How He Gets Into Her Head

How He Gets Into Her Head
Author: Don Hennessy
Publisher:
Total Pages: 273
Release: 2012
Genre: Family & Relationships
ISBN: 9781855942202

Working with both the perpetrators and victims of intimate partner abuse has given the author a unique insight into the tactics employed by the male abuser. He suggests that male intimate abuse and violence are driven by an entitlement to sexual priority and that the other tactics of control and violence are motivated by this entitlement. It is this motivation that distinguishes male intimate violence from other forms of `domestic violence' such as female to male violence and elder abuse --

Men's Experiences of Violence in Intimate Relationships

Men's Experiences of Violence in Intimate Relationships
Author: Marianne Inéz Lien
Publisher: Springer
Total Pages: 183
Release: 2019-01-04
Genre: Social Science
ISBN: 3030039943

This open access book draws on a broad study on violence against men, from both male and female partners in Norway, to contribute to the research on intimate partner violence. It identifies similarities in men's experiences and backgrounds, including in their perceptions of their own victimisation. Marianne Inez Lien and Jørgen Lorentzen argue that the traditional gender power model should be modified and supplemented, and propose that we consider violence in terms of psychological supremacy, rather than in terms of femininity and masculinity. Men's Experiences of Violence in Intimate Relationships will appeal to students and scholars across a range of areas including criminology, sociology and family violence, and gender studies.

The Intimate Male

The Intimate Male
Author: Linda Levine
Publisher: Doubleday
Total Pages: 364
Release: 1983-01-01
Genre: Family & Relationships
ISBN: 9780385176125

Based on numerous interviews with a wide cross-section of American men varying in age, residence, marital status, and sexual orientation this book explores male expectations and experiences of sex

The Intimate Male

The Intimate Male
Author: Linda Levine
Publisher: Wellness Institute, Inc.
Total Pages: 388
Release: 1983-12
Genre: Men
ISBN: 9781587410390

The Intimate Connection

The Intimate Connection
Author: James B. Nelson
Publisher: Westminster John Knox Press
Total Pages: 148
Release: 1988-01-01
Genre: Religion
ISBN: 9780664240653

In recent decades, men have begun to question seriously their traditionally held roles and values. The women's movement, popular books, and male images on television and in films have all contributed to men's uncertainty about themselves. There is a major shift taking place in the perception of sexuality. James Nelson asserts that men and women seek something the sexual revolution did not provide: an understanding of the true meaning of love. This, he claims, is the unfinished business of that revolution.

Intimate Intrusions (Routledge Revivals)

Intimate Intrusions (Routledge Revivals)
Author: Elizabeth Stanko
Publisher: Routledge
Total Pages: 187
Release: 2013-10-08
Genre: Social Science
ISBN: 113407882X

First published in 1985, this book looks at the victimisation of women, focusing on the four main areas of incest, rape, physical violence, and sexual harassment. Elizabeth Stanko’s work is based on original research and interviews with police forces, victims and others involved. It examines women’s experiences of male violence and looks at the reactions of those to whom women complain, including police officers, judges and union officials. The book analyses the decision making process of the criminal justice system and of administrative personnel at the time of publication, and Stanko shows how such institutions can be carriers of a male point of view.

How He Wins

How He Wins
Author: Don Hennessy
Publisher: Liberties Press
Total Pages: 287
Release: 2020-11-15
Genre: Health & Fitness
ISBN: 1912589184

The World Health Organisation has described the global increase in incidences of domestic abuse due to lockdowns and isolation as a shadow pandemic. Dr Hans Henri P. Kluge, the WHO Regional Director for Europe, has warned that the world could see 31 million cases of gender-based violence if nothing is done, and has called for more action to be taken. This stark warning is an indictment of our failure, in Europe and elsewhere, to reduce the level of male intimate abuse, in spite of the extraordinary energy and dedication of thousands of practitioners and academics. In this challenging book, Don Hennessy examines our practices and procedures, our attitudes and our beliefs, in relation to coercive control. He demonstrates how we have made few inroads in this area – either into the prevalence of male intimate abuse, or in relation to the tactics that support the ability of the male intimate abuser to establish and maintain his control. It is vital that all agencies, both statutory and non-governmental, recognise that we need to change our position from one of support to one of protection. The protection that Hennessy promotes is not that of the physical refuge alone, but the mental safeguard which will allow each target-woman to follow her own intuition. How He Wins, by the best-selling author of Steps to Freedom, focuses in particular on the impact of abuse on the target-woman's family members, and features numerous powerful personal stories. It is essential reading for any woman who has been the target of domestic abuse and has found herself abandoned by the community.

Intimate Strangers

Intimate Strangers
Author: Lillian B. Rubin
Publisher: Harper Perennial
Total Pages: 244
Release: 1990-06-22
Genre: Psychology
ISBN: 9780060911348

Intimate Strangers is a book for every man and woman who has ever yearned for an intimate relationship and wondered why it seemed so elusive. Drawing on years of research, writing, and counseling about marriage and the family, interviews with more than two hundred couples, and her own experiences, Lillian Rubin explains not just how the differences between women and men arise but how they affect such critical issues as intimacy, sexuality, dependency, work, and parenting. Candid, compassionate, and insightful, Rubin's lucid examination should aid each of us in our struggle for greater personal and emotional satisfaction.

Male Confessions

Male Confessions
Author: Björn Krondorfer
Publisher: Stanford University Press
Total Pages: 453
Release: 2009-12-03
Genre: Religion
ISBN: 0804773432

Male Confessions examines how men open their intimate lives and thoughts to the public through confessional writing. This book examines writings—by St. Augustine, a Jewish ghetto policeman, an imprisoned Nazi perpetrator, and a gay American theologian—that reflect sincere attempts at introspective and retrospective self-investigation, often triggered by some wounding or rupture and followed by a transformative experience. Krondorfer takes seriously the vulnerability exposed in male self-disclosure while offering a critique of the religious and gendered rhetoric employed in such discourse. The religious imagination, he argues, allows men to talk about their intimate, flawed, and sinful selves without having to condemn themselves or to fear self-erasure. Herein lies the greatest promise of these confessions: by baring their souls to judgment, these writers may also transcend their self-imprisonment.

Men, Masculinities and Intimate Partner Violence

Men, Masculinities and Intimate Partner Violence
Author: Lucas Gottzén
Publisher: Routledge
Total Pages: 250
Release: 2020-11-05
Genre: Social Science
ISBN: 100021799X

Men, Masculinities and Intimate Partner Violence examines how gender and other social identities and inequalities shape experiences of, and responses to, violence in intimate relationships. It provides new insights into men as both perpetrators and victims of violence, as well as on how to involve men and boys in anti-violence work. The chapters explore partner violence from the perspectives of researchers, therapists, activists, organisations, media as well as men of different background and sexual orientation. Highlighting the distinct and ambivalent ways we relate to violence and masculinity, this timely volume provides nuanced approaches to men, masculinity and intimate partner violence in various societies in the global North and South. This book foregrounds scholarship on men and masculinities in the context of intimate partner violence. By doing so, it revitalises feminist theorising and research on partner abuse, and brings together the fields of masculinity studies and studies of intimate partner violence. The book will be a vital resource for students and scholars in criminology, gender studies, psychology, social work and sociology, as well as those working with men and boys. Chapter 9 of this book is freely available as a downloadable Open Access PDF at http://www.taylorfrancis.com under a Creative Commons Attribution-Non Commercial-No Derivatives (CC-BY-NC-ND) 4.0 license.