It is now a scientific fact, the pain we experience as a result of heartbreak stimulates the same region of the brain stimulated when we are experiencing physical pain. From personal experience, psychology doctoral candidate Troy Byer profoundly understands heartbreak pain is real. As a direct result of her personal experience, in this book, Troy will help you to understand, getting over your ex is a delicate process that requires actions beyond crying, gossiping, stalking, ignoring or avoiding. Such a process demands that you let go of your immobilizing monologs and that you move into transforming dialogues and inquiries that are life altering experiences. In addition to fulfilling the process above, the 9 Keys in this book will enable you to alter your relationship to pain, labels and your circumstances. To better understand how you navigate the tumultuous sea of love, these 9 Keys will assist you in finding the sea vessel that best represents you. Once you understand how you are designed, you will also understand the importance of choosing other ships that your ship can inherently relate to and therefore comfortably be in a relation-ship with. Metaphorically speaking, if you're a slow but steady Rowboat personality, the way you navigate the sea in the midst of a storm will vastly differ from that of a thrill-seeking Speedboat personality. As a result of this difference, it's inevitable that someone is going overboard. Finally, in addition to identifying and learning about the kind of boat you float on the sea of love, you will also learn about the secret treasures you exchanged with your ex while journeying as one. The surprise is that these precious treasures are truly the treasures you have been diving for and nearly willing to die for your entire life. Once you understand, you already possess the treasure you have been seeking on the sea of love, the search outside of you ends and a new relationship with yourself begins.