Counseling Skills for Companioning the Mourner

Counseling Skills for Companioning the Mourner
Author: Alan D. Wolfelt
Publisher: Companioning
Total Pages: 0
Release: 2016-02
Genre: Psychology
ISBN: 9781617222306

An in-depth guide to the counseling process and establishing a trusting relationship with clients--from a bestselling author and grieving expert Helping people in grief means being an empathetic companion--someone who allows grievers to be experts of their own experiences, who bears witness without judging, who gently encourages the expression of thoughts and feelings. But even if you approach the work with this understanding, how you "are" when you spend time with the griever also has a tremendous influence on your capacity to help. How do you develop a relationship with the griever? How do you show empathy, respect, warmth, and genuineness? Could you improve your listening, paraphrasing, clarifying, perception checking, informing, and other essential helping skills? Whether you are a professional counselor or a lay helper, whether you have years of experience or are new to the work, this guide, based on by Dr. Wolfelt's companioning philosophy, will help you be the most effective grief companion you can be.

Counseling Skills for Companioning the Mourner

Counseling Skills for Companioning the Mourner
Author: Alan D. Wolfelt
Publisher: Companion Press
Total Pages: 144
Release: 2016-02-01
Genre: Psychology
ISBN: 1617222321

An in-depth guide to the counseling process and establishing a trusting relationship with clients—from a bestselling author and grieving expert Helping people in grief means being an empathetic companion—someone who allows grievers to be experts of their own experiences, who bears witness without judging, who gently encourages the expression of thoughts and feelings. But even if you approach the work with this understanding, how you "are" when you spend time with the griever also has a tremendous influence on your capacity to help. How do you develop a relationship with the griever? How do you show empathy, respect, warmth, and genuineness? Could you improve your listening, paraphrasing, clarifying, perception checking, informing, and other essential helping skills? Whether you are a professional counselor or a lay helper, whether you have years of experience or are new to the work, this guide, based on by Dr. Wolfelt's companioning philosophy, will help you be the most effective grief companion you can be.

The Handbook for Companioning the Mourner

The Handbook for Companioning the Mourner
Author: Alan D Wolfelt
Publisher: Companion Press
Total Pages: 130
Release: 2009-04-01
Genre: Family & Relationships
ISBN: 161722037X

Partly a counseling model and partly an explanation of true empathy, this handbook explores the ways companionship eases grief. For caretakers who work with grieving people or for friends and family just hoping to stay close, 11 tenets are outlined for mourner-led care. These simple rules call for understanding another person's pain, listening with the heart rather than the head, not filling up every minute with words, respecting confusion and disorder, and relying on curiosity rather than expertise.

Companioning You!

Companioning You!
Author: Alan D Wolfelt
Publisher: Companion Press
Total Pages: 129
Release: 2012-11-01
Genre: Family & Relationships
ISBN: 1617221694

Based on Dr. Wolfelt's unique and highly regarded philosophy of "companioning" versus treating mourners, this self-care guide for professional and lay grief caregivers emphasizes the importance of taking good care of oneself as a precursor to taking good care of others. Bereavement care is draining work, and remaining empathetic to the painful struggles of mourners, death, and dying, day in and day out, makes caregivers highly susceptible to burnout. This book demonstrates how caring for oneself first allows one to be a more effective caregiver to others. Through the advice, suggestions, and practices directed specifically to caregiving situations and needs, caregivers will learn not to lose sight of caring for themselves as they care for others.

Companioning the Bereaved

Companioning the Bereaved
Author: Alan D. Wolfelt
Publisher: Companion Press
Total Pages: 210
Release: 2005-03-01
Genre: Family & Relationships
ISBN: 1879651416

Renowned author and educator Alan Wolfelt redefines the role of the grief counselor in this guide for caregivers. His new model for "companioning" the bereaved gives a viable alternative to the limitations of the medical establishment, encouraging counselors and other caregivers to aspire to a more compassionate philosophy. This approach argues that grief need no longer be defined, diagnosed, and treated as an illness but rather should be an acknowledgement of an event that forever changes a person's worldview. Through careful listening and observation, the caregiver learns to support mourners and help them help themselves heal.

Companioning the Grieving Child

Companioning the Grieving Child
Author: Alan D. Wolfelt
Publisher: Companion Press
Total Pages: 162
Release: 2012-06-01
Genre: Family & Relationships
ISBN: 1617221589

Renowned author and educator Alan Wolfelt redefines the role of the grief counselor in this guide for caregivers to grieving children. Providing a viable alternative to the limitations of the medical establishment’s model for companioning the bereaved, Wolfelt encourages counselors and other caregivers to aspire to a more compassionate philosophy in which the child is the expert of his or her grief—not the counselor or caregiver. The approach outlined in the book argues against treating grief as an illness to be diagnosed and treated but rather for acknowledging it as an event that forever changes a child's worldview. By promoting careful listening and observation, this guide shows caregivers, family members, teachers, and others how to support grieving children and help them grow into healthy adults.

Understanding Your Grief

Understanding Your Grief
Author: Alan D. Wolfelt
Publisher: Companion Press
Total Pages: 194
Release: 2004-02-01
Genre: Self-Help
ISBN: 1879651351

Explaining the important difference between grief and mourning, this book explores every mourner's need to acknowledge death and embrace the pain of loss. Also explored are the many factors that make each person's grief unique and the many normal thoughts and feelings mourners might have. Questions of spirituality and religion are addressed as well. The rights of mourners to be compassionate with themselves, to lean on others for help, and to trust in their ability to heal are upheld. Journaling sections encourage mourners to articulate their unique thoughts and feelings.

Educational Genocide

Educational Genocide
Author: Horace 'Rog' B. Lucido
Publisher: R&L Education
Total Pages: 224
Release: 2010-08-16
Genre: Education
ISBN: 1607097192

Across our country educational policies and practices are killing our students' desire to learn and teachers' passion to teach. The central theme of this book is that high-stakes testing is having a critically deleterious effect on our students. The fallout impacts parents, teachers, schools, districts and states. Horace 'Rog' Lucido uses language and supporting evidence that is clear and relatable to the reader. Rarely is the topic of teacher care and concern for students ever embedded in works on educational theory and practice, but here it is championed as the driving force for change, exposing the causes and chronicling the effects of educational malfeasance.

Companioning You!

Companioning You!
Author: Alan D. Wolfelt
Publisher: Companioning
Total Pages: 128
Release: 2022-03
Genre: Family & Relationships
ISBN: 9781617223174

Based on Dr. Wolfelt's unique and highly regarded philosophy of "companioning" versus treating mourners, this self-care guide for professional and lay grief caregivers emphasizes the importance of taking good care of oneself as a precursor to taking good care of others. Bereavement care is draining work, and remaining empathetic to the painful struggles of mourners, death, and dying, day in and day out, makes caregivers highly susceptible to burnout. This book demonstrates how caring for oneself first allows one to be a more effective caregiver to others. Through the advice, suggestions, and practices directed specifically to caregiving situations and needs, caregivers will learn not to lose sight of caring for themselves as they care for others.

Expected Loss

Expected Loss
Author: Alan Wolfelt
Publisher: Companion Press
Total Pages: 58
Release: 2021-03-01
Genre: Psychology
ISBN: 1617222968

We don't only experience grief after a loss—we often experience it before. If someone we love is seriously ill, or if we're concerned about upcoming hardships of any kind, we naturally begin to grieve right now. This process of anticipatory grief is normal, but it can also be confusing and painful. Life is change, and change is hard. This book will help see you through.