The Newlyweds

The Newlyweds
Author: Mansi Choksi
Publisher: Simon and Schuster
Total Pages: 288
Release: 2024-06-18
Genre: Family & Relationships
ISBN: 1982134453

"In India, there are 650 million people under the age of 35. These are men and women who grew up with the Internet, and the advent of smartphones and social media. But when it comes to love and marriage, they're expected to adhere to thousands of years of tradition. It's that tension between obeying tradition and accepting modernity that drives journalist Mansi Choksi's THE NEWLYWEDS-also signaling the arrival of a major literary talent. Through gorgeous, lyrical prose, Choksi shines a light on three young couples who buck against arranged marriages in the pursuit of true love. Choski illustrates the challenges, shame, anger, triumph, and loss their collective actions set in play. Against the backdrop of India's beautiful villages, mountains, and cities, Choksi introduces readers to: Reshma & Preeti, a lesbian couple forced to flee town for a chance at a life together-all while the headstrong Reshma continues to convince Preeti their love is right and unconquerable: to Monika & Arif, a Hindu woman and Muslim man leaving their families behind in the cover of night as they and their loved ones are harassed by the "Love Commandos," a violent militia group (implicitly sanctioned by Narendra Modi) whose chief aim is to prevent all interfaith marriages: and to Neetu & Dawinder, an inter-caste couple who, despite learning about a similar couple being burned alive for their "crime," resolve to work towards a different fate. Ultimately, while thousands of miles separate the principal characters from readers, the questions their pursuits ask are universal. Specifically: What are we really willing to risk for love? If we're lucky enough to find it, does it change us? If so, for the better? Or for the worse? The answers to these questions vary upon the three couples, but their collective fight allows readers into a world whose customs and traditions are rarely discussed-or questioned"--

To Marry an Indian

To Marry an Indian
Author: Theresa Strouth Gaul
Publisher: Univ of North Carolina Press
Total Pages: 241
Release: 2006-03-08
Genre: Literary Collections
ISBN: 0807876356

When nineteen-year-old Harriett Gold, from a prominent white family in Cornwall, Connecticut, announced in 1825 her intention to marry a Cherokee man, her shocked family initiated a spirited correspondence debating her decision to marry an Indian. Eventually, Gold's family members reconciled themselves to her wishes, and she married Elias Boudinot in 1826. After the marriage, she returned with Boudinot to the Cherokee Nation, where he went on to become a controversial political figure and editor of the first Native American newspaper. Providing rare firsthand documentation of race relations in the early nineteenth-century United States, this volume collects the Gold family correspondence during the engagement period as well as letters the young couple sent to the family describing their experiences in New Echota (capital of the Cherokee Nation) during the years prior to the Cherokee Removal. In an introduction providing historical and social contexts, Theresa Strouth Gaul offers a literary reading of the correspondence, highlighting the value of the epistolary form and the gender and racial dynamics of the exchange. As Gaul demonstrates, the correspondence provides a factual accompaniment to the many fictionalized accounts of contacts between Native Americans and Euroamericans and supports an increasing recognition that letters form an important category of literature.

Shaadi Remix

Shaadi Remix
Author: Geetha Ravindra
Publisher: Wheatmark, Inc.
Total Pages: 132
Release: 2013
Genre: Hindu marriage customs and rites
ISBN: 9781604949483

Marriage is one of the most sacred institutions in India. Traditionally, parents and other family members have arranged marriages for their children based on caste, matching horoscopes, family status, or dowry. Over the past few decades, however, divorce rates have grown significantly. It would seem that the old way of doing things is no longer working -- but why? Drawing on her experience with hundreds of families struggling with marital discord, attorney and mediator Geetha Ravindra explores the breakdown of Indian marriage within a rapidly changing culture, explaining why the conventional criteria used to arrange marriages no longer ensure lasting, healthy relationships. With stories of how real Indian couples navigate a twenty-first-century world, Shaadi Remix: Transforming the Traditional Indian Marriage, provides guidance on alternative methods of choosing partners, as well as tips on effectively communicating and resolving conflict in marriage. Shaadi Remix is a must read for Indian parents, Indian youth contemplating marriage, and anyone who is interested in understanding the Indian marriage system. Geetha Ravindra offers readers a unique approach to the traditional Indian union-one that blends the important values of the Vedic marriage with contemporary and practical considerations.

Courtship & Marriage

Courtship & Marriage
Author: Vijay Nagaswami
Publisher: Penguin Books India
Total Pages: 260
Release: 2002
Genre: Courtship
ISBN: 9780143028086

Ways To A More Fulfilling Marriage Do You, Like Many Modern Indian Couples, Worry About Your Marriage? Do You Feel That Your Most Intimate Relationship Could Be More Fulfilling And Wonder How You And Your Partner Can Attain A Deeper Level Of Love? Psychiatrist And Marital Therapist Dr Vijay Nagaswami Offers Advice To Today S Indian Couples Who Want To Strengthen Their Marital Relationship. He Expertly Guides Partners Through Problems That They Face Routinely And Identifies Challenges Encountered In Both Arranged And Love Marriages. Written In An Accessible And Informal Style, The Book Combines Real And Fictionalized Accounts To Illustrate The More Common Difficulties Of Modern Marriage And Describes Practical Steps Towards Resolutions And Personal Growth. Intended For All Couples And Not Only Dysfunctional Ones, This Is An Indispensable Resource For One Of The Least Understood And Discussed Aspects Of Contemporary Indian Life. First Ever Such Manual Specific To India

Love Will Follow

Love Will Follow
Author: Shaifali Sandhya
Publisher:
Total Pages: 255
Release: 2009
Genre: India
ISBN: 9788184000429

The Indian marriage is burning. In this groundbreaking study-the first clinical andcultural portrait of its kind-Shaifali Sandhya explores the intimate lives of middle class Indianhusbands and wives living in India and abroad and looks at what is causing this breakdown.Interviewing countless couples, using current research, and looking deeply at the key areas inrelationships which cause conflict-sex, money, family-she draws a devastating picture of themodern Indian marriage. " 80% of divorces are initiated by women. " 94% of Indian couples say they are happy in their relationships but a majority of themsay they would not marry the same person if they had a chance to replay their lives. " 1/3rd of Indian couples say they are dissatisfied with their sex life. " Most couples call the early years of their marriage the honeymoon years . For Indiancouples they are usually the worst. Hardhitting, eyeopening, and completely riveting, Love will Follow takes you into the hearts andminds of Indian men and women. Full of moving stories, fascinating statistics, and insights, it couldchange the way you see your relationship-and your life.

Colonial Intimacies

Colonial Intimacies
Author: Ann Marie Plane
Publisher: Cornell University Press
Total Pages: 272
Release: 2018-09-05
Genre: History
ISBN: 1501729500

In 1668 Sarah Ahhaton, a married Native American woman of the Massachusetts Bay town of Punkapoag, confessed in an English court to having committed adultery. For this crime she was tried, found guilty, and publicly whipped and shamed; she contritely promised that if her life were spared, she would return to her husband and "continue faithfull to him during her life yea although hee should beat her againe...."These events, recorded in the court documents of colonial Massachusetts, may appear unexceptional; in fact, they reflect a rapidly changing world. Native American marital relations and domestic lives were anathema to English Christians: elite men frequently took more than one wife, while ordinary people could dissolve their marriages and take new partners with relative ease. Native marriage did not necessarily involve cohabitation, the formation of a new household, or mutual dependence for subsistence. Couples who wished to separate did so without social opprobrium, and when adultery occurred, the blame centered not on the "fallen" woman but on the interloping man. Over time, such practices changed, but the emergence of new types of "Indian marriage" enabled the legal, social, and cultural survival of New England's native peoples. The complex interplay between colonial power and native practice is treated with subtlety and wisdom in Colonial Intimacies. Ann Marie Plane uses travel narratives, missionary tracts, and legal records to reconstruct a previously neglected history. Plane's careful reading of fragmentary sources yields both conclusive and fittingly speculative findings, and her interpretations form an intimate picture, moving and often tragic, of the familial bonds of Native Americans in the first century and a half of European contact.

The Big Fat Indian Wedding and other stories

The Big Fat Indian Wedding and other stories
Author: MYSORE PRABHAKAR
Publisher: Notion Press
Total Pages: 258
Release: 2023-07-19
Genre: Biography & Autobiography
ISBN:

The Big Fat Indian Wedding' and other stories by Mysore Prabhakar is a heart-warming collection of stories and anecdotes covering everyday life in India. With a touch of Wodehousian humour, and a keen sense of observation and empathy, he explores the moments and memories that make up life in India where the individual, family and community come together to form a rich tapestry. The charms of 'Old Bengaluru' come alive in his easy, narrative style while recollections of his life in the military will keep you engrossed and well-entertained.

Let's Celebrate An Indian Wedding! (Maya & Neel's India Adventure Series, Book 9) (Multicultural, Non-Religious, Culture, Dance, Baraat, Groom, Bride, Horse, Mehendi, Henna, Sangeet, Biracial Indian American Families,Picture Book Gift,Global Children)

Let's Celebrate An Indian Wedding! (Maya & Neel's India Adventure Series, Book 9) (Multicultural, Non-Religious, Culture, Dance, Baraat, Groom, Bride, Horse, Mehendi, Henna, Sangeet, Biracial Indian American Families,Picture Book Gift,Global Children)
Author: Ajanta Chakraborty
Publisher:
Total Pages: 40
Release: 2018-04-20
Genre: Juvenile Fiction
ISBN: 9781945792120

In this multicultural and educational series from Bollywood Groove, join Maya, Neel and their pet squirrel, Chintu, as they visit New Delhi to celebrate an Indian Wedding!

Bollywood Weddings

Bollywood Weddings
Author: Kavita Ramdya
Publisher: Rowman & Littlefield
Total Pages: 138
Release: 2010
Genre: Reference
ISBN: 9780739138540

Bollywood Weddings examines how second-generation Indian-American Hindus of the middle and upper classes negotiate courtship and wedding rituals. Kavita Ramdya integrates the stories of twenty couples, showing the ways and means by which a subcommunity falls in love and expresses their identity. She provides readers with a window into these Indian-American couples who are navigating identities through a major rite of passage in their lives-marriage. She affirms that this community flaunts all things Indian as a way to assert their American identity. Many of these couples are occasional Hindus, displaying their Hindu religious background only on important occasions. Instead of choosing either India or America, or arriving at a compromise between the two, this community embraces both cultures simultaneously.