Parenting Your Adopted Older Child

Parenting Your Adopted Older Child
Author: Brenda McCreight
Publisher: New Harbinger Publications
Total Pages: 0
Release: 2002
Genre: Family & Relationships
ISBN: 9781572242845

This comprehensive guide provides specific parenting strategies for the growing number of people who adopt children over two years old. Parents learn to identify their child's needs, meet such challenges as aggressive behavior and attention deficit disorder, and create a sense of belonging.

Parenting Your Internationally Adopted Child

Parenting Your Internationally Adopted Child
Author: Patty Cogen
Publisher: ReadHowYouWant.com
Total Pages: 418
Release: 2011-05-14
Genre: Family & Relationships
ISBN: 145876883X

Parenting Your Internationally Adopted Child guides adoptive parents in promoting a child's emotional and social adjustment, from the family's first hours together through the teen years. It explains how to help an adopted child cope with the ''Big Change,'' bond with new parents, become part of a family, and develop a positive self-image that incorporates both American identity and ethnicity origins. Parents waiting to meet their adoptive children will appreciate Cogen's advice about preparing for the trip and handling the first meeting. The author's main focus, though, is the child's adaptation over the next months and years. Cogen explains how to deal with the child's ''mixed maturities''; how (and why) to tell the child's story from the child's point of view; how to handle sleep problems and resistance to household rules; and how to encourage eye contact and ease transitions and separations. The reassuring narrative tone and the breadth and depth of information make this the most substantive and accessible book available and an indispensable resource for parents who adopt, professionals who advise adoptive parents, and teachers of adoptive children

Real Parents, Real Children

Real Parents, Real Children
Author: Holly Van Gulden
Publisher: Crossroad Publishing Company
Total Pages: 279
Release: 1993
Genre: Family & Relationships
ISBN: 9780824513689

A leading authority on adoption and an award-winning writer bring wisdom and clarity to situations important to all adoptive parents. Real Parents, Real Children goes beyond the question of when to tell children they are adopted with practical advice for parents on how to talk with their children about adoption - not just once but throughout childhood, adolescence, and into young adulthood - and how to help them through the rougher points of growing up adopted. Authors Holly van Gulden and Lisa Bartels-Rabb offer insight into how adopted children at each age commonly think and feel about being adopted. They also explain how and why adopted children grieve for their birth parents and suggest ways adoptive parents can help them come to a healthy resolution of this grief. For prospective parents, the authors discuss ways to prepare themselves and the child they are about to adopt for the new family union. Throughout, the special concerns and challenges of interracial, international, and older-child adoptions are also addressed. Though written with parents in mind, Real Parents, Real Children provides the clinical information that professional therapists, counselors, and placement workers must have if they are to truly be of help to adoptive families at every stage of their lives. Real Parents, Real Children fills a real gap in adoption literature and offers confidence and assurance as well as sought-after answers to lifelong question.

Adoption Parenting

Adoption Parenting
Author: Jean MacLeod
Publisher: Emk Press
Total Pages: 0
Release: 2006
Genre: Adopted children
ISBN: 9780972624459

This book is a virtual one-step shop for adoption information for readers at any knowledge level . . . Strongly recommended for all public libraries and for all large university social science collections.--Lynn C. Maxwell, "Library Journal."

Parenting Your Adopted Child

Parenting Your Adopted Child
Author: Andrew Adesman
Publisher: McGraw Hill Professional
Total Pages: 257
Release: 2004-06-09
Genre: Family & Relationships
ISBN: 0071471022

A refreshingly positiveand practical approachto parenting Parents of adopted children face some uniquechallenges in addition to all the “regular”issues that come with being a parent. ParentingYour Adopted Child provides helpfultools that enable families to understand andcounter common myths about adoption thatmay be harmful to their children. It alsoclearly demonstrates how parents can effectivelytailor their parenting approach to suittheir child’s distinct needs. Written by a renowned pediatrician whospecializes in helping adopted children andtheir families, Parenting Your Adopted Childanswers such common concerns as: Why, when, and how do I explainadoption to my child and others? How can I help my child deal withadoption at different stages of life? How do I nurture a strong relationshipbetween siblings? How do I bond with my newborn?

What Every Adoptive Parent Needs to Know

What Every Adoptive Parent Needs to Know
Author: Kate Cremer-Vogel
Publisher: Mountain Ridge Publishing
Total Pages: 287
Release: 2008-05-01
Genre: Family & Relationships
ISBN: 0615188451

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Caring for Your Adopted Child

Caring for Your Adopted Child
Author: Elaine E. Schulte, , MPH, FAAP
Publisher:
Total Pages: 0
Release: 2018-10-15
Genre: Family & Relationships
ISBN: 9781610022156

With knowledge and compassion, Caring for Your Adopted Child offers the wisdom that adoptive parents need to provide the best possible care for their children. Whether a child joins a family through domestic adoption, international adoption, or foster care, he or she may have needs that require additional consideration. The coauthors, both adoptive parents, weave professional and personal experiences with essential information on: - Partnering with a pediatrician before adoption - Helping a child transition into a family - Understanding health issues and conditions that are more prevalent in children who are adopted - Supporting a child's emotional health and attachment - And promoting positive adoption conversation as a child matures This comprehensive resource offers trusted parenting advice from a leading adoption medicine expert and the American Academy of Pediatrics, focusing on the physical and emotional well-being of adopted children.

Our Own

Our Own
Author: Trish Maskew
Publisher:
Total Pages: 283
Release: 2003
Genre: Family & Relationships
ISBN: 9780966970159

Based on personal experiences, research, and interviews, the author presents "practical tips, advice, and real-life stories for anyone who is adopting, or hopes to adopt, an older child."--Cover.

The Science of Parenting Adopted Children

The Science of Parenting Adopted Children
Author: Arleta James
Publisher: Jessica Kingsley Publishers
Total Pages: 274
Release: 2019-06-21
Genre: Family & Relationships
ISBN: 1784505722

Many adoptees join their new families after having endured multiple traumatic experiences, which interrupts their development. Bringing together the latest research in brain science with the field of attachment, this book considers how the two can be linked to help children in healing both the brain and the heart. Laying out the many factors that can affect a child's mental health, it shows how parents can help to improve the development of a delayed child. Accessibly explaining cutting-edge neuroscience for parents, it gives the information needed to help with a traumatised child's social, emotional and moral development.

Telling the Truth to Your Adopted or Foster Child

Telling the Truth to Your Adopted or Foster Child
Author: Betsy Keefer Smalley
Publisher: Bloomsbury Publishing USA
Total Pages: 303
Release: 2015-09-15
Genre: Family & Relationships
ISBN: 1440834059

Many adopted or foster children have complex, troubling, often painful pasts. This book provides parents and professionals with sound advice on how to communicate effectively about difficult and sensitive topics, providing concrete strategies for helping adopted and foster children make sense of the past so they can enjoy a healthy, well-adjusted future. Approximately one of every four adopted children will have adjustment challenges related to their separation from the birth family, earlier trauma, attachment difficulties, and/or issues stemming from the adoption process. Common complicating issues of adopted children are feelings of rejection, abandonment, or confusion about their origins. While many foster and adoptive parents and even many professionals are reluctant to communicate openly about birth histories, silence only adds to the child's confusion and pain. This revised and significantly expanded edition of the award-winning Telling the Truth to Your Adopted or Foster Child equips parents with the knowledge and tools they need to communicate with their adopted or foster child about their past. Revisions include coverage of significant new research and information regarding the importance of understanding the child's trauma history to his or her well-being and successful adjustment in his foster or adoptive family. The authors answer such questions as: How do I share difficult information about my child's adoption in a sensitive manner? When is the right time to tell my child the whole truth? How do I obtain more information on my child's history? Detailed descriptions of actual cases help the parent or caregiver find ways to discover the truth (particularly in closed and international adoption cases), organize the information, and explain the details of the past gently to a toddler, child, or young adult who may find it frightening or confusing.