Bonds of the Dead

Bonds of the Dead
Author: Mark Michael Rowe
Publisher: University of Chicago Press
Total Pages: 275
Release: 2011-09-30
Genre: Religion
ISBN: 0226730166

Despite popular images of priests seeking enlightenment in snow-covered mountain temples, the central concern of Japanese Buddhism is death. For that reason, Japanese Buddhism’s social and economic base has long been in mortuary services—a base now threatened by public debate over the status, treatment, and location of the dead. Bonds of the Dead explores the crisis brought on by this debate and investigates what changing burial forms reveal about the ways temple Buddhism is perceived and propagated in contemporary Japan. Mark Rowe offers a crucial account of how religious, political, social, and economic forces in the twentieth century led to the emergence of new funerary practices in Japan and how, as a result, the care of the dead has become the most fundamental challenge to the continued existence of Japanese temple Buddhism. Far from marking the death of Buddhism in Japan, Rowe argues, funerary Buddhism reveals the tradition at its most vibrant. Combining ethnographic research with doctrinal considerations, this is a fascinating book for anyone interested in Japanese society and religion.

Continuing Bonds

Continuing Bonds
Author: Dennis Klass
Publisher: Taylor & Francis
Total Pages: 388
Release: 2014-05-12
Genre: Psychology
ISBN: 1317763602

First published in 1996. This new book gives voice to an emerging consensus among bereavement scholars that our understanding of the grief process needs to be expanded. The dominant 20th century model holds that the function of grief and mourning is to cut bonds with the deceased, thereby freeing the survivor to reinvest in new relationships in the present. Pathological grief has been defined in terms of holding on to the deceased. Close examination reveals that this model is based more on the cultural values of modernity than on any substantial data of what people actually do. Presenting data from several populations, 22 authors - among the most respected in their fields - demonstrate that the health resolution of grief enables one to maintain a continuing bond with the deceased. Despite cultural disapproval and lack of validation by professionals, survivors find places for the dead in their on-going lives and even in their communities. Such bonds are not denial: the deceased can provide resources for enriched functioning in the present. Chapters examine widows and widowers, bereaved children, parents and siblings, and a population previously excluded from bereavement research: adoptees and their birth parents. Bereavement in Japanese culture is also discussed, as are meanings and implications of this new model of grief. Opening new areas of research and scholarly dialogue, this work provides the basis for significant developments in clinical practice in the field.

At Home with Grief

At Home with Grief
Author: Blake Paxton
Publisher: Routledge
Total Pages: 227
Release: 2018-01-19
Genre: Social Science
ISBN: 1351714503

What would you say to a deceased loved one if they could come back for one day? What if you can’t just ‘move on’ from grief? At Home with Grief: Continued Bonds with the Deceased chronicles Blake Paxton’s autoethnographic study of his continued relationship with his deceased mother. In the 90s, Silverman, Klass, and Nickman argued that after the death of a loved one, the bond does not have to be broken and the bereaved can find many ways to connect with memories of the dead. Building on their work, many other bereavement scholars have discussed the importance of not treating these relationships as pathological and have suggested that more research is needed in this area of grief studies. However, very few studies have addressed the communal and everyday subjective experiences of continuing bonds with the deceased, as well as how our relationship with our grief changes in the long term. In this book, Blake Paxton shows how a community in southern Illinois continues a relationship with one deceased individual more than ten years after her death. Through this gripping autoethnographic account of his mother’s struggles with a rare cancer, her death, and his struggles with sexuality, he poses possibilities of what might happen when cultural prescriptions for grief are challenged, and how continuing bonds with the dead may help us continue or restore broken bonds with the living.

Bonds of Death

Bonds of Death
Author: Ana Bosch
Publisher:
Total Pages: 310
Release: 2012-10-01
Genre: Fiction
ISBN: 9781623800369

"Sequel to Art of Death" Fresh out of a messy breakup, starving artist Riley Burke has found happiness with Westwood, his new undead lover-enough happiness that when his friend Porter warns him that the undead only see humans as flashy playthings, Riley looks the other way. After all, he only wants a bit of fun. It's not like he's asking Westwood to put a ring on his finger. Once a brutal and violent criminal, Westwood now atones for his past by punishing the undead for crimes against humans. But his job doesn't make him popular with his undead brethren-and someone has a thirst for revenge. That someone has uncovered Westwood's weakness and is on the hunt. To withstand an attack, Westwood must bolster his strength by taking on a human worshipper. He turns to Riley, but Riley is terrified of the bond Westwood's ritual will create. He would rather risk his life pursuing Westwood's attacker than risk opening his soul to a man who doesn't respect him. But time is running out, and if Riley and Westwood can't come together, one of them might pay the ultimate price.

Continuing Bonds in Bereavement

Continuing Bonds in Bereavement
Author: Dennis Klass
Publisher: Routledge
Total Pages: 414
Release: 2017-11-27
Genre: Psychology
ISBN: 1351784927

The introduction of the continuing bonds model of grief near the end of the 20th century revolutionized the way researchers and practitioners understand bereavement. Continuing Bonds in Bereavement is the most comprehensive, state-of-the-art collection of developments in this field since the inception of the model. As a multi-perspectival, nuanced, and forward-looking anthology, it combines innovations in clinical practice with theoretical and empirical advancements. The text traces grief in different cultural settings, asking questions about the truth in our interactions with the dead and showing how new cultural developments like social media change the ways we relate to those who have died. Together, the book’s four sections encourage practitioners and scholars in both bereavement studies and in other fields to broaden their understanding of the concept of continuing bonds.

Notes to My Daughter

Notes to My Daughter
Author: Joni Hewitt
Publisher: Balboa Press
Total Pages: 97
Release: 2016-01-03
Genre: Self-Help
ISBN: 1504345614

The loss of a child brings with it an insurmountable pain. This is one mothers incredible story of the loss of her own precious daughter and the pairs ongoing relationship after the daughters death. The love shared between Joni and her daughter, Kelly, is so strong that it transcends the boundaries of this earth. As Joni grieves, Kelly reaches from beyond the grave to help her go on living. Kelly listens and responds over and over again through signs and messages and doesnt give up until she is certain her mother is going to be OK. With Kellys help, Joni is finally able to move forward. Our journey doesnt end when we leave the earthly plane. Kelly proves to her mom that we never really lose our loved ones; there truly is a heaven. We will see them again.

Forever and a Death

Forever and a Death
Author: Donald E. Westlake
Publisher: Titan Books (US, CA)
Total Pages: 465
Release: 2017-06-13
Genre: Fiction
ISBN: 1785654241

The Bond That Never Was Two decades ago, the producers of the James Bond movies hired legendary crime novelist Donald E. Westlake to come up with a story for the next Bond film. The plot Westlake dreamed up – about a Western businessman seeking revenge after being kicked out of Hong Kong when the island was returned to Chinese rule – had all the elements of a classic Bond adventure, but political concerns kept it from being made. Never one to let a good story go to waste, Westlake wrote an original novel based on the premise instead – a novel he never published while he was alive. Now, nearly a decade after Westlake’s death, Hard Case Crime is proud to give that novel its first publication ever, together with a brand new afterword by one of the movie producers describing the project’s genesis, and to give fans their first taste of the Westlake-scripted Bond that might have been.

Shattered Bonds

Shattered Bonds
Author: Cindy Band
Publisher: New Horizon Press
Total Pages: 396
Release: 2007
Genre: Law
ISBN:

When pretty, popular, sixteen-year-old Cindy Band returns from a party late one night, she finds her luxurious home in the wealthy Long Island community of Old Westbury teeming with police. Her mother lies dead at the bottom of the basement stairs, supposedly the victim of an accidental fall, yet suspicious clues hint to a more evil, murderous plot. Devastated by the loss of her mother and the inconclusive police investigation, Cindy turns to her controlling father for support but finds she is all alone in her grief. Before long, Cindy begins to see signs that he is not the grieving husband he ought to be. Though Cindy is torn apart by the growing suspicions she harbours about her father's role in her mother's death, she feels she must go to the lead detective in the case. Together, Cindy and Detective Sharkey gather evidence. When her father learns that she is helping the police, he is angry and adamantly denies his guilt. Cindy is son beset by new terrors as she becomes the target of a series of dangerous and insidious real-life nightmares.

A Companion to the Anthropology of Death

A Companion to the Anthropology of Death
Author: Antonius C. G. M. Robben
Publisher: John Wiley & Sons
Total Pages: 541
Release: 2018-05-11
Genre: Social Science
ISBN: 111922229X

A thought-provoking examination of death, dying, and the afterlife Prominent scholars present their most recent work about mortuary rituals, grief and mourning, genocide, cyclical processes of life and death, biomedical developments, and the materiality of human corpses in this unique and illuminating book. Interrogating our most common practices surrounding death, the authors ask such questions as: How does the state wrest away control over the dead from bereaved relatives? Why do many mourners refuse to cut their emotional ties to the dead and nurture lasting bonds? Is death a final condition or can human remains acquire agency? The book is a refreshing reassessment of these issues and practices, a source of theoretical inspiration in the study of death. With contributions written by an international team of experts in their fields, A Companion to the Anthropology of Death is presented in six parts and covers such subjects as: Governing the Dead in Guatemala; After Death Communications (ADCs) in North America; Cryonic Suspension in the Secular Age; Blood and Organ Donation in China; The Fragility of Biomedicine; and more. A Companion to the Anthropology of Death is a comprehensive and accessible volume and an ideal resource for senior undergraduate and graduate students in courses such as Anthropology of Death, Medical Anthropology, Anthropology of Violence, Anthropology of the Body, and Political Anthropology. Written by leading international scholars in their fields A comprehensive survey of the most recent empirical research in the anthropology of death A fundamental critique of the early 20th century founding fathers of the anthropology of death Cross-cultural texts from tribal and industrial societies The collection is of interest to anyone concerned with the consequences of the state and massive violence on life and death

Bonds of Blood

Bonds of Blood
Author: Caroline Dodds Pennock
Publisher: Springer
Total Pages: 242
Release: 2008-11-12
Genre: History
ISBN: 0230582338

The history of the Aztecs has been haunted by the spectre of human sacrifice. Reinvesting the Aztecs with a humanity frequently denied to them, and exploring their spectacular religious violence as a comprehensible element of life, this book integrates a fresh interpretation of gender with an innovative study of the everyday life of the Aztecs.