Eliminate Your SDBs

Eliminate Your SDBs
Author: Jonathan Mack Chamberlain
Publisher: Friends of the Library
Total Pages: 218
Release: 1978
Genre: Psychology
ISBN:

Get Out of Your Own Way

Get Out of Your Own Way
Author: Mark Goulston
Publisher: Penguin
Total Pages: 212
Release: 1996-02-01
Genre: Self-Help
ISBN: 9780399519901

Practical, proven self help steps show how to transform 40 common self-defeating behaviors, including procrastination, envy, obsession, anger, self-pity, compulsion, neediness, guilt, rebellion, inaction, and more.

Self-Defeating Behaviors

Self-Defeating Behaviors
Author: Milton R. Cudney
Publisher: Harper Collins
Total Pages: 258
Release: 1993-01-01
Genre: Self-Help
ISBN: 0062501976

A guide to freeing ourselves from the inappropriate and crippling behaviors that sabotage our success.

From Sabotage to Success

From Sabotage to Success
Author: Sheri Zampelli
Publisher: iUniverse
Total Pages: 200
Release: 2002-11-11
Genre: Self-defeating behavior
ISBN: 0595254373

We all have our own definitions of success and our own ways of sabotaging success. Do you sometimes find yourself feeling defeated? Do you ever think to yourself, "I know I can do better than this?" If so, this book is for you. Perhaps you've started a number of projects only to find yourself quitting before their completion. Maybe you've had success in many areas of your life but find yourself stuck when it comes to achieving a particular kind of success such as permanent weight loss, career satisfaction or fulfilling relationships. Zampelli outlines a step-by-step program for change and a set of tools to put that program into action. In addition, you'll read stories and examples of how real people like you overcame real obstacles in their lives. Author Sheri Zampelli is no stranger to self-sabotage. This book is infused with inspiring personal stories of how she overcame addiction, abusive relationships and poverty. This book can give you a sense of hope that change is possible for you. Additionally, you'll have a set of easy-to-use tools designed to help you conquer self-sabotage and soar to success. Sheri O. Zampelli began leading workshops on the Six Steps From Sabotage to Success in 1992. She is a certified clinical hypnotherapist in private practice and produces motivational/hypnosis audio CD's to help people take charge of their mind and body.

Stop Self-Sabotage

Stop Self-Sabotage
Author: Judy Ho, PhD
Publisher: HarperCollins
Total Pages: 190
Release: 2019-08-20
Genre: Self-Help
ISBN: 0062874381

Award-winning clinical psychologist and TV personality Dr. Judy Ho helps you stop the cycle of self-sabotage, clear a path to lasting happiness, and start living your best life in this a must-have guide perfect for fans of You Are a Badass, Unf*ck Yourself, and How to Stop Feeling Like Sh*t. Have you ever had a deadline for a big work project, only to find yourself down to the wire because you spent too much time on social media? Or gotten excited about meeting someone new, only to convince yourself he isn’t really interested? How many Januarys have you resolved that this is the year you’re finally going to lose the weight, only to abandon your diet in just a few weeks? If these scenarios sound familiar, you are stuck in a cycle of self-sabotage. At one point or another, we’ve all done something that undermines our best interests and intentions. Even the most successful people get in their own way—often without realizing it. In Stop Self-Sabotage, licensed clinical psychologist, tenured professor, and television personality Dr. Judy Ho takes a fresh look at self-sabotage to help us answer two vital questions: Why do we do it? How do we stop? Combining therapeutically proven strategies with practical tools and self-assessments, Dr. Judy teaches you how to identify your triggers, modify your thoughts and behaviors, find your true motivation, and unlock your willpower to stop this vicious cycle in its tracks. Practical and transformative, Stop Self-Sabotage is your ultimate guide to jumpstart lasting, positive change and start living the life you want.

Better Choices, Better Life

Better Choices, Better Life
Author: Carol Bettino
Publisher: Hats Office Books
Total Pages: 132
Release: 2004-04-01
Genre: Self-Help
ISBN: 9781587362729

A person's reactions to events determine whether that person will be happy. This book is about learning to deal with everyday problems and experience feelings without engaging in self-defeating thinking or behavior. You will learn how to handle problems differently. You will learn how to recognize the early stages of self-defeating behaviors and how to eliminate those behaviors by changing your reactions. You will learn to deal with feelings instead of ignoring them.

Taming Your Outer Child

Taming Your Outer Child
Author: Susan Anderson
Publisher: Ballantine Books
Total Pages: 305
Release: 2011-01-25
Genre: Self-Help
ISBN: 0345524403

FINALLY, THE BREAKTHROUGH BOOK THAT PUTS YOU BACK IN CONTROL OF YOUR LIFE Most of us have met our Outer Child once too often. The self-sabotaging, bungling, and impulsive part of the personality. This misguided, hidden nemesis—the devil on your shoulder—blows your diet, overspends, and ruins your love life. A menacing older sibling to your emotionally needy Inner Child, your Outer Child acts out and fulfills your legitimate childlike needs and wants in the wrong place, at the wrong time, and in counterproductive ways: It goes for immediate gratification and the quick fix in spite of your best-laid plans. Food, attention, emotional release—your Outer Child usually gets what it wants, and your Adult self can feel powerless to stop it. Now, in a revolutionary rethinking of the link between emotion and behavior, veteran psychotherapist and theoretician Susan Anderson offers a three-step, paradigm-shifting program to tame your Outer Child’s destructive behavior. This dynamic, transformational set of strategies—action steps that act like physical therapy for the brain—calms your Inner Child, strengthens your Adult Self and releases you from the self-blame and shame that are the root of Outer Child issues, and paves new neural pathways that can lead to more productive behavior. Discover • the common Outer Child personality types, including the Drama Queen; the Master of Disguise; My Way or No Way; and Love the Getting, not the Having • proven techniques to resolve underlying sources of self-sabotage • insights that will allow you to stop blaming your supposed “lack of willpower” for your problems • key strategies for healing the painful issues of your past • mental exercises that effectively deal with Outer Child challenges around food, procrastination, love, debt, depression, and more As your head, heart, and behavior come together and learn to help, not hurt, one another, your strong Adult Self, contented Inner child, and tamed Outer child will become a reality. The result is happiness and fulfillment, self-mastery, and self-love. From the Hardcover edition.

Self-Defeating Behaviors

Self-Defeating Behaviors
Author: Rebecca C. Curtis
Publisher: Springer Science & Business Media
Total Pages: 383
Release: 2013-11-11
Genre: Psychology
ISBN: 146130783X

In the desert I saw a creature, naked, bestial, Who, squatting upon the ground, Held his heart in his hands. And ate of it. I said: "Is it good, friend?" "It is bitter-bitter," he answered; But I like it Because it is bitter, And because it is my heart. " Stephen Crane The Black Riders and Other Lines "It is the function of great art to purge and give meaning to human suffering," wrote Bernard Knox (1982, p. 149) in his introduction to Oedipus Rex. This is done by showing some causal connection between the hero's free will and his suffer ing, by bringing to the fore the interplay of the forces of destiny and human freedom. Knox states that Freud was wrong when he suggested that it was "the particular nature of the material" in Oedipus that makes the play so deeply moving, and not the contrast between destiny and human will. Knox believes that this play has an overpowering effect upon us, not only because we share the tendency of Oedipus to direct" our first sexual impulse towards our mother" and "our first murderous wish against our father," as Freud tells us, but also because the theological modification of the legend introduced by Sophocles calls into question the sacred beliefs of our time (Knox, 1982, pp. 133-137).

Get Out of Your Own Way at Work--and Help Others Do the Same

Get Out of Your Own Way at Work--and Help Others Do the Same
Author: Mark Goulston
Publisher: Penguin
Total Pages: 258
Release: 2006
Genre: Business & Economics
ISBN: 0399532854

Shares practical recommendations for employees and managers on how to overcome self-sabotaging behaviors that can compromise career advancement and satisfaction, in a guide that addresses forty self-defeating actions including fear of change, failure to delegate, and expecting too much. Reprint. 25,000 first printing.

Neuro-Habits

Neuro-Habits
Author: Peter Hollins
Publisher: PKCS Media
Total Pages: 121
Release: 2020-12-29
Genre: Psychology
ISBN:

Small daily acts to change your brain chemistry and structure -- so you can be in control at all times. Sometimes it feels like we are living out lives on autopilot, powerless to change what we are doing. But we’re not powerless, we just need to rewire our brains so that the right thing is the easy thing. Do you feel lazy, slow, unmotivated, or apathetic? Understand your brain and you will solve all of your problems. Neuro Habits gets directly to the root of all behavior: the human brain. We will explore the quirks of the brain that create habits from both a psychological and neurological perspective, and what we can do about it. This book also presents an in-depth view of the concept of habits and exactly what motivates us to act. You will gain a scientifically-proven step by step guide on how to change your behavior in a sustainable way, and also make sure that you can put a halt to the destructive behaviors you’ve tried so hard to avoid. This is a guidebook, with actionable content almost every single page. Learn how tiny daily changes can affect your brain chemistry and structure. Peter Hollins has studied psychology and peak human performance for over a dozen years and is a bestselling author. He has worked with a multitude of individuals to unlock their potential and path towards success. His writing draws on his academic, coaching, and research experience. Transform your negative impulses into positive habits. •What neuroplasticity is and how it can change your life •Understand the relationship between dopamine and your behaviors •What a keystone habit is and why it matters •The definitive process of creating a new habit •Why replacing habits just might be more effective overall •The most common flaws in habit formation Change your habits, change your life. BUY NOW.