If It Hurts, It Isn't Love

If It Hurts, It Isn't Love
Author: Chuck Spezzano
Publisher: Da Capo Lifelong Books
Total Pages: 416
Release: 2000-03-27
Genre: Family & Relationships
ISBN: 9781569246344

In If It Hurts, It Isn't Love, author Chuck Spezzano finds truth in simple insights: What I think I need is what I am called to give. Depression is the fear that something new will leave me. When someone gets angry at me, there is a lesson for me to learn. Jealousy is a birthing place. These principles show how to look afresh at one's most important relationships, in a way that heals pain and brings love and forgiveness. After each principle, the author gives brief exercises that nudge readers further, prompting them to absorb the insights even more deeply.

If It Hurts, It Isn't Love

If It Hurts, It Isn't Love
Author: Chuck Spezzano
Publisher: Coronet
Total Pages: 412
Release: 2001-08
Genre: Psychology
ISBN: 9780340818640

If it Hurts, it isn't Love first came to media attention when Princess Diana gave an underlined and personally annotated copy of it to a friend. Its wise and inspiring principles clearly touched a chord with her - as they have many others in the previous edition. It is Chuck Spezzano's aim, through this book, to bring everyone the love and happiness they deserve.

Loveability

Loveability
Author: Robert Holden, Ph.D.
Publisher: Hay House, Inc
Total Pages: 245
Release: 2014-06-02
Genre: Self-Help
ISBN: 140194163X

"Love is your destiny. It is the purpose of your life. It is the key to your happiness and to the evolution of the world." Loveability is a meditation on love. It addresses the most important thing you will ever learn. All the happiness, health, and abundance you experience in life comes from your ability to love and be loved. This ability is innate, not acquired. Robert Holden is the creator of a unique program on love called Loveability, which he teaches worldwide. He has helped thousands of people to transform their experience of love. "Love is the real work of your life," says Robert. "As you release the blocks to love you flourish even more in your relationships, work, and life." In Loveability, Robert weaves a beautiful mix of timeless principles and helpful practices about the nature of true love. With great intimacy and warmth, he shares stories, conversations, meditations, and poetry that have inspired him in his personal inquiry on love. Key themes include: • Your destiny is not just to find love; it is to be the most loving person you can be. • Self-love is how you are meant to feel about yourself. It is the key to loving others. • When you think something is missing in a relationship, it is probably you. • Forgiveness helps you to see that love has never hurt you; it is only your misperceptions of love that hurt. • The greatest influence you can have in any situation is to be the presence of love.

Love Like You've Never Been Hurt

Love Like You've Never Been Hurt
Author: Jentezen Franklin
Publisher: Chosen Books
Total Pages: 229
Release: 2018-03-06
Genre: Religion
ISBN: 1493413511

The human heart was created with a great capacity to love. But along with that comes a great capacity to feel pain. There is no denying that those who love us, who are closest to us, can wound us the most profoundly. That kind of pain can be difficult, if not impossible, to overcome. And it can feel even more impossible to continue loving in the face of it. Yet that is exactly what we are called to do. Sharing his own story of personal pain, pastor and New York Times bestselling author Jentezen Franklin shows us how to find the strength, courage, and motivation to set aside the hurt, see others as God sees them, and reach out in love. Through biblical and modern-day stories, he discusses different types of relational disappointment and heartache, and answers questions such as Why should I trust again? and How can I ever really forgive? The walls we build around our hearts to cut us off from pain are the very walls that block us from seeing hope, receiving healing, and feeling love. Here are the tools and inspiration you need to tear down those walls, work through your wounds, repair damaged relationships, and learn to love like you've never been hurt.

The Love That Hurts

The Love That Hurts
Author: Nicole Strycharz
Publisher:
Total Pages: 394
Release: 2019-10-08
Genre:
ISBN: 9781691861118

Includes a bonus chapter and a Q&A with the author at the end of the story! Josefina: My story isn't sweet or easy to hear. It's the truth. A brutal truth anyone you know could be living through right now. I'm the person people talk about, asking, "Why does she stay?" My story will tell you why. It will tell you how it starts, where it leads. When does it end or will it ever? This is a different side of love, a darker, and deadly side that isn't always discussed. People think it can't be love, that it starts with pain. Trust me, it starts with love. A love that hurts. Ridge: Because if love doesn't hurt, it can't be real. *TRIGGER WARNINGThis book contains strong language, violence, and graphic descriptions of domestic abuse. Please read with caution.Only for readers 18 years and up.

Enough

Enough
Author: Sharon Jaynes
Publisher: Harvest House Publishers
Total Pages: 274
Release: 2018-04-03
Genre: Religion
ISBN: 0736973540

What Can You Do When You Feel You're Just Not Good Enough? Do the voices in your head say you're not good enough, smart enough, pretty enough...or just not enough, period? It's time to stop listening to lies that sabotage your confidence and embrace the truth of who God says you are. Popular author and speaker Sharon Jaynes exposes the lies that keep you bogged down in shame, insecurity, and feelings of inadequacy. By recognizing the lies and replacing them with truth, you'll be able to silence the voice inside that whispers you're just not good enough accept God's grace and move past failures that have defined and confined you preload your heart with truth to fight your deepest insecurities Your confidence and faith will grow when you trade self-defeating thoughts for God's truth. Today is the day to embrace your incredible worth as a woman who is uniquely fashioned and spiritually empowered.

If It Hurts, It Isn't Love

If It Hurts, It Isn't Love
Author: Chuck Spezzano
Publisher:
Total Pages: 416
Release: 2020-05-16
Genre:
ISBN:

Chuck says:"The whole reason for my work is to make psychology available to everybody at every level in society. I want to put it into everyday language with everyday principles so people will know they have the power and the tools to transform themselves in every situation in every relationship."Princess Diana called it: the ,,BOOK OF LOVE" that helped her heal her pain.The principles in this book can change your live and Chuck explains all the traps and misunderstandings in relations.This book is a collection of principles that heal. They are based on what has worked for me personally and as a therapist since 1971, with over 11 of these years as a marriage counsellor.Some of these lessons may seem simplistic, but they actually have the simplicity of principles. I know these principles work as used. They are some of the principles at the heart of the Psychology of Vision® that I have been developing since my doctoral dissertation. I have witnessed innumerable transformational and miracle-like experiences in therapeutic situations. I reach to live these principles continually in my daily life and especially at the times when it unfolds in problematic ways.

Loving Music Till It Hurts

Loving Music Till It Hurts
Author: William Cheng
Publisher: Oxford University Press, USA
Total Pages: 409
Release: 2019
Genre: Music
ISBN: 0190620137

Can music feel pain? Do songs possess dignity? Do symphonies have rights? Of course not, you might say. Yet think of how we anthropomorphize music, not least when we believe it has been somehow mistreated. A singer butchered or mangled the "Star-Spangled Banner" at the Super Bowl. An underrehearsed cover band made a mockery of Led Zeppelin's classics. An orchestra didn't quite do justice to Mozart's Requiem. Such lively language upholds music as a sentient companion susceptible to injury and in need of fierce protection. There's nothing wrong with the human instinct to safeguard beloved music . . . except, perhaps, when this instinct leads us to hurt or neglect fellow human beings in turn: say, by heaping outsized shame upon those who seem to do music wrong; or by rushing to defend a conductor's beautiful recordings while failing to defend the multiple victims who have accused this maestro of sexual assault. Loving Music Till It Hurts is a capacious exploration of how people's head-over-heels attachments to music can variously align or conflict with agendas of social justice. How do we respond when loving music and loving people appear to clash?