Being Adopted

Being Adopted
Author: David M. Brodzinsky
Publisher: Anchor
Total Pages: 230
Release: 1993-03-01
Genre: Family & Relationships
ISBN: 0385414269

Like Passages, this groundbreaking book uses the poignant, powerful voices of adoptees and adoptive parents to explore the experience of adoption and its lifelong effects. A major work, filled with astute analysis and moving truths.

The Open-Hearted Way to Open Adoption

The Open-Hearted Way to Open Adoption
Author: Lori Holden
Publisher: Rowman & Littlefield Publishers
Total Pages: 0
Release: 2015-05-15
Genre: Adopted children
ISBN: 9781442217393

This book covers common open adoption situations and how real families have navigated typical issues successfully. Like all useful parenting books, it provides parents with the tools to come to answers on their own, and answers questions that might not yet have come up.

Growing up in Adoption

Growing up in Adoption
Author: Roxana Kalyanvala
Publisher: Notion Press
Total Pages: 216
Release: 2022-01-31
Genre: Family & Relationships
ISBN: 1684946298

What does it take to keep a family together; a family completed through adoption? Love, patience, compassion, understanding—a little of everything maybe. The book elucidates real-life adoption experiences through the voices of adoptive families and adult adoptees as they share their moments of joy, sadness, challenges, pain, fulfilment and much more. It touches upon grief and loss and the stark realities of adoption. Adoptive parents share their experiences of how they let their adopted children know that they were adopted and how they handled “root search” which are crucial issues when it comes to understanding adoption. The book highlights some of the less frequently discussed adoption issues such as dealing with mixed emotions relating to an identity crisis and the desire of the adoptees to learn about their biological roots. Also included are candid accounts from adult adoptees on ‘Growing up in Adoption’. By providing glimpses of the world of adoption, the author aims to aid prospective and current adopting individuals to understand the thought process of adoptive children and be better prepared as parents. Are you looking to adopt? Don’t forget to take a look at the questionnaire to test your readiness for adoption. #adoptionmakesafamily “This book is a welcome contribution to the small body of literature on adoption in India.” – Dr. Shalini Bharat, Director and Vice-Chancellor of Tata Institute of Social Sciences. “This book has a mission not just to educate but it will be a support through your pilgrimage as a parent.” – Dr. Aloma Lobo, Adoptive Parent and former Chairperson of the Central Adoption Resource Authority and the Adoption Coordinating Agency, Karnataka. Bharatiya Samaj Seva Kendra works towards making a positive difference in the lives of vulnerable children and families since 1979.

The Primal Wound

The Primal Wound
Author: Nancy Newton Verrier
Publisher: British Association for Adoption and Fostering (Ba
Total Pages: 0
Release: 2009
Genre: Adopted children
ISBN: 9781905664764

Originally published in 1993, this classic piece of literature on adoption has revolutionised the way people think about adopted children. Nancy Verrier examines the life-long consequences of the 'primal wound' - the wound that is caused when a child is separated from its mother - for adopted people. Her argument is supported by thorough research in pre- and perinatal psychology, attachment, bonding and the effects of loss.

Second Choice

Second Choice
Author: Robert Andersen
Publisher:
Total Pages: 178
Release: 1993
Genre: Family & Relationships
ISBN: 9780963264848

"A psychiatrist looks at his own black-market adoption"--Back cover.

Healing for Adults Who Grew Up in Adoption or Foster Care

Healing for Adults Who Grew Up in Adoption or Foster Care
Author: Renee Wolfs
Publisher: Jessica Kingsley Publishers
Total Pages: 162
Release: 2015-03-21
Genre: Family & Relationships
ISBN: 0857009885

Positive and practical, this guide is designed to offer a route to recovery from grief and loss after adoption or long-term foster care. Children growing up in adoptive families or foster care often have complicated feelings about the loss of their birth parents - feelings which become all the more complex as they gain independence and become young adults, and which can endure throughout their lives. Common life events such as entering new relationships, building a family or losing a loved one can give rise to difficult questions about their own childhood and identity. In this book, Renée Wolfs provides an accessible explanation of the feelings of loss and grief commonly experienced by adults who grew up in adoptive families or foster care, and how debilitating they can be. She provides grounded advice and strategies to aid recovery and provides the reader with a useful tool: The Circle of Connecting. The Circle provides strategies for healing from loss, spanning all seven elements of your life: your body, mind, heart, environment, past, present and future. This book is essential reading for older teens and adults who need help in addressing feelings of grief and loss, as well as those who support them including adoptive and foster parents, social workers, counsellors and therapists.

Beneath the Mask

Beneath the Mask
Author: Debbie Riley
Publisher: C A S E Publications
Total Pages: 260
Release: 2005
Genre: Family & Relationships
ISBN: 9780971173224

Growing Grace

Growing Grace
Author: Erin Mason
Publisher:
Total Pages: 48
Release: 2020-09-19
Genre:
ISBN: 9780999127117

Growing Grace is a glimpse into adoption from the biological mother's perspective. This is the story of a difficult promise, a purposeful quest, and the heartfelt connection that develops along the way.

Searching for Mom

Searching for Mom
Author: Sara Easterly
Publisher:
Total Pages: 318
Release: 2019-11-19
Genre: Family & Relationships
ISBN: 9780578601953

Sara Easterly spent a lifetime looking for the perfect mother. As an adoptee she had difficulties attaching to her mother and struggled with perfectionism, suicidal ideations, and fantasy mothers. When she became a mom, her search to find and become "the perfect mother" intensified ... until her mother's death launched a spiritual epiphany.

Coming Home to Self

Coming Home to Self
Author: Nancy Newton Verrier
Publisher: Verrier Publishing
Total Pages: 0
Release: 2003
Genre: Adopted children
ISBN: 9780963648013

This book explains the role of separation trauma in the life of adoptees and birth mothers and how that trauma affects the neurological system. It demonstrates how the inner, fearful child may be running the lives of adoptees. It shows how the meaning we give to events determines our beliefs and how those beliefs control our feelings, attitudes and behavior. It gives guidelines for discovering the authentic self and for becoming accountable for our impact on others.