The Illusion of Love

The Illusion of Love
Author: David P. Celani
Publisher: Columbia University Press
Total Pages: 240
Release: 1994
Genre: Family & Relationships
ISBN: 9780231100373

Examines the attraction between abuser and victim which results in disorders and dangerous attractions on both sides, considering the typical personalities involved in patterns of neglect.

Free Will

Free Will
Author: Sam Harris
Publisher: Simon and Schuster
Total Pages: 96
Release: 2012-03-06
Genre: Philosophy
ISBN: 1451683405

From the New York Times bestselling author of The End of Faith, a thought-provoking, "brilliant and witty" (Oliver Sacks) look at the notion of free will—and the implications that it is an illusion. A belief in free will touches nearly everything that human beings value. It is difficult to think about law, politics, religion, public policy, intimate relationships, morality—as well as feelings of remorse or personal achievement—without first imagining that every person is the true source of his or her thoughts and actions. And yet the facts tell us that free will is an illusion. In this enlightening book, Sam Harris argues that this truth about the human mind does not undermine morality or diminish the importance of social and political freedom, but it can and should change the way we think about some of the most important questions in life.

The Illusion of Separateness

The Illusion of Separateness
Author: Simon Van Booy
Publisher: Harper Collins
Total Pages: 155
Release: 2013-06-11
Genre: Fiction
ISBN: 0062112260

“The uncanny beauty of Van Booy’s prose, and his ability to knife straight to the depths of a character’s heart, fill a reader with wonder.” — San Francisco Chronicle Award-winning author Simon Van Booy tells a harrowing and enchanting story of how one man’s act of mercy during World War II changed the lives of strangers, and how they each discover the astonishing truth of their connection. The characters in Van Booy's The Illusion of Separateness discover at their darkest moments of fear and isolation that they are not alone, that they were never alone, that every human being is a link in a chain we cannot see. This gripping novel—inspired by true events—tells the interwoven stories of a deformed German infantryman; a lonely British film director; a young, blind museum curator; two Jewish American newlyweds separated by war; and a caretaker at a retirement home for actors in Santa Monica. They move through the same world but fail to perceive their connections until, through seemingly random acts of selflessness, a veil is lifted to reveal the vital parts they have played in one another's lives, and the illusion of their separateness.

Toxic Love

Toxic Love
Author: Malcolm Smith
Publisher:
Total Pages: 54
Release: 1995-10-01
Genre: God
ISBN: 9781880089125

The author shows you from the Word of God what true love is and how you were created to receive it. Instead of relating to people with a false",toxic" love, you will begin to walk in the emotional freedom of real, godly love.

Fairbairn's Object Relations Theory in the Clinical Setting

Fairbairn's Object Relations Theory in the Clinical Setting
Author: David P. Celani
Publisher: Columbia University Press
Total Pages: 242
Release: 2010
Genre: Psychology
ISBN: 0231149077

W. R. D. Fairbairn (1889-1964) challenged the dominance of Freud's drive theory with a psychoanalytic theory based on the internalization of human relationships. Fairbairn assumed that the unconscious develops in childhood and contains dissociated memories of parental neglect, insensitivity, and outright abuse that are impossible the children to tolerate consciously. In Fairbairn's model, these dissociated memories protect developing children from recognizing how badly they are being treated and allow them to remain attached even to physically abusive parents. Attachment is paramount in Fairbairn's model, as he recognized that children are absolutely and unconditionally dependent on their parents. Kidnapped children who remain attached to their abusive captors despite opportunities to escape illustrate this intense dependency, even into adolescence. At the heart of Fairbairn's model is a structural theory that organizes actual relational events into three self-and-object pairs: one conscious pair (the central ego, which relates exclusively to the ideal object in the external world) and two mostly unconscious pairs (the child's antilibidinal ego, which relates exclusively to the rejecting parts of the object, and the child's libidinal ego, which relates exclusively to the exciting parts of the object). The two dissociated self-and-object pairs remain in the unconscious but can emerge and suddenly take over the individual's central ego. When they emerge, the "other" is misperceived as either an exciting or a rejecting object, thus turning these internal structures into a source of transferences and reenactments. Fairbairn's central defense mechanism, splitting, is the fast shift from central ego dominance to either the libidinal ego or the antilibidinal ego-a near perfect model of the borderline personality disorder. In this book, David Celani reviews Fairbairn's five foundational papers and outlines their application in the clinical setting. He discusses the four unconscious structures and offers the clinician concrete suggestions on how to recognize and respond to them effectively in the heat of the clinical interview. Incorporating decades of experience into his analysis, Celani emphasizes the internalization of the therapist as a new "good" object and devotes entire sections to the treatment of histrionic, obsessive, and borderline personality disorders.

The Illusion of Simple

The Illusion of Simple
Author: Charles Forrest Jones
Publisher: University of Iowa Press
Total Pages: 274
Release: 2022-05-18
Genre: Fiction
ISBN: 1609388313

"In a dry Kansas riverbed, a troop of Girl Scouts finds a human hand. This discovery leads Billy Spire, the tough and broken sheriff of Ewing County, to confront the depths of his community. The racism, the dying economy, the lies and truths of friendship, and his own injured marriage. But like any town where people still breathe, there is also love and hope and the possibility of redemption. To flyover people, Ewing County appears nothing more than a handful of empty streets amid crop circles and the meandering, depleted Arkansas River. But the truth of this place - the interwoven lives and stories - is anything but simple"--

I Love the Illusion: The Life and Career of Agnes Moorehead, 2nd Edition (Hardback)

I Love the Illusion: The Life and Career of Agnes Moorehead, 2nd Edition (Hardback)
Author: Charles Tranberg
Publisher: BearManor Media
Total Pages: 436
Release: 2015-09-22
Genre: Biography & Autobiography
ISBN: 9781593938710

This is the HARDBACK version. Lovers of old-time radio hold a special place in their heart for Agnes Moorehead. She was one of the busiest and most definitive actresses of that medium. The bottom line is that Agnes Moorehead is one of the few actresses who succeeded in every realm of show business: stage, radio, film, and television. The respect of her peers can be summed up in these statistics: four Academy Award nominations, seven Emmy nominations - with one win - two Golden Globe nominations - with two wins - and the Best Actress award from the New York Film Critics. This impressive, 400+ page biography, complete with filmography and radiography, proves to readers and scholars alike that she was much more than the witch of Endor! *This is the 2nd edition of the bestselling book, with new material and cover!*

Unheard Love

Unheard Love
Author: Kavya Mahadik
Publisher: Notion Press
Total Pages: 173
Release: 2018-04-05
Genre: Fiction
ISBN: 1642495611

A journey from, "You're mine." to "Was it a dream?" An illusion, that changed a life.

The Illusion of Intimacy

The Illusion of Intimacy
Author: John C. Bridges
Publisher: Bloomsbury Publishing USA
Total Pages: 153
Release: 2012-05-15
Genre: Family & Relationships
ISBN:

This book examines online dating from the "inside," using in-depth interviews with dating website members to reveal—and keenly analyze—what relationships and romance in the 21st century are really like. The members of the current generation of "digital guinea pigs" are true social pioneers as they embrace digital technology to create a new realm of mating, dating, and intimacy in America. Ironically, "digital dating" frequently results in an outcome that is exactly opposite to its participants' intended purposes. The Illusion of Intimacy: Problems in the World of Online Dating is more than a thorough investigation of the realities of modern relationships, many of which begin online—one in five, according to Match.com; the book introduces the reader to some of the natives and industry "users" who make up its clientele. Author John C. Bridges shows how they have adapted to technology to find new interactions, meet new partners, and share new experiences. The research focuses on the dating sites ranked in the top five by actual members of these sites who interviewed with the author to share their personal stories and experiences, all documented by saved emails and text messages.

Forever is an Illusion, Love Isn't.

Forever is an Illusion, Love Isn't.
Author: Nachat
Publisher: Independently Published
Total Pages: 112
Release: 2020-01-03
Genre:
ISBN: 9781655228094

Forever is an Illusion, Love isn't is a lined notebook. 6 x 9 inches in size.110 Lined Pages.Great quality.