The Day My Twin And I Died

The Day My Twin And I Died
Author: Trudy a Hylant
Publisher: Independently Published
Total Pages: 128
Release: 2019-05-21
Genre:
ISBN: 9781099022517

Jude died after four months of illness. Her identical twin sister dies slowly every day as she looks into the mirror only to see Jude's reflection staring back. Trudy does have a pulse, but a heartbeat is only a part of being alive. Her coping mechanism has always been avoidance, but how can she avoid herself? Her face, her hands, her laughter, her voice also belong to Jude. They weren't the "Doublemint Twins." Trudy realizes that many have a romanticized version about twins. For every pair there is a different dynamic. Both were highly sensitive empaths and suffered from an anxiety depression disorder. As codependent twins it was necessary for them to go to therapy to repair their fractured relationship. Neither was unwilling to give up on each other. Jude is the only one who can bring her out of her profound depression. Discover how her twin does this during a twilight sleep. She writes with the raw honest emotion that is felt through complicated grief and PTSD. You can feel it across the pages. She clawed her way through the abyss wearing a mask to appear normal. The mask eventually slipped to reveal the truth of her 13 year agony. Friends and family encourage her to move forward and to let go of her twin. If she lets go of Jude she will also let go of herself. She understands that twin loss is devastating, but recognizes that grief does not spare anyone.This memoir was written for those who have suffered the deep loss of a loved one. For those who suffer from anxiety and depression and for those who are without their twin. It is also for those who are interested in twin relationships and memoirs. She developed strategies that were based on time-tested results. Her mission is to plant the seed for others to follow the methods that she adheres to daily. These procedures brought joy back into her life and she hopes that her sharing her lessons with you will bring back joy to yours. Always remember...Small flowers crack the concrete.

Always My Twin

Always My Twin
Author: Valerie R. Samuels
Publisher: Trafford on Demand Pub
Total Pages: 30
Release: 2006
Genre: Juvenile Fiction
ISBN: 9781412060363

A book for young children who have experienced the death of their twin sibling. Story of love and loss told through the eyes of a young girl whose twin died when they were infants.

The Lone Twin

The Lone Twin
Author: Joan Woodward
Publisher: Free Publishing Limited
Total Pages: 0
Release: 2010
Genre: Attachment behavior
ISBN: 9781853432002

People are fascinated with twins - intrigued by their closeness with each other. But what happens when twins are separated, especially by death? Twin mortality is high, but it is not uncommon for a lone twin's loss, at any age, to go unmarked. They need extra help and support to take them through the loss of their 'other half.' The loss of a twin can be devastating to the survivor. Working as an Attachment therapist, Joan Woodward uses John Bowlby's theories as her conceptual base for her research. In this book, she suggests that the highly significant attachment that twins make with each other may begin, for many, before birth. She explains their closeness and tragic experience of death and bereavement. The Lone Twin includes parental attitudes to the surviving twin, the surviving twin's guilt, the ability to cope, and the effect of loss in childhood and adulthood. Of particular interest are those who lost their twin at birth. Throughout, the book is illustrated by the words of surviving twins' affecting accounts of their experiences of bereavement. This is an important and rare book for many professionals - counselors, psychotherapists, social workers, psychologists, and teachers - who come into contact with bereaved twins and yet have little understanding of the dynamics of twinship and of twin loss. Written in jargon-free language, the book is also for the twins themselves, their families, partners, and friends. It gives lone twins the chance to have their voices heard, and it gives professionals the opportunity to develop more effective ways of supporting the lone twin. This greatly expanded and revised second edition details the progress that has been made in the ten years since the book was first published, along with the growth of The Lone Twin Network.

A Me Without We: A Collection of Stories and Resources on Twin Life, Twin Loss and Twinless Living.

A Me Without We: A Collection of Stories and Resources on Twin Life, Twin Loss and Twinless Living.
Author: Jamie A. Parker
Publisher: Author Academy Elite
Total Pages: 150
Release: 2019-05-13
Genre: Biography & Autobiography
ISBN: 9781640856530

There are two things about being a twinless twin in which I am absolutely positive about. There is nothing more painful than witnessing someone suffer, especially when that someone holds half of your heart. She is always with me. Sometimes for the good, sometimes for the bad, but I always know she's always there. Twin bonds are forever, even

From a Clear Blue Sky

From a Clear Blue Sky
Author: Timothy Knatchbull
Publisher: Open Road Media
Total Pages: 463
Release: 2023-12-19
Genre: Biography & Autobiography
ISBN: 1504089324

The prize-winning, “exceptionally moving” memoir of a family boat trip, an IRA bombing, and a teenager’s loss of his twin brother (The Telegraph). Christopher Ewart-Biggs Literary Award Winner and PEN/JR Ackerley Prize Nominee On an August weekend in 1979, fourteen-year-old Timothy Knatchbull joined his family on a boat trip off the shore of Mullaghmore in County Sligo, Ireland. By noon, an Irish Republican Army bomb had destroyed the boat, leaving four dead. The author survived, but his grandparents, family friend, and twin brother did not. Lord Mountbatten, his grandfather, was the target, and became one of the IRA’s most high-profile assassinations. Knatchbull and his parents were too badly injured to attend the funerals of those killed, which only intensified their profound sense of loss. Telling this story decades later, Knatchbull not only revisits these terrible events but also writes an intensely personal account of human triumph over tragedy—a story of recovery not just from physical wounds but deep emotional trauma. From a Clear Blue Sky takes place in Ireland at the height of the Troubles and gives compelling insight into that period of Irish history. But more importantly, it brings home that while calamity can strike at any moment, the human spirit is able to forgive, to heal, and to move on. “A minute by minute story of what happened that day, and what happened afterwards.” —Daily Mail “This is an extremely moving book. Beyond providing a phenomenally detailed evocation of his own family’s trauma, Knatchbull has lots of wise things to say about how we survive horrors—of all kinds—in our lives.” — Zoë Heller, author of the Booker Prize finalist Notes on a Scandal “A very poignant, clearsighted, heartbreaking but ultimately positive account.” —Hugh Bonneville, The New York Times

Twin Stories

Twin Stories
Author: Susan Kohl
Publisher: Council Oak Books
Total Pages: 212
Release: 2001
Genre: Family & Relationships
ISBN: 9781885171580

There are approximately 73 million twins in the world today. Every year in Twinsbury, Ohio, over 6,000 twins gather to celebrate their twin-ness. Society's fascination with twins is as old as time, and our interest runs the gamut from psychological studies to the celebrity status of twins such as Mary Kate and Ashley Olsen.Twin Stories is a fascinating exploration of the extraordinary bond that twins share. The book focuses on the experience of being a twin, either fraternal or identical, and gives twins and non-twins a greater understanding of the special relationship two people have when they have shared the same womb.

The Thirteenth Tale

The Thirteenth Tale
Author: Diane Setterfield
Publisher: Anchor Canada
Total Pages: 418
Release: 2009-03-16
Genre: Fiction
ISBN: 030737193X

A #1 New York Times bestseller, The Thirteenth Tale is part contemporary, part historical with mysterious threads about family secrets and the magic of books and storytelling weaving the two together. All children mythologize their birth . . . So begins the prologue of reclusive author Vida Winter's collection of stories, which are as famous for the mystery of the missing thirteenth tale as they are for the delight and enchantment of the twelve that do exist. The enigmatic Winter has spent six decades creating various outlandish histories for herself. Now old and ailing, she at last wants to tell the truth about her extraordinary past. She summons biographer Margaret Lea, a young woman who is struck by a very curious parallel between Winter's life and her own. As Vida exposes the history she meant to bury for good, Margaret is mesmerized. It is a tale of gothic strangeness, of a remote estate, feral children, a governess, a ghost, and a devastating fire. In this love letter to reading, Diane Setterfield will keep you guessing, make you wonder, move you to tears and laughter and, in the end, deposit you breathless yet satisfied back upon the shore of your everyday world.

Untwinned

Untwinned
Author: A. M. Hayton
Publisher:
Total Pages: 264
Release: 2007-01
Genre: Family & Relationships
ISBN: 9780952565499

When a twin dies during pregnancy, this experience can leave a vague but profound sense of loss in the mind of the survivor. In this book is reflected current, ground-breaking research into the death of a twin, both at birth and before, plus stories and poetry written by the survivors themselves. This extraordinary collection of twenty articles about the death of a twin from a variety of perspectives reveals the astonishing truth of how it can actually feel to be the survivor when your twin has died in the womb. Recent research has shown that as many as one in eight people are the sole survivors of a twin pregnancy, and many of them have no proof of ever having had a twin. Ultrasound scanning now reveals that many more tiny twins are lost in the womb than was ever thought possible. The editor is Althea Hayton, who is director of "wombtwin.com," an internet- based research project. She provides information, help and psychological support for the sole survivors of twin or multiple pregnancies. Michael J. Shea, Ph.D. of the Santa Barbara Graduate Institute says about this book; "This is a great addition to a psychological understanding of prenatal development and gives a comprehensive view from a wide variety of experts in the field. A must read for anyone interested in pre- and perinatal psychology, and especially anyone who thinks they may have had a twin." Some of these chapters will be of particular interest to pregnant women who have experienced "vanishing twin" syndrome. Therapists and psychologists who are studying the pre-birth origins of various psychological conditions such as depression, blocked grieving or suicidal thoughts will find the case studies in this book very enlightening. The personal accounts of the loss of a twin before birth are of interest to all, and raise some important issues about the nature of pre-born consciousness. It seems that we all carry some vague impressions of our life in the womb, and surviving twins have a particularly interesting story to tell.

Haunted Sister

Haunted Sister
Author: Lael Littke
Publisher: Henry Holt and Company (BYR)
Total Pages: 150
Release: 1998-09-15
Genre: Young Adult Fiction
ISBN: 1466839058

How can you have a ghost story without a ghost? What if the ghost is only in your head? How would you know that you aren't losing your mind? By medical standards, sixteen-year-old Janine Palmer dies on the day of her automobile accident. When her spirit travels to the "other side," however, she is told that it isn't her time to die, and is sent back to live out her life. When she awakens from her coma, though, she discovers that she hasn't come back alone. There is someone else inside her mind. The voice in Janine's head claims to be the ghost of Lenore, Janine's twin sister, who drowned twelve years earlier. Lenore blames her own death on Janine and is determined to live again in her sister's body. Now the two girls must vie for one body. Can Janine be sure that her twin is really inside her, or is she simply going crazy?

Two Hearts Beat as One: When a Twin Dies

Two Hearts Beat as One: When a Twin Dies
Author: Tim Mannion, MSW, LCSW
Publisher: Abbott Press
Total Pages: 183
Release: 2014
Genre: Biography & Autobiography
ISBN: 1458208966

Two Hearts Beat as One: When a Twin Dies is the true story of a pair of identical twins and their experience with coming to terms with dying and separation as a result of terminal illness. The book intertwines feelings, emotions, personal thoughts, memories, and reactions to assist the reader in understanding many of the emotions related to losing a loved one. Anyone who has ever lost someone they love can relate to this book. It truly touches the heart, reminds us of the important things in life, and helps us come to terms with death and dying. Tim shares his heartfelt story of the hardest days of his life along with some memories of the happiest days of being a twin. You don't need to be a twin to read this book; it touches the heart of anyone who has ever been loved, lost, and survived. "Tim Mannion holds up a mirror and guides the onlooker through a personal story using his wisdom and insight as a reader's guide." -Barbara Rubel, MA, BCETS, CBS, CPBC; keynote speaker and author of But I Didn't Say Goodbye and Death, Dying, and Bereavement