The 9 Expressions of Love: How and Why We Choose Our Lovers

The 9 Expressions of Love: How and Why We Choose Our Lovers
Author: Kenya K. Stevens
Publisher:
Total Pages: 214
Release: 2020-08-06
Genre: Family & Relationships
ISBN: 9781733164825

Have you ever wondered what drives your attractions and desires inside of relationships? Do you attract the same types of people over and over again or find yourself inside of relationship dynamics that are virtually indistinguishable from one another? The 9 Expressions of Love: How & Why We Choose Our Lovers offers insights into the dynamics of human attraction, partner selection, and what it takes for us to navigate our feelings and desires once we're inside a committed relationship. Do you tend to play a role that's more submissive, dominant, or neutral when interacting with your partners? Does your energy inside of a relationship manifest itself as more masculine, feminine, or androgynous in nature? These are all factors that can be explained by your specific expression of love. Meaning, there's a way that we prefer to love and be loved and these preferences play out in how we position ourselves inside of our relationships. In The 9 Expressions of Love: How & Why We Choose Our Lovers, we explore the nine ways people tend to express love inside their relationships as well as the energetic dynamics that impact how we choose our partners. Yes, there are nine different expressions of love and they shape the very foundation of our relationships. Knowing these expressions can make the difference between success or failure in marriage and even casual relationships. Carl and Kenya are relationship coaches with over fifteen years of experience coaching clients into successful, blissful relationships and marriages. They have been married for over twenty-five years and share their relationship success tools at their school - The Progressive Love Academy.

What Are the 5 Love Languages?

What Are the 5 Love Languages?
Author: Gary Chapman
Publisher: Moody Publishers
Total Pages: 336
Release: 2015-06-10
Genre: Family & Relationships
ISBN: 0802493688

Simple ideas, lasting love—all in a short read In this abridged version of the New York Times bestseller The 5 Love Languages®, relationships expert Dr. Gary Chapman offers a trimmed-down explanation of his transformational approach to love. People express and receive love in 5 different ways, called love languages: quality time, words of affirmation, gifts, acts of service, and physical touch. The sooner you discover your language and that of your loved one, the sooner you can take your relationship to new heights. And with this summary version of the award-winning book, you don't have to read long to find out. With disarming wit, clear explanations, and inspiring storytelling, Dr. Chapman only needs a moment of your time to transform your love life.

Change Your Man

Change Your Man
Author: Kenya K. Stevens
Publisher:
Total Pages: 256
Release: 2010-06-21
Genre: Family & Relationships
ISBN: 9780980166330

You Shouldn't Need a Life-Threatening Illness to Reclaim Your Relationship! For Kenya Stevens, that is what it took. Married at age 21 to a man she had met on a blind date a few months earlier, Kenya's early years with Carl were fraught with conflict-troubles that she now understands had a lot to do with her own need to dominate and be in total control. Then came a bout with a particularly nasty, often-fatal illness, and everything changed. No longer able to control and dominate, Kenya turned to her mate. Forced to dig deeply and become vulnerable, she built her way back to physical and emotional health. Kenya and Carl healed their own relationship utilizing a diverse background in powerful healing, self-help, and spiritual/metaphysical disciplines from yoga to music to Feng Shui to the Law of Attraction. It wasn't long before Kenya started sharing her insights with other women and couples. As CEO of JujuMama LLC (www.jujumama.com), she and Carl lead seminars and provide individual and group sessions. Carl has written a companion book for men, Tame Your Woman. In this life-changing book you will learn... How both partners can embrace both the feminine and the masculine within themselves and each other. How to phrase criticism in non-blaming, positive ways that inspire action. How to focus on what you want to attract, and stay away from what you want to drive away-and the ways this can help you shape your man's behavior.

Choose Her Every Day Or Leave Her

Choose Her Every Day Or Leave Her
Author: Bryan Reeves
Publisher:
Total Pages:
Release: 2021-01-18
Genre:
ISBN: 9781735985503

In 2010, at age 36, while going through yet another agonizing breakup, Bryan had an epiphany: He knew nothing useful about how to do intimate relationship well. In that moment of painful realization he vowed to never suck at intimacy again. Thus began an extraordinary journey into the realms of love, sex, relationship. In summer 2015, with already legions of readers all over the world following his adventures, his essay "Choose Her Every Day (Or Leave Her)" went viral, exploding to over a million readers daily. This book (which includes that essay) is Bryan's anthology of stories, insights, practical tools, and secrets (that should never be secrets!) to help guide you on your own journey to thriving in love and intimacy.

All About Love

All About Love
Author: bell hooks
Publisher: HarperCollins
Total Pages: 272
Release: 2018-01-30
Genre: Family & Relationships
ISBN: 0062862170

A New York Times bestseller and enduring classic, All About Love is the acclaimed first volume in feminist icon bell hooks' "Love Song to the Nation" trilogy. All About Love reveals what causes a polarized society, and how to heal the divisions that cause suffering. Here is the truth about love, and inspiration to help us instill caring, compassion, and strength in our homes, schools, and workplaces. “The word ‘love’ is most often defined as a noun, yet we would all love better if we used it as a verb,” writes bell hooks as she comes out fighting and on fire in All About Love. Here, at her most provocative and intensely personal, renowned scholar, cultural critic and feminist bell hooks offers a proactive new ethic for a society bereft with lovelessness--not the lack of romance, but the lack of care, compassion, and unity. People are divided, she declares, by society’s failure to provide a model for learning to love. As bell hooks uses her incisive mind to explore the question “What is love?” her answers strike at both the mind and heart. Razing the cultural paradigm that the ideal love is infused with sex and desire, she provides a new path to love that is sacred, redemptive, and healing for individuals and for a nation. The Utne Reader declared bell hooks one of the “100 Visionaries Who Can Change Your Life.” All About Love is a powerful, timely affirmation of just how profoundly her revelations can change hearts and minds for the better.

Tame Your Woman

Tame Your Woman
Author: Carl E. Stevens Jr
Publisher:
Total Pages: 148
Release: 2010-06-21
Genre: Family & Relationships
ISBN: 9780980166323

How do you have a relationship with a woman who pees standing up? That was the question Carl had to ask himself after marrying fiery, young Kenya, whose need for dominance and control overshadowed not only his needs, but her abilities. There were a lot of broken lamps in the early years of their relationship. However, there were moments when things teetered on the edge of getting a lot uglier than a broken lamp, too. Thankfully, a radical change in attitude saved their marriage. They became strong enough to thrive through big challenges: parenthood, losing their home to fire, and Kenya's near-fatal illness. Carl, who now co-leads relationship workshops with Kenya, shares the lessons learned not only of his own struggle to be in a relationship of equals, but of his and Kenya's deep study of the subject. In this book readers will learn: --Why "a boy cannot become a man until he has healed a woman." --How to determine what a woman really wants, and how to give it to her without losing your self-respect or her respect for you. --Why your position on the "Monk Scale" makes all the difference to your success as a husband and father. --How to keep your own vices from getting in the way of your relationship

The 9 Types of Lovers

The 9 Types of Lovers
Author: Daphne Rose Kingma
Publisher: Red Wheel
Total Pages: 260
Release: 1999
Genre: Family & Relationships
ISBN: 9781573241601

"The Love Doctor" ("San Francisco Chronicle") explains the reasons why peopleare attracted to specific types, the family history involved, and which typestend to team up.

A General Theory of Love

A General Theory of Love
Author: Thomas Lewis
Publisher: Vintage
Total Pages: 290
Release: 2007-12-18
Genre: Psychology
ISBN: 0307424340

This original and lucid account of the complexities of love and its essential role in human well-being draws on the latest scientific research. Three eminent psychiatrists tackle the difficult task of reconciling what artists and thinkers have known for thousands of years about the human heart with what has only recently been learned about the primitive functions of the human brain. A General Theory of Love demonstrates that our nervous systems are not self-contained: from earliest childhood, our brains actually link with those of the people close to us, in a silent rhythm that alters the very structure of our brains, establishes life-long emotional patterns, and makes us, in large part, who we are. Explaining how relationships function, how parents shape their child’s developing self, how psychotherapy really works, and how our society dangerously flouts essential emotional laws, this is a work of rare passion and eloquence that will forever change the way you think about human intimacy.

UPLVL Communication

UPLVL Communication
Author: Carl E Stevens, Jr
Publisher:
Total Pages: 214
Release: 2019-08-05
Genre:
ISBN: 9781733164801

We finally have a solution to bring couples closer together in LOVE and not further apart in hurt. UPLVL Communication(TM) is the premier communication system for leaving absolutely no doubt what your partner is saying, why they're saying it, how to respond to them with love and compassion, and what they're looking for on the deepest levels. Finally, understand WHO is speaking and get to the very source of the trigger, conflict, and pain points that would otherwise go unaddressed. It's time to close the communication gap, once and for all.Kenya and Carl Stevens are the founders of the Progressive Love(TM) Academy, the premier school for relationships and personal empowerment. Their tools and coaching have saved countless marriages and empowered thousands to live their absolute best life.

The Sense of an Ending

The Sense of an Ending
Author: Julian Barnes
Publisher: Vintage
Total Pages: 158
Release: 2011-10-05
Genre: Fiction
ISBN: 0307957330

BOOKER PRIZE WINNER • NATIONAL BESTSELLER • A novel that follows a middle-aged man as he contends with a past he never much thought about—until his closest childhood friends return with a vengeance: one of them from the grave, another maddeningly present. A novel so compelling that it begs to be read in a single setting, The Sense of an Ending has the psychological and emotional depth and sophistication of Henry James at his best, and is a stunning achievement in Julian Barnes's oeuvre. Tony Webster thought he left his past behind as he built a life for himself, and his career has provided him with a secure retirement and an amicable relationship with his ex-wife and daughter, who now has a family of her own. But when he is presented with a mysterious legacy, he is forced to revise his estimation of his own nature and place in the world.