Navy Spouse's Guide

Navy Spouse's Guide
Author: Laura Hall Stavridis
Publisher: Naval Institute Press
Total Pages: 220
Release: 2002-03-01
Genre: History
ISBN: 1612516459

Naval officers and enlisted personnel undergo extensive training to cope with the special demands of their duties at sea and ashore, but what about their spouses and children? This practical, one-of-a-kind guide fills the gap by helping families navigate the unique challenges of Navy life. Personal, friendly, and easy to use, this updated edition of the original 1997 guide is based on interviews with Navy spouses and a lifetime of lessons learned by the author as a Navy junior and wife of a career naval officer. Using an array of hard-to-find diagrams, charts, facts, and figures from a wide variety of sources, Laura Stavridis explains every aspect of Navy life in a frank, open discussion. The particulars of pay, living expenses, travel, children, emergencies, support groups, and social life, as well as medical, legal, and educational issues are described in an interesting, spouse-to-spouse format. Readers learn what to expect with regard to separation, homecomings, life overseas, shore duty, marital dynamics, and divorce. Also covered are such vital topics as military careers, spousal careers, reenlistment, retirement, and transition to civilian life. Useful phone numbers, checklists, glossary, and an up-to-date primer on the Navy's organization, ships and aircraft, and chain of command complete this unique reference. New to this second edition are discussions of e-mail communication, Internet resources, and spouse leadership roles within the Navy. For anyone starting out or contemplating life with a mate in the sea services this one-volume source of user-friendly information will prove invaluable.

NAVY WIFE

NAVY WIFE
Author: Debbie Macomber
Publisher: Harlequin
Total Pages: 238
Release: 2013-02-15
Genre: Fiction
ISBN: 1460314344

Impulsive, wounded, vulnerable, Lindy Kyle was unprepared for a roommate like Rush Callaghan. Strong, sensitive and sexy, the temporarily dry-docked naval officer was everything she’d ever dreamed of in a man…in a husband. But Rush placed duty to his country above all else. Though he and Lindy were swept away on a tide of passion, he was called back to sea. They say absence makes the heart grow fonder—but will their marriage survive their partings?

Wifeline

Wifeline
Author:
Publisher:
Total Pages: 20
Release: 1978
Genre: Navy spouses
ISBN:

A magazine for Navy families.

Going Overboard

Going Overboard
Author: Sarah Smiley
Publisher: Penguin
Total Pages: 284
Release: 2006-06-27
Genre: Biography & Autobiography
ISBN: 0451218515

In 1999, Sarah was a typical bride-to-be, flustered with wedding details. Then the groom called. “I don’t want you to panic, but I might not be able to come to our wedding....” So began Sarah Smiley’s life as a military wife. As a former Navy brat herself, Sarah knew better than anyone that weddings and funerals—even childbirth!—take a backseat to Uncle Sam. But just as the young, nationally syndicated columnist was getting comfortable with the military wife’s routine, her husband was sent away for an unexpected deployment. What followed was a true test of strength and wit. From getting locked out of the house in cowgirl pajamas to wrestling with the temptation of infidelity, Sarah exposes it all with candor, heart—and knowing humor.

Navy Spouse's Guide

Navy Spouse's Guide
Author: Laura Hall Stavridis
Publisher: US Naval Institute Press
Total Pages: 232
Release: 1998
Genre: Family & Relationships
ISBN:

"The particulars of pay, living expenses, travel, children, emergencies, support groups, and social life - as well as medical, legal, and educational issues - are described in an interesting, spouse-to-spouse format. Readers learn what to expect with regard to deployment separation, homecomings, life overseas, shore duty, marital dynamics, and divorce. Also covered are such vital topics as military careers, spousal careers, reenlistment, retirement, and transition to civilian life.

It Had to Be You

It Had to Be You
Author: R. J. Howare
Publisher: ELDERBERRY PRESS, INC.
Total Pages: 120
Release: 2003-12
Genre: Biography & Autobiography
ISBN: 9781930859937

In this memoir of a navy wife, Howard captures the powerful spirit of an age, a people and an America now lost. With this work, the author of "Power Steering" has recorded her life as an adventure.

Navy Wife

Navy Wife
Author: Jack Ferrell
Publisher:
Total Pages:
Release: 2021-01-20
Genre:
ISBN: 9780578839646

Memoir about the author's wife. The wife of Retire Navy Commander Jack Ferrell

The War at Home

The War at Home
Author: Rachel Starnes
Publisher: Penguin
Total Pages: 258
Release: 2016-07-05
Genre: Biography & Autobiography
ISBN: 1101992077

A portrait of the strains of a military marriage and meditation on what it means to be left behind—a brave account of the challenges facing the wife of a Naval fighter pilot. When she fell in love with her brother’s best friend, Rachel Starnes had no idea she was about to repeat a painful family pattern—marrying a man who leaves regularly and for long stretches to work a dangerous job far from home. Through constant relocations, separations, and the crippling doubts of early parenthood, Starnes effortlessly weaves together strands from her past with the relentless pace of Navy life in a time of war. Searingly honest and emotionally unflinching—and at times laugh out loud funny—Starnes eloquently evokes the challenges she faces in trying to find and claim a sense of home while struggling to chart a new path and avoid passing on the same legacy to her two young sons. At once a portrait of the devastating strains that military life puts on families and a meditation on what it means to be left behind, The War at Home is a brave portrait of a modern military family and the realities of separation, endurance, and love that overcomes. “Rachel Starnes’s The War at Home navigates the joys, fears, compromises, and casualties that create the terrain of marriage. And if you are a military spouse, her memoir will reveal thoughts you never even knew you had. This is a wise and fearless book.” —Siobhan Fallon, author of You Know When the Men Are Gone “One of the most honest and genuine memoirs I’ve ever read, as well as one of the most finely written. There’s not a false note in these pages. Rachel Starnes’s story is at once both singular and emblematic. . . . The War at Home is that rare thing: a book about the here and now that promises to last well beyond next month or next year.” —Steve Yarbrough, award-winning author of The Realm of Last Chances and Safe from the Neighbors

She Also Served

She Also Served
Author: Christine Witzel
Publisher: CreateSpace
Total Pages: 212
Release: 2014-07-02
Genre: BIOGRAPHY & AUTOBIOGRAPHY
ISBN: 9781495944703

What was daily life like for a Navy officer's wife in California during World War II? In China amid civil war? In London and Europe during the Cold War? She Also Served: Letters from a Navy Wife offers an up-close and personal account of one woman's life during extraordinary times. With an eye for detail and an irrepressible sense of humor, Virgilia Short Witzel (1910-2004) tells the lesser-known stories of the Greatest Generation, those of a woman who served behind the scenes. Through skillful reporting, she reveals the dedication (and stamina) required to protect her family, support her husband's career, and represent the best of America, at home and overseas. Her younger daughter, Christine Witzel, sifted through hundreds of private letters, compiling the most entertaining and historically interesting selections. The result is an eminently readable collection. In the process, Christine, born in 1950, discovers a side of her mother that she had never known as well as a window into history as it unfolded. With her husband stationed in the Pacific, Virgilia moves into the “Snuggery,” a guest cottage behind her parents' home in Menlo Park, California. She plants vegetables in a victory garden, rolls bandages for the Red Cross, and tries to achieve a sense of normalcy for herself and daughter Joanna amid rationing, shortages, and loneliness: “Going to weddings without a man of your own is a very bad business,” she writes. “Whoever wrote that book about living alone and liking it was either a fool or a liar. I can see why some women rent escorts! Come on home before I set a trap for the milkman!” (July 4, 1943) Organizing a wartime birthday party is no easy affair: Woolworth's replaces candy counters with book displays, her favorite bakery won't take orders, and nowhere can she find white cotton socks for Joanna. “Can you imagine such a thing?” she writes. (July 20, 1943) An English major at University of California at Berkeley, Virgilia almost lands a newspaper job. “Mr. Willis (at the Menlo Park Gazette) was willing to give me a week's trial writing the society news, but his wife said no, so that was that.” (Sept. 8, 1943) After wartime privation, Virgilia joins her husband in Shanghai in November 1946, where she relishes opulent accommodations, servants, and panoramic views offering “ box seats for a continual newsreel.” The “singing stevedores” captivate her. The tune is “halfway between a chant and a yodel, and in rhythm with their steps, gradually slowing down to one note as the load reaches the bottom of the truck.” Based in London from 1953 to 1955 (the era portrayed in the “Call the Midwife” and “Bletchley Circle” TV series), Virgilia and her family explore postwar Europe. She brings her sharp eyes to a Buckingham Palace garden party, where she encounters Sir Winston Churchill and Billy Graham. She applauds the elegance of upper-class British women but is less than taken with the Royal Family. “The Queen is much smaller than she appears in photographs and also looked older and more tired than we had expected.” … Princess Margaret (“looking rather bored and sullen” en route) “is very small and the Queen M is just as short but very fat and quite un-aristocratic looking. The Duke is really a dish—very tall, very slender and full of personality.” Describing Billy Graham, she writes: “His skin is as smooth and fine-textured as a child's and some friends wondered if he had on pancake makeup. He's like a matinée idol—very tall, blond and glamorous. His wife looked pretty much like the usual parson's wife.” (July 24, 1955) Virgilia was a brilliant social reporter, and Mr. Willis erred grievously by failing to hire her. Recognizing her mother's talent, Christine Witzel opens her letters to new audiences.