Discovering Your Couple Sexual Style

Discovering Your Couple Sexual Style
Author: Barry W. McCarthy
Publisher: Routledge
Total Pages: 146
Release: 2011-03-17
Genre: Education
ISBN: 1136964649

Winner of the 2009 Smart Marriages® Impact Award Think all sex should be earth shattering? The quality of most couple sex doesn’t measure up to the much distorted image of the perfect romantic love/passionate sex encounter portrayed in popular culture. In Discovering Your Couple Sexual Style: Sharing Desire, Pleasure, and Satisfaction, renowned marital and sex therapist Barry McCarthy and his wife Emily McCarthy urge couples to ignore what they see on TV, in books, or online, and discover their own unique sexual style. The McCarthys offer three guidelines for sexual satisfaction: develop positive, realistic sexual expectations; explore sensual and sexual options; and communicate sexual desires. With this foundation, couples can take a straightforward survey to determine which of four couple sexual styles best fits their relationship. Based on three years of research and treating more than 4,000 individuals and couples, Discovering Your Couple Sexual Style provides information, guidelines, exercises, and case studies that will help readers find their own sexual voice and develop a mutually satisfying sexual style.

How We Love, Expanded Edition

How We Love, Expanded Edition
Author: Milan Yerkovich
Publisher: WaterBrook
Total Pages: 354
Release: 2009-01-20
Genre: Family & Relationships
ISBN: 0307457338

Did you know the last fight you had with your spouse began long before you even met? Are you tired of falling into frustrating relational patterns in your marriage? Do you and your spouse fight about the same things again and again? Relationship experts Milan and Kay Yerkovich explain why the ways you and your spouse relate to each other go back to before you even met. Drawing on the powerful tool of attachment theory, Milan and Kay explore how your childhood created an “intimacy imprint” that affects your marriage today. Their stories and practical ideas help you: * identify your personal love style * understand how your early life impacts you and your spouse * break free from painful patterns that keep you stuck * find healing for the source of conflict, not just the symptoms * create the close, nourishing relationship you dream about Revised throughout with all-new material and additional visual diagrams, this expanded edition of How We Love will bring vibrant life to your marriage. Are you ready for a new journey of love? Note: The revised and expanded How We Love Workbook is available separately.

Rekindling Desire

Rekindling Desire
Author: Barry McCarthy
Publisher: Routledge
Total Pages: 256
Release: 2013-12-17
Genre: Psychology
ISBN: 1135919291

For over a decade Rekindling Desire has helped to restore and restructure sexuality in thousands of lives. This expanded edition continues the exploration of inhibited sexual desire and no-sex relationships by the author, who brings decades of knowledge and the expertise that comes from having treated almost 3,000 couples for sexual problems. Contained within are suggested strategies and exercises that help develop communication and sexual skills, as well as interesting case studies that open the doors to couples’ sexual frustrations. The shame, embarrassment, and hesitancy that individuals feel with themselves, and the resentment and blame they can feel towards their sexual partners, are explored and put into context. Whether you are married, cohabitating, or dating, or if you are 25, 45, or 75, reading this book will help renew your sexual desire and put you on the path towards healthy, pleasure-oriented sexuality.

Couple Sexuality After 60

Couple Sexuality After 60
Author: Barry McCarthy
Publisher: Routledge
Total Pages: 234
Release: 2021-08-29
Genre: Psychology
ISBN: 1000429466

Confronting taboos and misunderstandings about sexuality and aging, Couple Sexuality After 60: Intimate, Pleasurable, and Satisfying motivates couples to embrace sex and sexuality in their 60s, 70s, and 80s. The book busts two extreme myths—that people over 60 cannot and should not be sexual and that the best way to be sexual is to emphasize eroticism, using sex toys, and "kinky sex". Using a variable, flexible approach to couple sexuality based on the Good Enough Sex (GES) model, this book places the essence of sexuality in pleasure-oriented touching, not individual sex performance. Barry and Emily McCarthy introduce a new sexual mantra of "desire/pleasure/eroticism/satisfaction" with the goal of presenting a healthy model of sexuality to replace the traditional double standard that couples learn in young adulthood. Specific chapters focus on important areas like coming to terms with the new normal, female–male sexual equity, satisfaction being about more than intercourse and orgasm, valuing synchronous and asynchronous sexuality, psychobiosocial approaches to sexuality, and more. In addition to aging heterosexual couples, single individuals and queer couples will find this book interesting. Additionally, sexual health clinicians and sex therapists with clients over the age of 60 will find this a fascinating read.

Sex When You Don't Feel Like It

Sex When You Don't Feel Like It
Author: Cyndi Darnell
Publisher: Rowman & Littlefield
Total Pages: 275
Release: 2022-06-10
Genre: Health & Fitness
ISBN: 1538161710

A practical guide to understand both low and high libido, drawing on science, straight talk and useful exercises to stop blame and rekindle pleasure. From the Vatican to Vegas, From Disney to PornHub, we’ve been tricked into believing love and sex are like a hand in a glove, though few of us experience them that way. In Sex When You Don’t Feel Like It: The Truth About Mismatched Libido and Rediscovering Desire,Cyndi Darnell helps demystify our relationship to desire by making it authentic, relatable, and most importantly, attainable. Darnell guides readers step-by-step through a useful framework to discover their authentic longings while recognizing it can feel uncomfortable when they’re unaccustomed to deep, soul-nourishing conversations about sex. From reading this book, you will learn what desire needs to thrive and how to understand your unique erotic template. At its core, Sex When You Don’t Feel Like It is honest. It understands that exploring sex is complicated in a culture that insists sex is both natural and dangerous. It doesn’t promise eternal happiness with tips and tricks in three-easy-steps. It does, however, get to the heart of how everything we’ve been led to believe about erotic desire is untrue, and demonstrates how these beliefs shape our struggles with cultivating pleasure and understanding the nature of passion. Darnell takes desire from a passive, resigned sense of failure to an inspired quest by offering countless prompts, practices, suggestions and reflections to help the reader understand why they’re feeling what they’re feeling, why they’re feeling stuck, what they really want, and how to get there. This book offers abundant alternatives to sexual struggles and tackles the self-doubt, awkwardness, and embarrassment of exploring erotic desire to support the reader in creating a dynamic erotic identity that is uniquely theirs.

Sex Position for Couples

Sex Position for Couples
Author: Madison Hunter
Publisher: Francesco Cammardella
Total Pages: 138
Release: 2020-10-28
Genre:
ISBN: 9781777437022

Are you looking for a way to boost your sexual life? Do you want to improve your intimacy in your relationship? Keep reading to know more... Sex and sexuality are a component of everyday life. In addition to procreation, sex can be about pleasure and intimacy. Sexual activity, penile-vaginal sex, or masturbation will give all aspects of your life many surprising advantages. Sometimes the sex in long-term relationships or in a marriage can become repetitive and even boring. This sex guide will help you to figure out how to make sex exciting and fun again. Sex in the same place, sex in the same way, the same foreplay is how sex becomes routine and that is the big reason why sex is less frequent among couples. Exploring this couples' sex guide can be a perfect way to get some excitement back into your relationship. You will find some of the tips in the chapters of this book that include: Kama Sutra Physical Attraction of Love Pre Sex and Seduction Foreplay Learning to Make Love How to courtship a man/woman Sex positions ...And much more!!! When we see "Sexless marriages" we point the finger to fatigue in two-career households, male resentment over women with more control or insufficient sex strategy. All these things and more tips will be revealed in this book so go ahead, press the Buy Now button and enjoy the ride!

The 4 Intimacy Styles

The 4 Intimacy Styles
Author: Dr Coles
Publisher: Bookbaby
Total Pages: 0
Release: 2021-05-14
Genre: Family & Relationships
ISBN: 9781737094814

If you're feeling neglected in the bedroom or pressured; if you're feeling resentful about sex, or worried about how often is "often enough"; if you've ever longed to reconnect with your partner sexually but haven't known where to start--this book is for you.

Coping with Erectile Dysfunction

Coping with Erectile Dysfunction
Author: Michael E. Metz
Publisher:
Total Pages: 0
Release: 2004
Genre: Health & Fitness
ISBN: 9781572243866

Offers a program for overcoming erectile dysfunction that includes assessment, treatment strategies, and a relapse prevention program.

Sex Positions for Couples

Sex Positions for Couples
Author: Donna Dare
Publisher:
Total Pages: 166
Release: 2020-10-25
Genre: Family & Relationships
ISBN: 9781801151115

Do you want to make your relationship spicier? Are you looking for a guide to help your relationship and give it some pepper? Sexual positions play an important role in making sex wonderful. Many people move between some classic sexual positions and for various reasons never try anything new. Some people don't feel comfortable trying out new positions while others live for adventure and challenge. Regardless of your willingness to participate, sexual positioning can stimulate and arouse areas of your body that you never knew were possible. In fact, it is known that couples who experience different sexual positions often have a much stronger bond and intimacy than couples who do not. Sexual positioning allows you to explore each other's bodies and find out what makes each other go beyond the limit. One of the most wonderful things about sex is the ability to bind to each other. Introducing new sexual positions in the bedroom can bring you both closer together as a couple. This guide will focus on the following: What is the Kama Sutra? What is Tantric Sex? Preparing the mind and body for sex The science behind tantric sex Tantric massage techniques Pendants, aphrodisiacs, artificial membranes and sex toys 30 positions kama sutra / tantrics for maximum pleasure for him 30 positions kama sutra / tantrics for maximum pleasure for her The benefits of kama sutra How to last longer Exercises to increase male orgasmic control How to Apply Everything You've Learned About Kama Sutra... AND OTHER!!! "Sex positions for Couples" aims to give you an overview of some of the most popular sexual positions and how to implement them in your love relationship considering the fantasies of him and her. Also do not forget that communication in the bedroom is one of the most important aspects of relationships, without communication, the relationship is destroyed. Most of these positions can be performed inside or outside the bedroom and can be performed by adding toys. Many of these positions focus on deep penetration, which can be very helpful for men who are trying to stimulate the woman's g-spot. Do you want to stimulate your relationship and have extraordinary sex?

Sex Positions for Couples Make Your Couple's Sex Life Amazing with The Leading Top Sex Positions and With Techniques and Tips for Awesome Fantasy Time.

Sex Positions for Couples Make Your Couple's Sex Life Amazing with The Leading Top Sex Positions and With Techniques and Tips for Awesome Fantasy Time.
Author: Eva Harmon
Publisher: Chasecheck Limited
Total Pages: 158
Release: 2020-08-23
Genre: Education
ISBN: 9781838180164

Are you looking for a tried and true way of enhancing your sex life without all the gimmicks and tricks you find on the internet? Are you looking for a way to spice things up with your partner but don't really know how to mix things up? Are you looking for a way to improve your understanding of sexuality but aren't into BDSM or anything kinky? Are you looking for a means of improving your emotional connection with your partner that's both holistic and natural? If you have been thinking about any of these questions, then this is the book for you. In this volume, you will learn about tantric sex and how it can help you find the perfect balance between you and your partner. In fact, you'll be surprised to find that tantric sex has been around for a very long time. Yet, many of us are yet to discover it. But when you do discover it, the experience you are able to unleash is unlike anything else you may have felt before. In this book, you will learn about the following: The fundamentals of tantric sex and what it involves The role meditation and relaxation in tantric sex Exercises which can help you sync your entire movements The ways in which tantric sex can help you discover new levels of pleasure How to pleasure your partner while pleasuring yourself at the same time How to engage in sexual activity without thinking about "sex." How to foster intimacy and build mutual trust Making the most of the time you have with your partner so experiences are truly memorable Recommended positions that will surely leave you wanting more Discovering the ways in which orgasms can lift you to new heights ... and so much more! If you are expecting a book filled with sexual positions, then you will be surprised to find that tantra is so much more than that. You will discover how the right mindset is fundamental in ensuring that you find the greatest amount of pleasure. Also, you won't find a collection of "tips" on how to improve your sex life. You will find a treatise on how you can turbocharge your sex life so that it's the best that you can make it out to be. These aren't just bogus claims. There are claims made based on experiences and years of practice and study. In anything, you get the best of both worlds: philosophy and practice. So, if you are ready to make the huge leap from a traditional sex life into the tantric way of life, then you have come to the right place. Take the time to go through this book. You and partner(s) will never go back to the traditional sex way of life ever again! Come on, then, let's get started discovering the art form that is tantra today!