This is a story of one man's struggle with living a double life, learning through experiences and realizing what is important a relationship with the Lord, family, and friends. It is the story of an uphill struggle filled with tribulations, disillusionments, elations, and bravado. It is written honestly with wit and intelligence. Steve's intent is to break down the Christian "Divides" because of human doctrines. This book is a classic example as to why "not everybody in ministry" should be eager to become teachers (preachers). Steve struggles with the fact divorced people are welcome at church. Homosexually oriented people aren't, so welcome, repentant or not, thus this book.