Making Sense of Abstinence

Making Sense of Abstinence
Author: Bill Taverner
Publisher:
Total Pages: 134
Release: 2005-06-01
Genre: Sex instruction for teenagers
ISBN: 9780984301423

An easy-to-use manual providing factual information and lessons for sexuality educators, clergy and youth workers to help teens think about abstinence in a way that values the teen's ability to make positive decisions in our complex society.

Making Chastity Sexy

Making Chastity Sexy
Author: Christine J. Gardner
Publisher: Univ of California Press
Total Pages: 262
Release: 2011-07-28
Genre: Religion
ISBN: 0520950550

Even though they are immersed in sex-saturated society, millions of teens are pledging to remain virgins until their wedding night. How are evangelical Christians persuading young people to wait until marriage? Christine J. Gardner looks closely at the language of the chastity movement and discovers a savvy campaign that uses sex to "sell" abstinence. Drawing from interviews with evangelical leaders and teenagers, she examines the strategy to shift from a negative "just say no" approach to a positive one: "just say yes" to great sex within marriage. Making Chastity Sexy sheds new light on an abstinence campaign that has successfully recast a traditionally feminist idea—"my body, my choice"—into a powerful message, but one that Gardner suggests may ultimately reduce evangelicalism’s transformative power. Focusing on the United States, her study also includes a comparative dimension by examining the export of this evangelical agenda to sub-Saharan Africa.

The Abstinence Teacher

The Abstinence Teacher
Author: Tom Perrotta
Publisher: Macmillan + ORM
Total Pages: 388
Release: 2007-10-16
Genre: Fiction
ISBN: 1429921382

The Abstinence Teacher illuminates the powerful emotions that run beneath the placid surface of modern American family life, and explores the complicated spiritual and sexual lives of ordinary people. It is elegantly and simply written, characterized by the distinctive mix of satire and compassion that has become Tom Perrotta's trademark. Stonewood Heights is the perfect place to raise children: it's got good schools, solid values and a healthy real estate market. Parents in the town are involved in their children's lives, and often in other children's lives, too—coaching sports, driving carpool, focusing on enriching experiences. Ruth Ramsey is the high school human sexuality teacher whose openness is not appreciated by all her students—or their parents. Her daughter's soccer coach is Tim Mason, a former stoner and rocker whose response to hitting rock bottom was to reach out and be saved. Tim's introduction of Christianity on the playing field horrifies Ruth, while his evangelical church sees a useful target in the loose-lipped sex ed teacher. But when these two adversaries in a small-town culture war actually talk to each other, a surprising friendship begins to develop. "Perrotta is that rare combination: a satirist with heart....Those who haven't curled up on the couch with this writer's books are missing a very great pleasure."—Seattle Times "Tom Perrotta is a truth-telling, unshowy chronicler of modern-day America."—The NewYork Times Book Review (in a front-page review)

Choices Workbook

Choices Workbook
Author: Yolonda Bailey
Publisher: Createspace Independent Publishing Platform
Total Pages: 80
Release: 2016-01-30
Genre:
ISBN: 9781522989714

Choosing to be abstinent from sex is an easy choice; however actually abstaining from sex is the challenge. Being equipped to maneuver through those challenges rests on the foundation of why the choice is being made. As a person begins or continues on this journey of celibacy success rests on understanding your position on abstaining. There are various reasons people make the choice to abstain from sex. Making the choice to abstain from sex is made for various reasons. Understanding the various reasons can help a person decided whether abstinence is a choice they would like to make. Whether researching individually or studying as a group this work book along with the book "Choices: The ideology of abstinence" can help get things started. Choices the ideology of abstinence is a book that explores the thought process of choosing to abstain from sex. This workbook is a companion to Choices which allows the reader to document what they've learned. This workbook outlines key moments in "Choices" and prompts the reader to dig a little deeper to make this experience personal and not just a book they've finished reading. Making this experience personal is essential for those who want to succeed after making the choice to abstain from sex. It is important to fully understand why it's a choice you want to make. This also can become a great resource for those who have already chosen to abstain from sex. It is full of information that will reaffirm why this choice was made and encourage further understanding.

Choosing to Wait

Choosing to Wait
Author: Laura Gallier
Publisher: Destiny Image Publishers
Total Pages: 169
Release: 2009-03-28
Genre: Religion
ISBN: 0768497701

This book goes beyond boundary setting, and instead empowers parents to cultivate convictions in their children so they can stand strong when faced with temptation. While other books focus on modifying a child's behavior, this book gives parents the power to ignite lasting character transformation in their kids. Parents are equipped to effectively convey truths through a healthy discipleship connection. Author and mother of three Laura Gallier focuses on three critical areas: Preparation, Application, and Motivation. She guides parents and children into a biblical understanding of the purposes and sacredness of sex within marriage as well as the realities of sexual sin. She also provides practical tools to assist parents in this sometimes awkward (but very crucial) life issue. Arm your kids today with emotional, spiritual, and physical ammunition that will keep them from making the wrong choices.

Sex Before the Sexual Revolution

Sex Before the Sexual Revolution
Author: Simon Szreter
Publisher: Cambridge University Press
Total Pages:
Release: 2010-10-14
Genre: History
ISBN: 1139492896

What did sex mean for ordinary people before the sexual revolution of the 1960s and 1970s, who were often pitied by later generations as repressed, unfulfilled and full of moral anxiety? This book provides the first rounded, first-hand account of sexuality in marriage in the early and mid-twentieth century. These award-winning authors look beyond conventions of silence among the respectable majority to challenge stereotypes of ignorance and inhibition. Based on vivid, compelling and frank testimonies from a socially and geographically diverse range of individuals, the book explores a spectrum of sexual experiences, from learning about sex and sexual practices in courtship, to attitudes to the body, marital ideals and birth control. It demonstrates that while the era's emphasis on silence and strict moral codes could for some be a source of inhibition and dissatisfaction, for many the culture of privacy and innocence was central to fulfilling and pleasurable intimate lives.

Hooked

Hooked
Author: Joe S. McIlhaney, Jr.
Publisher: Moody Publishers
Total Pages: 177
Release: 2008-08-01
Genre: Family & Relationships
ISBN: 1575673983

Society tells us that sex is an act of self-expression, a personal choice for physical pleasure that can be summed up in the ubiquitous phrase: “hooking up". Millions of American teenagers and young adults are finding that the psychological baggage of such behavior is having a real and lasting impact on their lives. They are discovering that “hooking up” is the easy part, but “unhooking” from the bonds of a sexual relationship can have serious consequences. A practical look into new scientific research showing how sexual activity causes the release of brain chemicals, which then result in emotional bonding and a powerful desire to repeat the activity. This book will help parents and singles understand that “safe sex” isn't safe at all; that even if they are protected against STDs and pregnancy, they are still hurting themselves and their partner.