's behind my problem colleague's behavior? How can I fix things if they won't cooperate? I've tried everything—what now? Full of relatable, sometimes cringe-worthy examples, the latest behavioral science research, and practical advice you can use right now, Getting Along is an indispensable guide to navigating your toughest relationships at work—and building interpersonal resilience in the process.

Zen and the Art of Dealing with Difficult People

Zen and the Art of Dealing with Difficult People
Author: Mark Westmoquette
Publisher: Watkins Media Limited
Total Pages: 182
Release: 2021-12-14
Genre: Self-Help
ISBN: 1786786109

This is a unique guide to coping with challenging people using practical Zen and mindfulness tools. It helps readers explore their reactions, break free from knee-jerk response patterns and see if these people may in fact prove to be useful teachers in life – troublesome Buddhas. This is a guide to applying the teachings of mindfulness and Zen to the troublesome or challenging people in our lives. Perhaps you can see there’s often a pattern to your behaviour in relation to them and that it often causes pain – perhaps a great deal of pain. The only way we can grow is by facing this pain, acknowledging how we feel and how we’ve reacted, and making an intention or commitment to end this repeating pattern of suffering. In this book, Mark Westmoquette speaks from a place of profound personal experience. A Zen monk, he has endured two life-changing traumas caused by other people: his sexual abuse by his own father; and his stepfather’s death and mother’s very serious injury in a car crash due to the careless driving of an off-duty policeman. He stresses that by bringing awareness and kindness to these relationships, our initial stance of “I can’t stand this person, they need to change” will naturally shift into something much broader and more inclusive. The book makes playful use of Zen koans – apparently nonsensical phrases or stories – to help jar us out of habitual ways of perceiving the world and nudge us toward a new perspective of wisdom and compassion.

Shout NO!

Shout NO!
Author: Sara Ernst
Publisher: Independently Published
Total Pages: 36
Release: 2021-01-16
Genre:
ISBN:

Effectively, yet gently written...Sara Ernst has taken her internationally-heard song, "Shout No" and created a book from it for young visual learners and early readers everywhere. This is Sara Ernst's fourth children's book, but the one she considers her most influential. Children of every age have voices and have the right to use them! NO ONE should EVER do something to a child that makes them feel uncomfortable...or that isn't right! Not a stranger. Not a friend. Not a family member. NO ONE! The knowledge in this book could potentially save a child from an unsafe situation! The charming illustrations will engage young readers while keeping the emphasis on the important words they will see and hear. This book should be used as both a simple guide for very young children, as well as a jumping off point for further conversations as they grow. READ-ALONG AND SING-ALONG! Listen to the song while you follow along in the book! Find the song, "Shout No" by Sara Ernst on all major music platforms for easy streaming or download. You can also listen for free on www.wildpicklepress.com!WHAT DO ADULTS HAVE TO SAY ABOUT IT?"Shout No is the perfect way to teach little ones what to do when they're faced with tricky situations and people. With clear and concise directions, your child will be empowered to act in their own self defense. I highly recommend this book as a tool for anyone interested in protecting children from harm." -Greta Eskridge, Author of "Adventuring Together" and Child Advocate"Increasing safety for a child is not just a conversation, and certainly not about increasing fear, but includes PRACTICE and CONDITIONING our kids to establish confidence in what to do when they feel uncomfortable or unsafe. I encourage every caregiver and child to not just read this book...but PRACTICE THIS BOOK so kids don't have to think of what to do when they feel threatened." - Kirsten Parker-Smith, Social Worker"As a story time leader and children's library event planner, I feel that I could read this book to a group of kids at the library and have it explain "stranger dangers," or as the book refers to them, "tricky people." Shout No is intentional about addressing real-life endangerment and carefully conveys how to confront them at a child's level." - Mary Pavalonis, Youth Services, Librarian"Whether you are a rookie or a seasoned veteran, teachers everywhere will be praising Shout No. Shout No addresses a very serious and all too common situation in a way that's easy to understand for children. It opens the door for more conversations between children and their trusted adults. This book will have a permanent spot on my personal and classroom bookshelves." -Angela Davis, Elementary School Teacher"I highly recommend this book to all parents as a great way to build children's confidence, as well as the needed tools and life skills to empower them to stand up for themselves as they grow up in today's world."- Nell Mikkelson, Elementary School Counselor

How to Deal With Difficult People

How to Deal With Difficult People
Author: Gill Hasson
Publisher: John Wiley & Sons
Total Pages: 215
Release: 2014-10-29
Genre: Family & Relationships
ISBN: 0857085719

DON’T LET PROBLEM PEOPLE GET TO YOU! Whether it’s a manager who keeps moving the goal posts, an uncooperative colleague, negative friend, or critical family member, some people are just plain hard to get along with. Often, your immediate response is to shrink or sulk, become defensive or attack. But there are smarter moves to make when dealing with difficult people. This book explains how to cope with a range of situations with difficult people and to focus on what you can change. This book will help you to: Understand what makes difficult people tick and how best to handle them Learn ways to confidently stand up to others and resist the urge to attack back Develop strategies to calmly navigate emotionally-charged situations Deal with all kinds of difficult people – hostile, manipulative and the impossible Know when to choose your battles, and when to walk away Why let someone else’s bad attitude ruin your day? How to Deal With Difficult People arms you with all the tools and tactics you need to handle all kinds of people – to make your life less stressful and a great deal easier.

Perfect Phrases for Dealing with Difficult People: Hundreds of Ready-to-Use Phrases for Handling Conflict, Confrontations and Challenging Personalities

Perfect Phrases for Dealing with Difficult People: Hundreds of Ready-to-Use Phrases for Handling Conflict, Confrontations and Challenging Personalities
Author: Susan Benjamin
Publisher: McGraw Hill Professional
Total Pages: 242
Release: 2007-09-06
Genre: Business & Economics
ISBN: 0071595120

Perfect Phrases for the Right Situation, Every Time Whether it's hiring employees or creating teams, the Perfect Phrases series has the tools for precise, effective communication in any situation. With Perfect Phrases books, you have all the phrases you need to get things done, right at your fingertips!

Tricky People

Tricky People
Author: Andrew Fuller
Publisher:
Total Pages: 191
Release: 2013
Genre: Interpersonal conflict
ISBN: 9780732298197

Psychologist Andrew Fuller helps us find imaginative ways to deal with the difficult, manipulative and frustrating people we encounter at home, in our social circle and in business. TRICKY PEOPLE profiles the whole range of 'difficult' types we've all encountered at times in social or business situations: back-stabbers, white-anters, blamers, whingers, bullies, tyrants, controllers, charmers, know-it-alls, perfectionists, competitors and the seriously self-obsessed. It offers imaginative yet practical ways to deal with these dangerous and frustrating creatures and identify the slippery techniques they employ to get their way. Buried cleverly within all the humour is an in-depth look at how difficult people manage us for their own ends - and how to overturn that. It helps us understand relationship patterns, office politics, our own shortcomings in our dealings with others, and what a difficult person might be able to teach us.

The Tricky Part

The Tricky Part
Author: Martin Moran
Publisher: Beacon Press
Total Pages: 304
Release: 2005
Genre: Biography & Autobiography
ISBN: 9780807072622

Martin Moran_s family lived in a Denver neighborhood called Virginia Vale. But what seemed most central, most important, was that they belonged to Christ the King the church and school up the hill. And what Martin learned, as a good Catholic boy, was that the Hereafter was what counted; the here fickle and unreliable was the problem.Martin_s world changed abruptly when, at the age of twelve, a church-camp counselor seduced him. New York Times theater critic Ben Brantley--praising Moran_s one-act play, The Tricky Part, for the quiet victory of rendering chaos with this kind of clarity--called his telling of this event a crystalline accumulation of moments.In his memoir Moran takes us deeper into the ongoing sexual relationship that followed the seduction, and for the first time he explores its effects upon his adult life. And finally, in a scene of stunning power and restraint, Moran confronts the perpetrator, now an old man in a veteran_s hospital. In examining the paradoxes of human relationships, Moran manages to uncover divine grace in the most unlikely forms.

The Texan's Inherited Family

The Texan's Inherited Family
Author: Noelle Marchand
Publisher: Harlequin
Total Pages: 281
Release: 2015-03-01
Genre: Fiction
ISBN: 1460378903

A Father in the Making Busy Texas farmer Quinn Tucker is used to raising crops, not children. So when four nieces and nephews are left in his care, it's not long before he realizes they need a mother. But his search for a wife leads to the least likely woman for illiterate Quinn—schoolmarm Helen McKenna. City girl Helen has been told she'll never have children—and, it seems, a husband. So she jumps at the chance to be a mother to Quinn's little family. Though he is far from her image of an ideal husband, maybe a marriage in name will blossom into something more… Bachelor List Matches: A hand-picked bride for every bachelor in small-town Texas