Escaping the Hijackal Trap

Escaping the Hijackal Trap
Author: Rhoberta Shaler
Publisher:
Total Pages:
Release: 2021-04-10
Genre:
ISBN: 9781955185035

If you feel confused, betrayed, or caught and you're constantly second-guessing yourself and questioning your sanity, you may well be with a Hijackal. If your partner works hard at keeping you feeling wrong, unimportant, and not good enough, it's highly likely you're with a Hijackal. Hijackals,(aka chronically difficult people) are defined by Dr. Rhoberta Shaler, as "people who hijack relationships for their own purposes, while relentlessly scavenging them for power, status, and control." Sound familiar? You need to learn all you can about:> recognizing the illusive, hard-to-put-your-finger-on behaviors common to Hijackals> Identifying what they do that keeps you second-guessing yourself> why they were drawn to you> why you were drawn to them> what The Hijackal Trap is, looks like, and feels like> what it takes to step away> why you need better strategies to escape the Hijackal Trap, whether you go or stay. In this ebook series, you will come to understand Hijackal behavior, and learn strategies for dealing with it authentically. Whether you are living with, working with, leaving, or divorced from a Hijackal, you need all these insights, skills and solutions to move on in healthy way. You'll need some relationship help to make a recovery, too--and to insure that you never again are attractive to a Hijackal! Rhoberta Shaler, PhD, The Relationship Help Doctor, provides urgent and ongoing care for individuals, couples, and companies, worldwide. She specializes in working with the partners, ex's, adult children, and co-workers of the chronically difficult people she calls Hijackals?. Get valuable resources + her free downloadable ebook, How to Spot a Hijackal, at www.Hijackals.com

Safe to Love Again

Safe to Love Again
Author: Gary D. Salyer Ph. D.
Publisher:
Total Pages: 268
Release: 2019-02-18
Genre: Family & Relationships
ISBN: 9781732977808

What would it be like to be able to open your heart fully to another? To grow your lives together? To be on a journey of mind, body, and spirit with the one you love? Dr. Gary's new book is an invitation to open yourself to the full possibilities of love. It's a call to release all of the pain and wounding that have traveled with you for so long now. This book will invite you to love from the deepest parts of your being - and to be loved right back! Safe to Love Again offers a practical, step-by-step guide for creating the open-hearted space that allows love to emerge in your life. Dr. Gary will show you the path he has walked with hundreds of clients, allowing them to reclaim their hearts and a life full of love. Safe to Love Again will show you how to: - Find a lasting soulmate who truly loves you - Get back into the dating game with the joy of feeling worthy - Figure out what's missing in your relationship so you can fix it - Rekindle the love and passion you once had as a couple This book will help you discover and understand your attachment style or 'love style' without judgment, whether you are anxious, avoidant or secure. Safe to Love Again goes beyond traditional attachment books by offering sensible ways to reclaim the secure love style that's just been waiting to be rediscovered within you! If you want to know how to stop being anxious or avoidant, so you can find and keep the lasting love you deserve, Dr. Gary will show you how to do just that. For those already in a great relationship, you'll learn how to love even better. Everyone deserves a love that lasts.

Wrestling Rhinos

Wrestling Rhinos
Author: Rhoberta Shaler
Publisher: People Skills Press
Total Pages: 284
Release: 2004-09
Genre: Business & Economics
ISBN: 9780971168978

This year's must-read business title provides a practical communication and conflict management approach that's not as painful as the problems it attempts to solve.

Soul Solitude: Taking Time for Our Souls to Catch Up

Soul Solitude: Taking Time for Our Souls to Catch Up
Author: Rhoberta Shaler
Publisher: Humana Publishing
Total Pages: 208
Release: 2007-09-01
Genre: Body, Mind & Spirit
ISBN: 9780971168992

A leading transpersonal psychologist and a foremost mythologist offer an innovative, life-changing approach to exploring one's purpose and effectively managing the challenges of living a rich life.

Dark Psychology

Dark Psychology
Author: Adam Brown
Publisher:
Total Pages: 70
Release:
Genre: Psychology
ISBN:

Dark Psychology tactics are used by people around us every day to manipulate, coerce, and influence us to get what they want. Are you using them? Today only, get this bestseller for a special price. Dark Psychology is the art and science of manipulation and mind control. While Psychology is the study of human behavior and is central to our thoughts, actions, and interactions, the term Dark Psychology is the phenomenon by which people use tactics of motivation, persuasion, manipulation and coercion to get what they want. Here Is A Preview Of What You'll Read... What Makes Manipulators So Effective? Does Mind Control and Brainwashing Really Work? How Can You Leverage NLP Techniques to Get What You Want? How Cults and Organizations Use Mind Control Subliminal Influencing Through Advertising and Media Learn to Protect Yourself Against Being Manipulated And much, much more! Download your copy today! Take action today and download this book now at a special price!

Living with the Passive-Aggressive Man

Living with the Passive-Aggressive Man
Author: Scott Wetzler
Publisher: Simon and Schuster
Total Pages: 214
Release: 2011-01-18
Genre: Psychology
ISBN: 145164017X

With more than 100,000 copies in print, Living with the Passive-Aggressive Man draws on case histories from clinical psychologist Scott Wetzler’s practice to help you identify the destructive behavior, the root causes and motivations, and solutions. Do you know one of these men? The catch-me-if-you-can lover... Phil’s romantic and passionate one minute, distant and cold the next. The deviously manipulative coworker or boss... Jack denies resenting Nora’s rapid rise in the company, but when they’re assigned to work together on a project, he undermines her. The obstructionist, procrastinating husband... Bob keeps telling his wife he’ll finish the painting job he began years ago, but he never seems to get around to it. These are all classic examples of the passive-aggressive man. This personality syndrome—in which hostility wears a mask of passivity—is currently the number one source of men’s problems in relationships and on the job. In Living with the Passive-Aggressive Man, Scott Wetzler draws upon numerous case histories from his own practice to explain how and why the passive-aggressive man thinks, feels, and acts the way he does. Dr. Wetzler also offers advice on: • How to avoid playing victim, manager, or rescuer to the “P-A” • How to get his anger and fear into the open • How to help the “P-A” become a better lover, husband, and father • How to survive passive-aggressive game playing on the job Living with a man’s passive aggression can be an emotional seesaw ride. But armed with this book, you can avoid the bumpy landings.

The Gardener

The Gardener
Author: S. A. Bodeen
Publisher: Feiwel & Friends
Total Pages: 242
Release: 2010-05-25
Genre: Young Adult Fiction
ISBN: 142994773X

Mason has never known his father, but longs to. All he has of him is a DVD of a man whose face is never seen, reading a children's book. One day, on a whim, he plays the DVD for a group of comatose teens at the nursing home where his mother works. One of them, a beautiful girl, responds. Mason learns she is part of a horrible experiment intended to render teenagers into autotrophs—genetically engineered, self-sustaining life-forms who don't need food or water to survive. And before he knows it, Mason is on the run with the girl, and wanted, dead or alive, by the mysterious mastermind of this gruesome plan, who is simply called the Gardener. Will Mason be forced to destroy the thing he's longed for most? The Gardener is a 2011 Bank Street - Best Children's Book of the Year.

Quitting Weed

Quitting Weed
Author: Matthew Clarke
Publisher: Independently Published
Total Pages: 158
Release: 2018-03-04
Genre: Self-Help
ISBN: 9781976799846

Just as there are responsible drinkers and alcoholics, there are those who can moderate their cannabis use and those who cannot. If you are struggling to quit and you want to learn how to quit successfully, this book is for you - you'll never look at cannabis the same way again. Learn about the science and psychology of cannabis addiction - understand what drives your addiction Understand cannabis withdrawal symptoms and how to best treat them Know what to expect during the quitting process - relapses, self-doubt, emotional ups and downs Understand how to overcome the obstacles to sobriety - mental gymnastics, social pressure, boredom, nostalgia Embrace the Quitting Mindset - discover the knowledge and approaches necessary for maintaining long-term sobriety Life is too short to be a slave to a plant. Begin your recovery journey today. Quitting Weed: The Complete Guide is the definitive book on overcoming cannabis addiction. A former addict himself, Matthew Clarke provides an easy-to-follow, comprehensive guide for understanding how cannabis addiction works, and most importantly, detailed advice on how to conquer addiction - permanently.

Escaping Emotional Abuse

Escaping Emotional Abuse
Author: Beverly Engel
Publisher: Citadel
Total Pages: 370
Release: 2020-12-29
Genre: Family & Relationships
ISBN: 0806540508

The world-renowned therapist and author of the groundbreaking self-help classic, The Emotionally Abusive Relationship, delves into the most destructive and powerful weapon of the abuser: shame. And reveals its most powerful antidote... In The Emotionally Abused Woman, therapist Beverly Engel introduced the concept of emotional abuse, one of the most subtle, yet devastating forms of abuse within a relationship. Now Engel exposes the most destructive technique the abuser uses to break our spirit and gain control--and guides readers on how to free themselves from the shame that can keep them from the life (and the love) they deserve. Emotionally abused people are gradually stripped of self-esteem, dignity, and humanity--making them feel unworthy and utterly powerless to escape. But they possess a potent tool with which to combat shame: self-compassion. In these pages, Engel shows how to access it. Using her highly effective Shame Reduction Program, she helps readers jumpstart the process of recovery by offering specific steps to help heal, regain self-confidence--and ultimately become empowered enough to leave--for good. An invaluable resource for both men and women who suffer from emotional abuse, as well as therapists and advocates, Escaping Emotional Abuse is a supportive, nurturing guide for anyone seeking to break the chains of shame, and gain the emotional freedom to create healthier, lasting relationships.

Overcoming Retroactive Jealousy

Overcoming Retroactive Jealousy
Author: Zachary Stockill
Publisher: CreateSpace
Total Pages: 106
Release: 2014-10-18
Genre:
ISBN: 9781502891921

ARE YOU TIRED OF CONSTANTLY THINKING ABOUT YOUR PARTNER'S PAST RELATIONSHIPS? Are you interested in letting go of obsessive jealous thoughts, anxiety, and curiosity about your partner's past? Wouldn't it feel great to be completely free from retroactive jealousy, and be able to move forward in your relationship without worry about the past? What if I told you that you already have the "cure" for overcoming retroactive jealousy? You do-all you need is the proper guidance. And that's where "Overcoming Retroactive Jealousy" comes in. Written from the perspective of one who has struggled with, and eventually overcome, obsessive jealousy surrounding a partner's past, Overcoming Retroactive Jealousy is the only guidebook you will ever need to let go of jealous thoughts, curiosity, and anxiety about your partner's past relationships/sexual history. AFTER READING YOU WILL: have access to a multi-step program that will help you to let go of your jealousy and anxiety begin incorporating coping exercises into your daily routine which will eliminate your jealous thoughts as soon as they appear feel a new sense of optimism and confidence in your ability to grow and overcome retroactive jealousy understand what your jealousy is really about, and have a concrete plan of action for overcoming it, and moving forward You might currently feel hopeless; like retroactive jealousy is something that you'll just be forced to "live with" until you die. You might even be severely depressed, mired in obsessive jealous thoughts and confusion. Overcoming Retroactive Jealousy will show you that you are suffering needlessly-and show you the way forward. In nineteen chapters, author Zachary Stockill outlines a series of time-tested effective strategies, practices, and exercises for confronting, and eventually overcoming, jealousy regarding your partner's past as painlessly, efficiently, and quickly as possible. A NOTE FROM THE AUTHOR: Several years ago, I experienced "crippling" retroactive jealousy. It disrupted my career, destroyed my relationship, and provoked months of anguish and depression. But thankfully, through a process of self-exploration, hard work, growth, and discovery, I overcame it. Based on my experience, and several years of research and talking to fellow sufferers about their condition, I wrote this book to give you a step-by-step program to help you do the same, and overcome retroactive jealousy as quickly and easily as possible. I know that this step-by-step program is effective because since 2013 my book has helped "thousands" of readers get over retroactive jealousy, save their relationships, and regain control. In retrospect, my jealousy was a blessing in disguise. As I write to you today, I am undoubtedly a stronger, more confident, more loving, and overall better man for having gone through it. It might not seem like it now, but you too can use your jealousy to your advantage. Seriously--as you overcome retroactive jealousy, you will emerge a stronger, more confident, more attractive, and more loving person and partner. And it's my pleasure to guide you every step of the way. So whether you're struggling with your girlfriend's past, wife's past, husband's past, or your boyfriend's past, you need to know that you have the power to move forward, and kiss jealous thoughts goodbye. You can get a hold on your brain, and patterns of constant curiosity and obsessive thinking. You can move forward in your relationship without the burden and strain of retroactive jealousy. You can be the partner you want to be-you just have to understand where retroactive jealousy comes from, and how to deal with it. SO LET'S GET STARTED! Get your copy of the most popular guidebook on the market for overcoming retroactive jealousy, and join thousands of readers who have regained control, and found peace."