Teachings of a Not-So-Perfect Mom

Teachings of a Not-So-Perfect Mom
Author: Glenice Lui
Publisher: BalboaPress
Total Pages: 55
Release: 2012-09-13
Genre: Self-Help
ISBN: 1452507082

Over the years, author Glenice Lui has learned many valuable lessons from her children; now she shares her favourite insights from being a mom. Modern moms try their best to juggle the many demands on their time and energy, with varying levels of success. Glenice has shared your struggle to balance work and family. Like you, shes learned that while moms may not always have the right answers, if their actions are driven by pure and unconditional love, things will usually work out just fine in the end. Teachings of a Not-So-Perfect Mom, her gift to moms everywhere, is filled with funny, heartwarming, and inspirational life lessons she has experienced. She wants to send the message that all moms have been given an innate gift of unimaginable love that transcends any difficulties coming our way in bringing up our families. So instead of wasting energy trying to be perfect, moms just need to have perfect love for their families.

Dispatches from a Not-So-Perfect Life

Dispatches from a Not-So-Perfect Life
Author: Faulkner Fox
Publisher: Crown
Total Pages: 274
Release: 2007-12-18
Genre: Biography & Autobiography
ISBN: 0307420582

When Salon.com published Faulkner Fox’s article on motherhood, “What I Learned from Losing My Mind,” the response was so overwhelming that Salon reran the piece twice. The experience made Faulkner realize that she was not alone—that the country is full of women who are anxious and conflicted about their roles as mothers and wives. In Dispatches from a Not-So-Perfect Life, her provocative, brutally honest, and often hilarious memoir of motherhood, Faulkner explores the causes of her unhappiness, as well as the societal and cultural forces that American mothers have to contend with. From the time of her first pregnancy, Faulkner found herself—and her body—scrutinized by doctors, friends, strangers, and, perhaps most of all, herself. In addition to the significant social pressures of raising the perfect child and being the perfect mom, Faulkner also found herself increasingly incensed by the unequal distribution of household labor and infuriated by the gender inequity in both her home and others’. And though she loves her children and her husband passionately, is thankful for her bountiful middle-class life, and feels wracked with guilt for being unhappy, she just can’t seem to experience the sense of satisfaction that she thought would come with the package. She’s finally got it all—the husband, the house, the kids, an interesting part-time job, even a few hours a week to write—so why does she feel so conflicted? Faulkner sheds light on the fear, confusion, and isolation experienced by many new mothers, mapping the terrain of contemporary domesticity, marriage, and motherhood in a voice that is candid, irreverent, and deeply personal, while always chronicling the unparalleled joy she and other mothers take in their children.

Not So Perfect Mom

Not So Perfect Mom
Author: Amy Rienow
Publisher:
Total Pages: 120
Release: 2019-06-25
Genre:
ISBN: 9781614841036

As a mom, do you feel a constant pressure and nagging guilt that comes from chasing perfection? A drive for perfection has a negative effect on the relationships you are trying to build and nurture in your home. Amy Rienow offers every mom hope and encouragement to build healthy relationships and find real joy. She writes like a friend reminding moms to embrace each day as an opportunity to build heart-connections with their children. This book is laced with honest and practical parenting advice from a biblical perspective. Amy shares 12 "Mom Missions" that will give moms a new approach to raising happy children who know they are loved.

The Good Mother Myth

The Good Mother Myth
Author: Avital Norman Nathman
Publisher: Seal Press
Total Pages: 290
Release: 2013-12-31
Genre: Family & Relationships
ISBN: 1580055036

In an era of mommy blogs, Pinterest, and Facebook, The Good Mother Myth dismantles the social media-fed notion of what it means to be a "good mother." This collection of essays takes a realistic look at motherhood and provides a platform for real voices and raw stories, each adding to the narrative of motherhood we don't tend to see in the headlines or on the news. From tales of mind-bending, panic-inducing overwhelm to a reflection on using weed instead of wine to deal with the terrible twos, the honesty of the essays creates a community of mothers who refuse to feel like they're in competition with others, or with the notion of the ideal mom—they're just trying to find a way to make it work. With a foreword by Christy Turlington Burns and a contributor list that includes Jessica Valenti, Sharon Lerner, Soraya Chemaly, Amber Dusick and many more, this remarkable collection seeks to debunk the myth and offer some honesty about what it means to be a mother.

There Are Moms Way Worse Than You

There Are Moms Way Worse Than You
Author: Glenn Boozan
Publisher: Workman Publishing
Total Pages: 65
Release: 2022-03-29
Genre: Family & Relationships
ISBN: 1523515643

A rhyming illustrated humor book for moms who feel they're not doing a good job (and that's all moms, right?). Packed with scientifically true examples of terrible parents in the animal kingdom, to remind and reassure any mother that there are way worse moms out there.

Perfect Madness

Perfect Madness
Author: Judith Warner
Publisher: Penguin
Total Pages: 356
Release: 2006-02-07
Genre: Family & Relationships
ISBN: 9781594481703

A lively and provocative look at the modern culture of motherhood and at the social, economic, and political forces that shaped current ideas about parenting What is wrong with this picture? That's the question Judith Warner asks in this national bestseller after taking a good, hard look at the world of modern parenting--at anxious women at work and at home and in bed with unhappy husbands. When Warner had her first child, she was living in Paris, where parents routinely left their children home, with state-subsidized nannies, to join friends in the evening for dinner or to go on dates with their husbands. When she returned to the States, she was stunned by the cultural differences she found toward how people think about effective parenting--in particular, assumptions about motherhood. None of the mothers she met seemed happy; instead, they worried about the possibility of not having the perfect child, panicking as each developmental benchmark approached. Combining close readings of mainstream magazines, TV shows, and pop culture with a thorough command of dominant ideas in recent psychological, social, and economic theory, Perfect Madness addresses our cultural assumptions, and examines the forces that have shaped them. Working in the tradition of classics like Betty Friedan's The Feminine Mystique and Christopher Lasch's The Culture of Narcissism, and with an awareness of a readership that turned recent hits like The Bitch in the House and Allison Pearson's I Don't Know How She Does It into bestsellers, Warner offers a context in which to understand parenting culture and the way we live, as well as ways of imagining alternatives--actual concrete changes--that might better our lives.

No More Perfect Moms

No More Perfect Moms
Author: Jill Savage
Publisher: Moody Publishers
Total Pages: 202
Release: 2013-01-16
Genre: Religion
ISBN: 0802484107

If you have ever forgotten to pick up your kids, accidentally worn two different shoes to the grocery store, or lost your cool over a messy house, YOU ARE NOT ALONE! In No More Perfect Moms, Jill Savage says it how it is: All moms struggle. We fall short of our own standard of excellence, and then we feel insecure about not being the perfect wife with the perfect kids, perfect husband, perfect home, perfect friends, perfect marriage, and perfect body… Jill speaks to the root of the insecurities mothers feel and points to a better way. No More Perfect Moms will help a mom: Change her unrealistic expectations to realistic hopes Give grace and love to her husband and children even during struggles, and discover the beauty of grace when she stops judging herself and others Find freedom from disappointment when she embraces her real family, her real challenges, and her real, but imperfect, life With refreshing honesty, Jill exposes some of her own parental shortcomings and helps mothers everywhere shelve their desires for perfection and embrace God’s beautiful grace. When moms do this, they can learn to love their real but imperfect lives. GROUP RESOURCES: FREE video curriculum, a leader’s guide, and additional group resources are available for No More Perfect Moms at www.NoMorePerfect.com.

The Myth of the Perfect Mother

The Myth of the Perfect Mother
Author: Carla Barnhill
Publisher:
Total Pages: 196
Release: 2004
Genre: Family & Relationships
ISBN: 9780801064661

Barnhill asserts that much of what people understand to be God's ideal is actually based on secular culture. Barnhill addresses several issues mothers struggle with and offers a positive view of motherhood based on biblical principles.

Buddhism for Mothers

Buddhism for Mothers
Author: Sarah Napthali
Publisher: ReadHowYouWant.com
Total Pages: 314
Release: 2010-06
Genre: Family & Relationships
ISBN: 1458780236

Become a calmer and happier mother with Buddhism for Mothers. 'This is an excellent, practical guide to everyday Buddhism not just for mothers, but for everyone who has ever had a mother. ' Vicki Mackenzie, author of the bestselling Why Buddhism Parenthood can be a time of great inner turmoil for a woman yet parenting books invariably focus on nurturing children rather than the mothers who struggle to raise them. This book is different. It is a book for mothers. Buddhism for Mothers explores the potential to be with your children in the all-important present moment; to gain the most joy out of being with them. How can this be done calmly and with a minimum of anger, worry and negative thinking? How can mothers negotiate the changed conditions of their relationships with partners, family and even with friends? Using Buddhist practices, Sarah Napthali offers ways of coping with the day-to-day challenges of motherhood. Ways that also allow space for the deeper reflections about who we are and what makes us happy. By acknowledging the sorrows as well as the joys of mothering Buddhism for Mothers can help you shift your perspective so that your mind actually helps you through your day rather than dragging you down. This is Buddhism at its most accessible, applied to the daily realities of ordinary parents. Even if exploring Buddhism at this busy stage of your life is not where you thought you'd be, it's well worthwhile reading this book. It can make a difference.