The Intimate Relationships of Adult Children of Late-Life Divorce

The Intimate Relationships of Adult Children of Late-Life Divorce
Author: Ashley Knoll
Publisher:
Total Pages: 218
Release: 2011
Genre: Psychology
ISBN:

Late-life divorce is an increasing social trend in our society, and this has increased the number of adult children who have experienced their own parents' late-life divorce. As this social trend grows, the need for research on adult children whose parents have divorced also increases. This study was a descriptive study that sought to understand the intimate relationships of adult children (ages 18 to 28) of late-life divorce. This was done by using a questionnaire that examined demographic variables of the sample, the divorce history of children's parents, the intimate relationship history of these children, the reported intimate relationships using a scale that measure intimacy called the Miller Social Intimacy, and a scale that measures relationship satisfaction called the Relationship Assessment Scale, and with an optional section that asks open-ended questions about the participants' experience of the divorce and their intimate relationships. Using this methodology, the answers to the following questions were sought: Who are these adult children? What do they look like demographically? What are the circumstances of their parents late life divorce? What type of relationships does this sample have? How does this sample experience intimacy? What level of relationship satisfaction does this sample have?

Adult Children of Divorce

Adult Children of Divorce
Author: Elizabeth Thayer
Publisher: New Harbinger Publications
Total Pages: 202
Release: 2003-11-01
Genre: Family & Relationships
ISBN: 1608825957

If your parents divorced when you were young, you were probably affected by the breakdown fo their marriage. Divided loyalties, secrets kept from the other parent, one life lived in two separate houses—these may have been par for the course. With this guide, you will learn that the effects of the divorce are not permanently harmful. Find out how to forgive your parents, discover new ways to enrich your own relationships and learn that there are alternative realities available. Divorce experts and psychologists Jeffrey Zimmerman, Ph.D., and Elizabeth S. Thayer Ph.D., show you how to recognize how your parents’ divorce influenced your life, resulting in disruptions such as relationship failures due to financial reasons, difficulties with commitment, and repeated situations that “just don’t seem to work out.” They provide techniques to help you understand and overcome these and other issues common to adult children of divorced parents. Zimmerman and Thayer focus on helping you learn how to build self-esteem, become resilient, establish healthy boundaries, communicate clearly, open up to trust, show love, believe in commitment and deal with vulnerable feelings.

Primal Loss

Primal Loss
Author: Leila Miller
Publisher: Lcb Publishing
Total Pages: 326
Release: 2017-05-20
Genre: Adult children of divorced parents
ISBN: 9780997989311

Seventy now-adult children of divorce give their candid and often heart-wrenching answers to eight questions (arranged in eight chapters, by question), including: What were the main effects of your parents' divorce on your life? What do you say to those who claim that "children are resilient" and "children are happy when their parents are happy"? What would you like to tell your parents then and now? What do you want adults in our culture to know about divorce? What role has your faith played in your healing? Their simple and poignant responses are difficult to read and yet not without hope. Most of the contributors--women and men, young and old, single and married--have never spoken of the pain and consequences of their parents' divorce until now. They have often never been asked, and they believe that no one really wants to know. Despite vastly different circumstances and details, the similarities in their testimonies are striking; as the reader will discover, the death of a child's family impacts the human heart in universal ways.

Adult Children of Divorce

Adult Children of Divorce
Author: Edward W. Beal
Publisher:
Total Pages: 368
Release: 1991
Genre: Family & Relationships
ISBN: 9780385299244

If your parents were divorced when you were young, how does that define you as an adult? Here is the first book specifically directed at the adults of divorce, the millions of people who are still recovering from seeing their homes torn apart.

Home Will Never Be the Same Again

Home Will Never Be the Same Again
Author: Carol R. Hughes
Publisher: Rowman & Littlefield
Total Pages: 286
Release: 2020-06-22
Genre: Self-Help
ISBN: 1538135310

Adult children are often overlooked and forgotten when their parents divorce later in life, but in these pages they will find comfort and understanding for the many feelings, frustrations, and challenges they face. For more than two decades, a silent revolution has been occurring and creating a seismic shift in the American family and families in other countries. It has been unfolding without much comment, and its effects are being felt across three to four generations: more couples are divorcing later in life. Called the “gray divorce revolution,” the cultural phenomenon describes couples who divorce after the age of 50. Overlooked in the issues that affect couples divorcing later in in life are the adult children of divorcing parents. Their voices open this book, and they are the voices of men and women, 18 to 50 years old. Some of them are single; some are married. Some have children of their own. All of them are in different stages of shock, fear, and sudden, dramatic change. In Home Will Never Be the Same: A Guide for Adult Children of Gray Divorce, Carol Hughes and Bruce Fredenburg share their deep understanding gained during the innumerable hours they have spent with these women and men in their clinical practices. The result is a valuable resource for these too often forgotten adult children, many of whom find that, whenever they express their feelings and experiences, the most important people in their lives frequently ignore and dismiss them. As the divorce rate for older adults soars, so too does the number of adult children who are experiencing parental divorce. Yet, these adult children frequently say that they are the only ones who are aware of what they are going through, no one understands what they are experiencing, and they feel painfully alone.

Daughters of Divorce

Daughters of Divorce
Author: Terry Gaspard MSW, LICSW
Publisher: Sourcebooks, Inc.
Total Pages: 298
Release: 2016-01-19
Genre: Family & Relationships
ISBN: 1492620661

Restore your faith in love and build healthy, successful relationships with this essential guide for every woman haunted by her parents' divorce. Silver Medal Independent Publisher's Award Winner of the Best Book Award in "Self-Help: Relationships" Over 40 percent of Americans ages eighteen to forty are children of divorce. Yet women with divorced parents are more than twice as likely than men to get divorced themselves and struggle in romantic relationships. In this powerful, uplifting guide, mother-daughter team Terry and Tracy draws on thirty years of clinical practice and interviews with over 320 daughters of divorce to help you recognize and overcome the unique emotional issues that parental separation creates so you can build the happy, long-lasting relationships you deserve. Learn how to: Examine your parents' breakup from an adult perspective Heal the wounds of the past Recognize destructive dynamics in intimate relationships and take steps to change them Trust yourself and others by embracing vulnerability Create strong partnerships with their proven Seven Steps to a Successful Relationship Break the divorce legacy once and for all!

Intimacy in Later Life

Intimacy in Later Life
Author: Kate M. Davidson
Publisher: Routledge
Total Pages: 266
Release: 2017-07-12
Genre: Family & Relationships
ISBN: 1351511653

To love and be loved is arguably one of the most powerful and fundamental driving forces sustaining self-esteem and self-identity throughout the life course. Need for reciprocal loving does not change as we grow older, despite failures of health, loss of a partner, late divorce, and alterations of personality due to the aging process. However, most studies of human sexuality have ignored the problems and developing patterns of older adults entering into new partnerships. To fill this gap, Intimacy in Later Life brings together a wide range of distinguished international scholars to address this neglected research area.

The Marriage Paradox

The Marriage Paradox
Author: Brian J. Willoughby
Publisher: Oxford University Press
Total Pages: 273
Release: 2017
Genre: Family & Relationships
ISBN: 0190296658

The Marriage Paradox explores both national U.S. data and a smaller sample of emerging adults to find out how they really view marriage today. Interspersed with real stories and insight from emerging adults themselves, this book attempts to make sense of the increasingly paradoxical ways that young adults are thinking about marriage.