Breaking Through Betrayal

Breaking Through Betrayal
Author: Holli Kenley
Publisher: Loving Healing Press
Total Pages: 199
Release: 2009-12-01
Genre: Psychology
ISBN: 1615990097

"This volume deals with the subject of betrayal, and is appropriate as a self-help aid for clients. It also contains useful suggestions for therapists dealing with those who have experienced betrayal of trust."--Lucy R. Ferguson, Ph.D., member, AFTNC Faculty Member and Dean Emerita, CSPP, Alliant University.

Beyond Betrayal

Beyond Betrayal
Author: Phil Waldrep
Publisher: Harvest House Publishers
Total Pages: 204
Release: 2020-02-11
Genre: Religion
ISBN: 073697878X

Responding Right When You've Been Wronged We all know what it’s like to be lied to, cheated, tricked, or swindled. Whether you want revenge or to protect yourself from future harm, Phil Waldrep understands your pain. Waldrep had no idea of the steep journey that lay ahead of him when two men walked into his office and revealed an unfolding story of a friend turned colleague who was living what amounted to a second life. For years following, Waldrep sought to heal the wounds of this broken relationship and confront the pain he felt in the aftermath of this betrayal. Along the way, he discovered God’s solutions to overcoming resentment. In Beyond Betrayal, you’ll learn about the biblical principles and practical tools that can help you identify betrayers in your life and name the pain you feel rediscover God as the healer of your wounds avoid bitterness and express your anger in healthy ways learn to remain open to trusting others again as you build new relationships choose forgiveness and develop strategies to prevent future betrayal Whether you’ve been hurt by a family member, friend, colleague, or trusted leader, you are not alone. Even Jesus was betrayed. You don’t have to let past hurts limit your future relationships—you can move beyond betrayal.

The Betrayal Bond

The Betrayal Bond
Author: Patrick Carnes
Publisher: Health Communications Incorporated
Total Pages: 338
Release: 2019-02-12
Genre: Family & Relationships
ISBN: 0757318231

Some really great books just keep getting better! For seventeen years The Betrayal Bond has been the primary source for therapists and patients wrestling the effects of emotional pain and harm caused by exploitation from someone they trusted. Divorce, litigation, incest and child abuse, domestic violence, kidnapping, professional exploitation and religious abuse are all areas of trauma bonding. These are situations and relationships of incredible intensity or importance lend themselves more easily to an exploitation of trust or power. In The Betrayal Bond, Dr. Carnes presents an in-depth study of these relationships; why they form, who is most susceptible, and how they become so powerful. Dr. Carnes also gives a clear explanation of the bond that compels people to tolerate the intolerable, and for the first time, maps out the brain connection that makes being with hurtful people comparable to 'a drug of choice.' Most importantly, Carnes provides practical steps to identify compulsive attachment patterns and ultimately to change or end them for good. This new edition includes: New science for understanding how our brains can make a prison of bad relationships New assessments and insights based on 50,000 research participants A new section utilizing the latest findings in attachment research and narrative therapy to concretely rewrite and rescript bad experiences A redefinition of the factors contributing to addictive relationships

Back from Betrayal

Back from Betrayal
Author: Jennifer P. Schneider
Publisher: Ballantine Books
Total Pages: 0
Release: 1990-06-13
Genre: Adultery
ISBN: 9780345367860

A ground-breaking book that shares startling revelations that can help you break the pattern of betrayal. Jennifer P. Scneider, M.D., reveals to readers that your husband or lover uses his affairs as compulsively as an alcoholic uses alcohol, and that you may be codependent without knowing it. Inspired by personal and professional experience, Dr. Schneider examines codependency as it relates to addiction and addresses the anquish and helplessness that you feel. Dr. Schneider also explains how Twelve Step recovery programs can work for you, and she provides straightforward guidance to how to find such a group and how to choose a counselor. "Offers insight into the sex addict, firm recognition that it is a complusive disorder, and the comfort and understanding that they (the wives and girlfriends) are not alone, and not to be shamed or blamed." Melody Beattie Author of CODEPENDENT NO MORE

Love & Betrayal

Love & Betrayal
Author: John Amodeo
Publisher: Ballantine Books
Total Pages: 305
Release: 2010-12-08
Genre: Self-Help
ISBN: 030777550X

"A book of profound insight and wisdom, written not just for those who have been betrayed, but for anyone who wants to build deeper, more trusting relationships." SUSAN M. CAMPBELL, Ph.D. Author of THE COUPLES JOURNEY LOVE & BETRAYAL explores the many forms betrayal can take, from keeping secrets and negative gossip to breaking promises and sexual infidelity. In the process, you can discover how to heal the wounds of past betrayals, what steps to take to forgive both yourself and your betrayer, and how to cultivate a climate of love and trust in your current relationships.

Breaking The Silence: Confronting Betrayal in Friendships

Breaking The Silence: Confronting Betrayal in Friendships
Author: Oscar J. Starr III
Publisher: Oscar J. Starr
Total Pages: 41
Release: 2024-06-10
Genre: Self-Help
ISBN:

Betrayal in friendships can take many forms, and it often stems from a place of envy or jealousy. Perhaps your friend is envious of your success, your relationship, or your marriage. Instead of celebrating your achievements, they may feel threatened by them and resort to underhanded tactics to bring you down. One of the key signs of betrayal in a friendship is when your friend starts to exhibit behaviors that are out of character. They may become overly critical of you, constantly belittle your accomplishments, or even spread rumors behind your back. These actions stem from their own insecurities and feelings of inadequacy, which they project onto you in an attempt to level the playing field. Another red flag to watch out for is when your friend starts to distance themselves from you without any valid reason. They may become elusive, avoid spending time with you, or suddenly become too busy to meet up. This could be a sign that they are trying to create space between you so that they can carry out their betrayal without arousing suspicion. Furthermore, pay attention to how your friend reacts to your successes and failures.

Breaking the Silence

Breaking the Silence
Author: Martin Ridge
Publisher: Gill & Macmillan Ltd
Total Pages: 275
Release: 2008-04-01
Genre: True Crime
ISBN: 0717163458

Assigned to a quiet corner of Ireland's most remote county, Martin Ridge was heading for retirement after a long career with An Garda Síochána, the Irish police force. All that changed when a call from a local priest set in motion what would become the most horrific sex abuse investigation the island had ever known. At Christmas 1997 a local priest Fr Eugene Greene reported to the Gardaí that a man had tried to blackmail him. This call, an act of hubris, set in motion a Garda investigation that revealed him to be a serial abuser of children. As word of the investigation spread, 26 men came forward. Most were from the tiny Irish-speaking parish of Gort an Choirce. All had been abused by Greene as children. Soon after, another man came forward to say that he had been sexually abused by a local schoolteacher, Denis McGinley. As Ridge dug deeper, he discovered that McGinley had been systematically abusing children in his classroom for decades. He had at least 50 victims. The Greene and McGinley cases both involved the Catholic Church. Greene was a priest, and McGinley a teacher in a Catholic school answerable to religious managers. As Ridge investigated, he discovered that the Church knew about the abuse, but ignored the problem. Brilliantly written and unsparing in its fidelity to the truth, Breaking the Silence is more than an account of a police investigation: it's the story of an entire community's struggle to come to terms with its betrayal by those in whom it placed the most trust.

Mountain Air: Relapsing and Finding The Way Back... One Breath at a Time

Mountain Air: Relapsing and Finding The Way Back... One Breath at a Time
Author: Holli Kenley
Publisher: Loving Healing Press
Total Pages: 101
Release: 2013-01-01
Genre: Psychology
ISBN: 1615991905

Deep down inside, each of us knows what our truths are. It is forgivable to lose them... it is unforgivable not to reclaim them... "Mountain Air: Relapsing And Finding The Way Back One Breath At A Time" is a brutally honest personal narrative detailing a painful decent into relapse and a powerful journey back to recovering. Without condemnation but with passion and purpose, Mountain Air ... Embraces individuals who have abandoned their authentic ways of being for a life of personal neglect, indulgence, or self-destruction. Speaks to individuals who have betrayed their healing tenets - the addict who has lost his sobriety, the abused who has returned to her abuser, or the codependent who continues to rescue the uncontrollable. Reaches out to individuals who have maintained a life of stability and wellness, but who are eroding over time - and losing their sense of self and of spirit. Mountain Air is for any individual who has experienced relapse and who is fighting to find his way back... By inviting readers to take a journey with the author as she shares time-tested lessons in the recovering process. By providing thoughtful and accountable exercises with each chapter that guide the reader in the reclaiming and sustaining of their truths. Praise for Kenley's "Mountain Air" ..".a personal memoir out of which she extracts principles that can be generalized to all who are in recovery, inspiring them to take courage. This poetic and nature-infused account should become a standard for all therapists and all in the process of recovery." --David Van Nuys, Ph.D., Emeritus Professor of Psychology, Host of Shrink Rap Radio "With Holli's inspiring personal journey from relapse to recovery and her challenging questions in each chapter, the reader can examine self-defeating behaviors and beliefs that block the natural ability to walk through change, pain, and difficult times." --Melissa Yarbray, M.A., Marriage and Family Therapist, Licensed Advanced Alcohol & Drug Counselor Learn more at www.HolliKenley.com From Loving Healing Press www.LHPress.com

Breaking the Barriers of the Impossible

Breaking the Barriers of the Impossible
Author: Michelle Haarer
Publisher: WestBow Press
Total Pages: 99
Release: 2015-11-30
Genre: Religion
ISBN: 151272095X

This book is a real, raw, out-of-the-box description from someone who has stood strong even in the midst of lifes ups and downs. Michelle shares with a vulnerability that is refreshing in a time of prepackaged rhetoric that lacks feeling or substance. This book will challenge you, encourage you and ultimately teach you how to get out of the boat and walk on the water! Barbara J Yoder We all have times in our journey when we hit walls, obstacles, situations that seem impossible. Disappointments, rejection, trauma, and loss can leave us feeling stuck and unable to move forward. Remember, darkness always precedes the dawn. If you werent a threat, the Enemy wouldnt have worked so hard to stop you. God is not surprised by your impossibilities. He has a million ways to get you from where you are now to where He has purposed you to be. There are no limits and boundaries in God. There is no barrier you face that is greater than the God who lives within you. Learn how to Overcome the barrier of fear Resist the trap of offense Move beyond hope deferred Exercise the power of faith to overcome the impossible Become an unstoppable force

Breaking the Skin

Breaking the Skin
Author: Jenna Erskine
Publisher: Lulu.com
Total Pages: 415
Release: 2014-07-28
Genre: Fiction
ISBN: 1257098454

Sloane Hartley is one of those who was born knowing. Eighteen and too self-aware, she walks the fine line between analyzing her world and being a part of it. A breakdown at college and a love affair with a former teacher release the ire that simmers beneath her surface; she becomes depressed and eventually suicidal. Trying to maintain a normal facade, she becomes increasingly secretive and lost until she knows she must claw her way back out if she wants to live. Sloane's humor and cynicism throughout proves that the human spirit overcomes all, and that you really never know what is in the heart of another human being.