Care and Nurture for the Submissive

Care and Nurture for the Submissive
Author: Elizabeth Cramer
Publisher: CreateSpace
Total Pages: 74
Release: 2013-11
Genre: Self-Help
ISBN: 9781493733088

Submission can be described by a lot of words but “easy” isn't one of them. Discovering and honoring your desire to submit takes courage, strength and passion. Learning to follow the lead and rhythm set by another, and stretching your limits to accommodate training and service can challenge and exhaust you. The discipline to hold your tongue, retrieve your paddle, or wait around endlessly while knot after knot is being tied as part of a bondage ritual drains your energy. Submission stretches, taxes, pushes, and exposes your body and soul to the whim and desire of another. Submissive women need support, care and nurture to continue on this journey in a healthy fashion. "Care and Nurture for the Submissive" offers tips, understandings, and pathways to tend the fragile and beautiful souls of submissive women. Self-care is not selfish; it is essential. Only when you are taking care of yourself as a healthy, whole being can you give that self to another with a full heart and free joy.

Submissive Training

Submissive Training
Author: Elizabeth Cramer
Publisher: Living Plus Healthy Publishing
Total Pages: 61
Release: 2015-03-05
Genre: Self-Help
ISBN:

Nothing will prepare you for a life of submission in the same way as your formal training. Submissive training isn’t just a “good idea” when it comes to creating a BDSM relationship. It is essential. "Submissive Training: 23 Things You Must Know About How To Be A Submissive" is designed to help you know what to expect when you go through training with a new Dom. Every couple is unique and every Dom may have different ways of teaching you the systems of service he prefers. However, these are the basics all trained subs and slaves learn and employ in daily life. Rushing into a relationship or service contract with a Dom without training puts the future of your time together at risk. All of the arguments, resistance, misunderstandings and hurt feelings that go with a new submissive’s experiences can be eradicated by a period designated for learning, listening, trial and error. Even if you have been with a previous Dom you will need to go through an abbreviated training time to ensure your patterns and understandings match one another. Training is a way to “get in the same rhythm” and find the perfect groove. If you are a Dom, this guide is the perfect gift to give to your new sub. If you are a sub, this guide will teach you how to go through your submissive training. As you go through these things on the journey to become the woman you were made to be, you will be tested but you will also be proud, joyful and, perhaps for the first time in your life, you will be at peace.

The Respect Dare

The Respect Dare
Author: Nina Roesner
Publisher: Thomas Nelson Inc
Total Pages: 239
Release: 2012
Genre: Family & Relationships
ISBN: 140020447X

"A long and happy marriage." It sounds like the end of a fairy tale--an illusion that modern times have exposed. And it is, if marriage depends on a constant stream of romantic emotion, or even on copious amounts of time or money. Thank the Lord, none of those are necessary. Two thousand years ago, Paul gave women the key to a successful marriage, and it can be summed up in two words: unconditional respect. It's not popular. It doesn't sound fair. It can be hard to imagine. But it works. Nina Roesner has led countless women through this practical and life-changing journey, and in The Respect Dare she offers you the hope that so many others have found. Day by day, true stories and thought-provoking questions will help you apply biblical wisdom to the most important relationship in your life. The book is filled with stories of struggle and success, and many practical applications of respect that have dramatically impacted marriages. Give it forty days. Experience the intimacy God intended and discover what he can do in your heart and in your marriage when you choose to show respect his way.

BDSM Primer

BDSM Primer
Author: Elizabeth Cramer
Publisher: Living Plus Healthy Publishing
Total Pages: 54
Release: 2015-03-03
Genre: Self-Help
ISBN:

BDSM is a whole different world where people speak in their own formal and informal language, have rules and social norms, and create expectations based on everything from names to symbols you employ. As a sex educator and an active member in the BDSM community, I found most information floating around to be inaccurate and some even unhealthy. As a primer this guide will demystify the world of BDSM and present it in a straightforward and easy-to-understand way to you. This guide is more than just a list of who and what. It is a map that will take you into the heart of the BDSM lifestyle, explore the motivations and expectations, and offer suggestions for the safe and sensual journey you are undertaking. In "BDSM Primer for Women", you will learn: - The vocabulary, roles, and rituals - The reasons you may want to participate in this lifestyle - Ways and places to get started - Safety concerns and legal issues - Emotions, consequences, and actions - What actions meet what needs - What kinds of fetishes meet what kinds of needs - How to communicate healthfully - How to create your sexual self - And much more...

Submissive Reflection

Submissive Reflection
Author: Luna Carruthers
Publisher:
Total Pages: 133
Release: 2019-06-04
Genre:
ISBN: 9781090224064

DISCOVER WHAT KIND OF SUBMISSIVE YOU ARE AND HOW TO NURTURE YOUR SUBMISSIVE MINDSET Submissive Reflection: A Journey of Rediscovery is a workbook designed to build a clear picture of what your personal submission looks like and how to the best submissive you can possibly be. Have you ever wondered if you're living up to your full potential as a submissive? Do you want to understand how your past shapes your future? Would you like to take the next steps to build or rebuild your life, find a Dominant or explore new things? Are you feeling overwhelmed and need help figuring out how to take care of your submissive self? Discovering your submissive nature isn't always a sudden process. For many people, it takes some soul-searching to see that you may enjoy when someone asks you to do something and you happily do it without a second thought. For others, it takes some social reprogramming to allow your full nature to come out. Submissive Reflection: A Workbook is a perfect guide to helping you do that soul-searching and to really pinpoint where you are in your submissive journey right now. You'll gain understanding about how your personality, past relationships and inner code of ethics work together to define your submissive identity. Whether you have a partner or not, this workbook has the tools and knowledge to help you understand your place in submission. You will adopt simple methods to take care of yourself and to nurture your submission through grooming and self-care tasks such as journaling, affirmations, and goal-setting. Embrace who you are and what your past relationships can teach you about the type of Dominant you are seeking. Your submissive mindset is everything. And if you've lost your way, I want to help you find your way back. Let's discover it together! What's Inside? * Five chapters of articles and activities to keep you moving into deeper thought processes. * 30 activities and worksheets to help you learn and grow in submission. * Growth through self-care like grooming, journaling, and introspection. * Write a Code of Ethics, use affirmations and mind-maps to help you build your knowledge about yourself and your belief systems. Come away knowing more about who you are now, and the submissive you desire to be!

Disciplines of a Godly Woman

Disciplines of a Godly Woman
Author: Barbara Hughes
Publisher: Crossway
Total Pages: 274
Release: 2006
Genre: Religion
ISBN: 1581347596

Hughes helps women to scrutinize their lives and tells their poignant stories with faithful reminders to develop the godly character they desire. (Women's Issues)

How to Be a Healthy and Happy Submissive

How to Be a Healthy and Happy Submissive
Author: Kate Kinsey
Publisher: Createspace Independent Publishing Platform
Total Pages: 0
Release: 2014-09-06
Genre:
ISBN: 9781501093609

Beyond any shades of grey, there's an entire kinky world of BDSM, full of real life dominants and submissives enjoying an intimacy and satisfaction in their relationships that vanilla folk only dream of. Whether you want to explore your own submissive fantasies, or you're just curious about what BDSM is really like, this book will answer all your questions, plus some you didn't know you had. Erotic author Kate Kinsey ("Red," and "The Totally Uncensored Kinky Adventures of Chloe St. Claire, Sex Slave") brings over a decade of experience as a submissive and kinky educator to this practical step-by-step guide to being a healthy and happy submissive.Topics covered include: the differences between dominants and masters, submissives and slaves, and tops and bottoms; the different dominant styles; the truth about "training" to be a submissive; how to find like-minded folks in your area; how to negotiate scenes and relationships; what to expect at your first dungeon party; why some people actually enjoy pain; and the warning signs to look out for when talking to potential partners."Kinsey has written a no-nonsense guide that thoroughly explains the various kinks and fetishes that come under the umbrella of BDSM. Most importantly, she emphasizes the importance of protecting yourself along the way with knowledge, friends and self-awareness.""This is not fiction, but reality. Kate Kinsey has the experience to tell it like it is, not the way some vanilla writer imagines it to be."

Dom's Guide To Submissive Training

Dom's Guide To Submissive Training
Author: Elizabeth Cramer
Publisher: Living Plus Healthy Publishing
Total Pages: 55
Release: 2015-03-06
Genre: Self-Help
ISBN:

A Dom/sub relationship doesn’t just happen. It is a finely crafted and designed system of expectations and joys. In order for you and your submissive lady to “fit” one another and create a lasting, happy union there must be a period of training. It does not matter if your sub has thirty years of experience in submission or just read 50 Shades of Grey and decided to try it herself. She will need to be trained for the best relationship to emerge. "Dom's Guide to Submissive Training" was specifically written for doms/masters. It is designed to provide you with a step-by-step blueprint on how to train your new sub. It goes from preparation all the way down to the closing ceremony including advanced techniques & tips. Training can be one of the most exciting, challenging and fun parts of the relationship. A well-trained sub will not only serve you in the capacity you deserve, but will have built up the two most important elements in any BDSM relationship – trust and consistency. Following the instructions in this guide will allow you to show yourself as a worthy master, who is in control, experienced and able to guide you both to the best possible life.

The Proper Care and Feeding of Husbands

The Proper Care and Feeding of Husbands
Author: Dr. Laura Schlessinger
Publisher: Harper Collins
Total Pages: 146
Release: 2009-03-17
Genre: Self-Help
ISBN: 0061796743

The #1 National Bestseller In her most provocative book yet, America's top radio talk show host, Dr. Laura Schlessinger, urgently reminds women that to take proper care of their husbands is to ensure themselves the happiness and satisfaction they deserve in marriage. Women want to be in love, get married and live happily ever after, yet countless women call Dr. Laura, unhappy in their marriages and seemingly at a loss to understand the incredible power they have over their men to create the kind of home life they yearn for. In the Proper Care and Feeding of Husbands, Dr. Laura provides real-life examples and real-life solutions on how to wield that power to attain all the sexual pleasure, intimacy, love, joy, and peace desired in life. Dr. Laura's simple principles have changed the lives of millions. Now they can change yours.

BDSM Primer

BDSM Primer
Author: Ralph White
Publisher:
Total Pages: 0
Release: 2007-07
Genre: Self-Help
ISBN: 9781887895569

A balanced, non-opinionated guide to BDSM for beginners, with a special focus on the Internet subculture of BDSM and long-distance BDSM relationships.