Healing the Wounded Heart

Healing the Wounded Heart
Author: Dan B. Allender
Publisher: Baker Books
Total Pages: 309
Release: 2016-02-23
Genre: Religion
ISBN: 1493401513

First published in 1989, Dan Allender's The Wounded Heart has helped hundreds of thousands of people come to terms with sexual abuse in their past. Now, more than twenty-five years later, Allender has written a brand-new book on the subject that takes into account recent discoveries about the lasting physical, emotional, relational, and spiritual ramifications of sexual abuse. With great compassion Allender offers hope for victims of rape, date rape, incest, molestation, sexting, sexual bullying, unwanted advances, pornography, and more, exposing the raw wounds that are left behind and clearing the path toward wholeness and healing. Never minimizing victims' pain or offering pat spiritual answers that don't truly address the problem, he instead calls evil evil and lights the way to renewed joy. Counselors, pastors, and friends of those who have suffered sexual harm will find in this book the deep spiritual guidance they need to effectively minister to the sexually broken around them. Victims themselves will find here a sympathetic friend to walk alongside them on the road to healing.

Suffering and the Heart of God

Suffering and the Heart of God
Author: Diane Langberg
Publisher: New Growth Press
Total Pages: 316
Release: 2015-09-01
Genre: Religion
ISBN: 1942572034

She's seen slave dungeons in Ghana. Genocide in Rwanda. Systemic sexual abuse in Brazil. Child abuse and domestic violence in the US. After forty years of counseling abuse survivors around the world, Dr. Diane Langberg, a world renowned trauma expert, remains certain that what trauma destroys, Christ can and does restore. This book will convince you, too, of the healing heart of God. But it's not a fast process, instead much patience is required from family, friends, and counselors as they wisely and respectfully help victims unpack their traumatic suffering through talking, tears, and time. And it's not a process that can be separated from the work of God in both a counselor and counselee. Dr. Langberg calls all of those who wish to help sufferers to model Jesus's sacrificial love and care in how they listen, love, and guide. The heart of God is revealed to sufferers as they grow to understand the cross of Christ and how their God came to this earth and experienced such severe suffering that he too is "well-acquainted with grief." The cross of Christ is the lens that transforms and redeems traumatic suffering and its aftermath, not only for the sufferer, but it also transforms those who walk with the suffering. This book will be a great help to anyone who loves, listens to, and seeks to help someone impacted by trauma and abuse. There is no quick fix, but there is the hope for healing through the love of God in Christ.

Terror in the Heart of Freedom

Terror in the Heart of Freedom
Author: Hannah Rosén
Publisher: Univ of North Carolina Press
Total Pages: 421
Release: 2009
Genre: History
ISBN: 0807832022

Terror in the Heart of Freedom: Citizenship, Sexual Violence, and the Meaning of Race in the Postemancipation South

Healing the Rape... Healing the Heart

Healing the Rape... Healing the Heart
Author: Elizabeth McKittrick
Publisher: Balboa Press
Total Pages: 97
Release: 2016-04-26
Genre: Body, Mind & Spirit
ISBN: 1504351622

At nine years old, Elizabeth was raped. She didnt talk of it for years and suffered those first years alone, in much deep shame, sorrow, emotional pain, and condemnation. The passage of time allowed the devastating experience to be buried till it was no longer remembered. She dated and married, delivering two boys to the union. The marriage appeared normal. A few years later when touched by her husband, she flinched. When asked if she had ever been raped, her sobbing answer was yes. The buried experience finally came to light where it could be healed. With the total support of her husband, she now had the courage and strength to heal her heart. She left the path of reflex and reaction to enter the moment of the now. When we pause in the now and enter our quiet stillness, we come to deeper truth and clearer understanding. More peace can be ours. During a year of disciplined, deep meditation, Elizabeth experienced her own miracle and a much deeper, more complete healing cure of her rape experience than she ever thought possible. This book offers a path to peace, to awareness of your inner spirit self. It gives steps that can help you heal your heart, your pain.

Strong at the Heart

Strong at the Heart
Author: Carolyn Lehman
Publisher:
Total Pages: 170
Release: 2014-02-03
Genre: Child sexual abuse
ISBN: 9780989463607

Every year more than half a million young people are sexually abused or assaulted in North America. This groundbreaking book brings readers face-to-face with nine survivors who speak with candor and courage about the abuse they experienced, how they have healed, and how they are moving forward with their lives. White, black, Latino, and Native American, these everyday heroes come from a wide range of communities and have found different ways to cope with and overcome sexual trauma. Through moving personal stories and striking photographs they take readers into their lives, offering insight and hope for anyone affected by this all-too-common childhood experience. In this book about healing, young readers and their families will find additional information in the resource section, a comprehensive guide to the best help lines, books, films, and Web sites on healing and resilience.

Petitions of My Heart

Petitions of My Heart
Author: Rhythm Kapoor
Publisher: Notion Press
Total Pages: 156
Release: 2020-12-02
Genre: Poetry
ISBN: 1648057519

“From the inventory of my heart which isn’t and never will be bullet proof” Rhythm Kapoor curated this collection of poems, over the course of three years, with the intention of capturing the true essence of her authentic self. Her writing has been an integral part of her development and this book is a wonderful opportunity to share the emotions of her journey. Kapoor’s poetry explores topics such as heartbreak, rape, depression, sexual exploration, self-love, romance, and travelling. Her writing exemplifies her wild and raw nature as she takes her readers to the darkest and most vulnerable moments of her life.

My Heart Is a Chainsaw

My Heart Is a Chainsaw
Author: Stephen Graham Jones
Publisher: Simon and Schuster
Total Pages: 432
Release: 2021-08-31
Genre: Fiction
ISBN: 1982137657

Winner of the Bram Stoker Award for Best Novel In her quickly gentrifying rural lake town Jade sees recent events only her encyclopedic knowledge of horror films could have prepared her for in this latest chilling novel that “will give you nightmares. The good kind, of course” (BuzzFeed) from the Jordan Peele of horror literature, Stephen Graham Jones. “Some girls just don’t know how to die…” Shirley Jackson meets Friday the 13th in My Heart Is a Chainsaw, written by the New York Times bestselling author of The Only Good Indians Stephen Graham Jones, called “a literary master” by National Book Award winner Tananarive Due and “one of our most talented living writers” by Tommy Orange. Alma Katsu calls My Heart Is a Chainsaw “a homage to slasher films that also manages to defy and transcend genre.” On the surface is a story of murder in small-town America. But beneath is its beating heart: a biting critique of American colonialism, Indigenous displacement, and gentrification, and a heartbreaking portrait of a broken young girl who uses horror movies to cope with the horror of her own life. Jade Daniels is an angry, half-Indian outcast with an abusive father, an absent mother, and an entire town that wants nothing to do with her. She lives in her own world, a world in which protection comes from an unusual source: horror movies…especially the ones where a masked killer seeks revenge on a world that wronged them. And Jade narrates the quirky history of Proofrock as if it is one of those movies. But when blood actually starts to spill into the waters of Indian Lake, she pulls us into her dizzying, encyclopedic mind of blood and masked murderers, and predicts exactly how the plot will unfold. Yet, even as Jade drags us into her dark fever dream, a surprising and intimate portrait emerges…a portrait of the scared and traumatized little girl beneath the Jason Voorhees mask: angry, yes, but also a girl who easily cries, fiercely loves, and desperately wants a home. A girl whose feelings are too big for her body. My Heart Is a Chainsaw is her story, her homage to horror and revenge and triumph.

South of Forgiveness

South of Forgiveness
Author: Elva Thordis
Publisher: Simon and Schuster
Total Pages: 318
Release: 2017-05-09
Genre: True Crime
ISBN: 1510730028

One ordinary spring morning in Reykjavik, Iceland, Thordis Elva kisses her son and partner goodbye before boarding a plane to do a remarkable thing: fly seven thousand miles to South Africa to confront the man who raped her when she was just sixteen. Meanwhile, in Sydney, Australia, Tom Stranger nervously embarks on an equally life-changing journey to meet Thordis, wondering whether he is worthy of this milestone. After exchanging hundreds of searingly honest emails over eight years, Thordis and Tom decided it was time to speak face to face. Coming from opposite sides of the globe, they meet in the middle, in Cape Town, South Africa, a country that is no stranger to violence and the healing power of forgiveness. South of Forgiveness is an unprecedented collaboration between a survivor and a perpetrator, each equally committed to exploring the darkest moment of their lives. It is a true story about being bent but not broken, facing fear with courage, and finding hope even in the most wounded of places. Personable, accessible, and compelling, South of Forgiveness is an intense and refreshing look at a gendered violence, rape culture, personal responsibility, and the effect that patriarchal cultures have on both men and women.