Reparenting the Child who Hurts

Reparenting the Child who Hurts
Author: Caroline Archer
Publisher: Jessica Kingsley Publishers
Total Pages: 236
Release: 2012
Genre: Psychology
ISBN: 1849052638

" ... A parenting book [that] demystifies the latest thinking on neurobiology, physiology and trauma, and explains what the research means for parenting children who hurt"--Cover, page [4].

Reparenting the Child Who Hurts

Reparenting the Child Who Hurts
Author: Christine Gordon
Publisher: Jessica Kingsley Publishers
Total Pages: 290
Release: 2012-12-15
Genre: Psychology
ISBN: 0857005685

Finally, a parenting book which demystifies the latest thinking on neurobiology, physiology and trauma and explains what the research means for the everyday life of parents of children who hurt. As experts on adoption and fostering who are adoptive parents themselves, Caroline Archer and Christine Gordon explain how this knowledge can help parents to better understand and care for their child. They explain why conventional parenting techniques are often not helpful for the child who has experienced early trauma and explore why therapeutic reparenting is the only way to help repair the unhealthy neurobiological and behavioural patterns which affect the child's development. They do not shy away from how difficult reparenting is, acknowledging how hard it can be to recognise our own fallibility as parents and to change our own parenting patterns. The authors also offer hard-won advice on a range of common parenting flashpoints - from defusing arguments and aggression to negotiating bedtimes and breaks in routine, and making sure that special occasions are remembered for all the right reasons. Reparenting the Child Who Hurts is a humane, no-nonsense survival guide for any parent caring for a child with developmental trauma or attachment difficulties, and will also provide information and insights for social workers, teachers, counsellors and other professionals involved in supporting adoptive and foster families.

Next Steps in Parenting the Child who Hurts

Next Steps in Parenting the Child who Hurts
Author: Caroline Archer
Publisher: Jessica Kingsley Publishers
Total Pages: 226
Release: 1999
Genre: Family & Relationships
ISBN: 1853028029

Caroline Archer sets out to provide adoptive and foster parents with an understanding of the complex range of difficulties with which their children may struggle as a result of their early experience of adversity. She presents strategies to help parents deal with their youngsters' troubling behaviour, in what seems to them a hostile world.

First Steps in Parenting the Child who Hurts

First Steps in Parenting the Child who Hurts
Author: Caroline Archer
Publisher: Jessica Kingsley Publishers
Total Pages: 130
Release: 1999
Genre: Family & Relationships
ISBN: 1853028010

Offers advice for adoptive parents on attachment and developmental issues arising from separation, loss, and trauma in early childhood.

New Families, Old Scripts

New Families, Old Scripts
Author: Caroline Archer
Publisher: Jessica Kingsley Publishers
Total Pages: 253
Release: 2006
Genre: Psychology
ISBN: 1843102587

"Case study families are used to highlight challenges adoptive parents are likely to encounter, such as dealing with anger and aggression, understanding sibling issues, managing sexualised behaviour or living with a child who is 'too good'. Detailed explanatory letters addressed to individual families present the material in sensitive, jargon-free ways to help parents make sense of, translate and transform their children's puzzling behavioural communications: 'the language of trauma' learned in their birth families."--BOOK JACKET.

Stories that Heal

Stories that Heal
Author: Lee Wallas
Publisher: W W Norton & Company Incorporated
Total Pages: 224
Release: 1991
Genre: Family & Relationships
ISBN: 9780393701067

Describes the problems faced by adult children of alcoholics, and argues that positve stories can be used under hypnosis to replace painful memories

Homecoming

Homecoming
Author: John Bradshaw
Publisher: Bantam
Total Pages: 306
Release: 2013-04-24
Genre: Psychology
ISBN: 0804150389

In this powerful book, the #1 New York Times bestselling author of Reclaiming Virtue shows how we can learn to nurture our inner child and offer ourselves the good parenting we needed and longed for. Are you outwardly successful but inwardly feel like a big kid? Do you aspire to be a loving parent but too often “lose it” in hurtful ways? Do you crave intimacy but sometimes wonder if it’s worth the struggle? Are you plagued by constant, vague feelings of anxiety or depression? If any of this sounds familiar, you may be experiencing the hidden but damaging effects of a painful childhood—carrying within you a “wounded inner child” who is crying out for attention and healing. John Bradshaw’s step-by-step process of exploring the unfinished business of each developmental stage helps us break away from destructive family rules and roles, freeing ourselves to live responsibly in the present. Then, says Bradshaw, the healed inner child becomes a source of vitality, inviting us to find new joy and energy in living. Homecoming includes a wealth of unique case histories and interactive techniques, including questionnaires, guided meditations, affirmations, and letter-writing to the inner child. These classic therapies, which were pioneering when introduced, continue to be validated by new discoveries in attachment research and neuroscience. No one has ever brought them to a popular audience more effectively and inspiringly than John Bradshaw.

Trauma, Attachment and Family Permanence

Trauma, Attachment and Family Permanence
Author: Caroline Archer
Publisher: Jessica Kingsley Publishers
Total Pages: 338
Release: 2003-02-15
Genre: Psychology
ISBN: 1846423872

Fostered and adopted children can present major challenges resulting from unresolved attachment issues and early traumatic experiences. In this much-needed book, the contributors provide a variety of complementary perspectives on the needs of these children and their families, focusing on ways of integrating attachment theory and developmental psychology into effective practice. Examining multiple aspects of work with children who are unable to live with their birth families, the book includes contributions on the assessment, preparation and support needs of children and families, attachment and the neurobiological effects of trauma, effective management of contact with birth families and developmental challenges in school settings. The use of creative arts therapies, alongside developmental reparenting strategies as part of a long-term attachment therapy `package', are explored in some detail. A fictionalised family, used as a working example throughout Part 2, brings practical interventions to life: illustrating the Family Futures' inclusive approach, where adoptive and foster parents become pivotal members of the therapeutic team. In addition, contributions from real-life user families illustrate some of the challenges they face and demonstrate how the developmental attachment-based approach has worked for them. Bringing together a rich and innovative selection of ideas for adoption and fostering practice across the disciplines, this book will be a valuable resource for all involved in supporting substitute families.

Reconciliation

Reconciliation
Author: Thich Nhat Hanh
Publisher: Parallax Press
Total Pages: 185
Release: 2006-10-09
Genre: Body, Mind & Spirit
ISBN: 1935209957

The revered Zen teacher presents Buddhist meditation and mindfulness practices as tools for healing fraught relationships and difficult emotions—so we can move past childhood trauma. Based on Dharma talks by Zen Master Thich Nhat Hanh, and insights from participants in retreats for healing the inner child, this book is an exciting contribution to the growing trend of using Buddhist practices to encourage mental health and wellness. Reconciliation focuses on the theme of mindful awareness of our emotions and healing our relationships, as well as meditations and exercises to acknowledge and transform the hurt that many of us experienced as children. The book shows how anger, sadness, and fear can become joy and tranquility by learning to breathe with, explore, meditate, and speak about our strong emotions. Reconciliation offers specific practices designed to bring healing and release for people suffering from childhood trauma. The book is written for a wide audience and accessible to people of all backgrounds and spiritual traditions.

The Science of Parenting Adopted Children

The Science of Parenting Adopted Children
Author: Arleta James
Publisher: Jessica Kingsley Publishers
Total Pages: 274
Release: 2019-06-21
Genre: Family & Relationships
ISBN: 1784505722

Many adoptees join their new families after having endured multiple traumatic experiences, which interrupts their development. Bringing together the latest research in brain science with the field of attachment, this book considers how the two can be linked to help children in healing both the brain and the heart. Laying out the many factors that can affect a child's mental health, it shows how parents can help to improve the development of a delayed child. Accessibly explaining cutting-edge neuroscience for parents, it gives the information needed to help with a traumatised child's social, emotional and moral development.