This is a true story about the events of my life to the present. We live in a time when many flaunt their sexuality. There is a huge lack of knowledge regarding human sexual expression leading to misinformation, dysfunction, and perversion. Is it possible for us, as we journey through this life, to know the truth about a subject as monumental as our very self identity? Of course, God gave us the Bible. So why not see what our Heavenly Father's intentions are for sex and identity? WARNING: this is not a book for the faint of heart. My story shows how far one can go away from God when self becomes more important than He. By definition, sin is anything that becomes more important to the individual than God. With education as one of his life long pursuits, Pete achieved an undergraduate degree in ministry and several years post graduate. Every decade of his life he returned to college to take classes in whatever his interests were at the time; art, photography, Sociology, and Psychology. Now in his sixties, Pete is still pursuing a Masters in Psychology and Counseling. While daily living has often gotten in the way of education he has had careers in teaching art, operating his own advertising agency, retail management, and owning a small deli. Pete also has been active in social issues for many years. He has donated his time and artistic ability to adoption agencies and the Pro-Life movement. He founded and operated a public venue where artists and crafts people could display and sell their creative accomplishments. He also obtained considerable notoriety with a Fathers' Rights Organization he started and operated for several years.