Bdsm Basics For Submissives Dealing With The Mental And Emotional Side Of Submission
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| Author | : Michelle Fegatofi |
| Publisher | : Lulu.com |
| Total Pages | : 54 |
| Release | : 2014-09-24 |
| Genre | : Family & Relationships |
| ISBN | : 1312348305 |
Over the years, I have found a lot of helpless and sometimes clueless submissives that were mentally and emotionally abused by dominants. They each felt like they deserved anything they got and never even questioned the dominants about their behavior. One of the hardest things to learn as a new submissive in the world of BDSM is how to navigate and deal with the whirlwind of mental and emotional stress that can come from being in a D/s or M/s relationship. Many people believe they are not allowed to feel any bad feelings, think bad or wrong thoughts, and always have to be a happy submissive. As humans, we all have to deal with negative feelings and thoughts from time to time, even though we may be submissives. This guide is a tool that will help you understand, analyze, and deal with different types of emotions and mental stresses associated with being a submissive.
| Author | : Michelle Fegatofi |
| Publisher | : Lulu.com |
| Total Pages | : 103 |
| Release | : 2013-03-14 |
| Genre | : Family & Relationships |
| ISBN | : 1300837101 |
You have been drawn to the world of BDSM, but searching for one book to give you an overview of both Dominance and Submission. This book provides you with descriptions of all roles, different BDSM relationships, commonly used terms, guidelines for roles and responsibilities, and much more. After reading this book, you should have a well rounded foundation to start your journey further into the ever changing world that is known as BDSM.
| Author | : Belle |
| Publisher | : |
| Total Pages | : |
| Release | : 2014-03-18 |
| Genre | : |
| ISBN | : 9780992515928 |
Have you ever wanted to dominate or serve your lover? Whether you're just after something naughty to spice up your love life, or you are entering a devoted BDSM relationship and you'd like to formalise it with a contract, this adaptable deed is for you.Boost your intimacy and sexual repertoire. Use this legal style document to help you negotiate and define your kinky arrangement. This practical guide is ideal for establishing a power exchange experience. Use it to discuss your deepest desires and to keep your love life fresh. It's the perfect way to record your goals, desires and boundaries.Adds a new dynamic to your relationship. This deed covers all the essentials of a power exchange. Suitable for all levels of BDSM (from training to a total power exchange) including Master/slave, Mistress/slave or Dominant/submissive dynamics.Helps you bring up the topic. Some never get the chance to express their desires. This could be from fear of being judged (even by your own partner) or perhaps not knowing how to approach the topic. Filling out a kinky Contract is a light-hearted way to introduce a saucy conversation.Entices you to explore. Going over this document together can be fun and exciting (a real eye opener). The Activity Questionnaire guides you to create, talk about and plan your kinky scenes.Keeps communication open. A main reason any relationship fizzles is lack of communication. A written agreement encourages you to negotiate and communicate with each other. Revise it regularly to stay on track and to keep things fresh.Helps you stick to the arrangement. Having your rules set out in writing makes your roles seem more official.Suitable for: Married couples, partners & lovers looking to explore a kinky lifestyle; and BDSM couples (D/s, M/s) wishing to define the relationship.It's fun and easy to start.Please note: the Dominant/submissive Contract is for entertainment purposes only. It is NOT legally binding
| Author | : Jordan Douglas |
| Publisher | : Independently Published |
| Total Pages | : 292 |
| Release | : 2021-03-15 |
| Genre | : |
| ISBN | : |
The well-known personal diary of Texas Cowgirl Jordan Douglas in college, at age 19. A Daddy's Girl and Texas Tomboy, she grew up in rural Texas roping and riding on horses with her Father, and found out love could be harder for a Tomboy who weren't as pretty as the cheerleaders. She had kept secret diaries through her teens of her ideas of love, sexual secrets, and as older guy friends shared benefits, they rejected her afterwards. She wrote about her strict religious upbringing and guilt from self-intimacy, and private sexual fantasies about the perfect Cowboy, her father. Her "Daddy Issues," and not recognizing her darker sexual needs exploded to the surface her 2nd year in College, and was recorded by her, in 'The Noah Diary." With her secret "Daddy Issues," her thick, Texas curves in her favorite Cowgirl boots and short-shorts, found herself in the arms of a stranger and older Cowboy named 'Noah' who was 27 years old, and whose style of intimacy was emotionally and physically brutal and poisoning to her mind. Jordan began a sexually-dominated summer with her hands tied behind her back, getting forced to explore her darker sexual desires of real sexual humiliation, stimulating sexual-emotional abuse, and disturbing sexual mind-play drawing out her need for more than Daddy's approval. Noah used these on her all summer as he forced her sexual needs past limits she couldn't handle, punishing her with her own desires to screaming excess, drugging her daily, and bringing her into complete Submission to his stimulating Daddy role over her. She had found true love in this journey of self-discovery and understanding, and began to feel like a beautiful cheerleader with her new Daddy, and as the summer came to an end, she feared leaving Noah to go back to college, feared facing her religious parents, her lies to them about working all summer, the truth that she had flunked her last semester to be with Noah, and they paid the bill. She had to return home to face her mistakes, when all she wanted, was happily ever after in Texas.
| Author | : Dossie Easton |
| Publisher | : SCB Distributors |
| Total Pages | : 182 |
| Release | : 2011-06-09 |
| Genre | : Self-Help |
| ISBN | : 1890159875 |
Three decades ago, this book and its companion volume "The New Topping Book" began teaching tens of thousands of people the joyous arts of BDSM topping and bottoming - not just "how-to," but "why-to"... the insider details of emotional support and ethical interaction during kinky play. Since then, the growing popularity of BDSM, and the blossoming of the Internet as a source of information and connection, have created a whole new universe of possibilities for players. Now, the completely updated revised New Bottoming Book and New Topping Book give even more insights and ideas, updated for a new millennium, about how to be a successful, popular player! What the experts are saying "The only way I can think of to learn more about bottming than Dossie Easton and Janet Hardy teach you in [The New Bottoming Book] is to go out and bottom for yourself." - William A. Henkin, Ph.D., co-author, Consensual Sadomasochism
| Author | : Elizabeth Cramer |
| Publisher | : Living Plus Healthy Publishing |
| Total Pages | : 61 |
| Release | : 2015-03-05 |
| Genre | : Self-Help |
| ISBN | : |
Nothing will prepare you for a life of submission in the same way as your formal training. Submissive training isn’t just a “good idea” when it comes to creating a BDSM relationship. It is essential. "Submissive Training: 23 Things You Must Know About How To Be A Submissive" is designed to help you know what to expect when you go through training with a new Dom. Every couple is unique and every Dom may have different ways of teaching you the systems of service he prefers. However, these are the basics all trained subs and slaves learn and employ in daily life. Rushing into a relationship or service contract with a Dom without training puts the future of your time together at risk. All of the arguments, resistance, misunderstandings and hurt feelings that go with a new submissive’s experiences can be eradicated by a period designated for learning, listening, trial and error. Even if you have been with a previous Dom you will need to go through an abbreviated training time to ensure your patterns and understandings match one another. Training is a way to “get in the same rhythm” and find the perfect groove. If you are a Dom, this guide is the perfect gift to give to your new sub. If you are a sub, this guide will teach you how to go through your submissive training. As you go through these things on the journey to become the woman you were made to be, you will be tested but you will also be proud, joyful and, perhaps for the first time in your life, you will be at peace.
| Author | : Catherine Scott |
| Publisher | : McFarland |
| Total Pages | : 229 |
| Release | : 2015-05-01 |
| Genre | : Social Science |
| ISBN | : 0786498633 |
When the mildly kink-themed trilogy 50 Shades of Grey became popular reading in 2012, the media speculated that feminism was in reverse, as the public went mad over bondage and discipline, domination and submission and sadomasochism (BDSM). The novels provoked academic debate about BDSM and the issues it raises for feminists. Is the female dominant truly powerful or is she just another objectified body? Does lesbian BDSM avoid the problematic nature of heterosexual kink, or is it actually more subject to the "male gaze" of feminist theory? And what is it about kink that has creators of pop culture--from Anne Rice to the producers of Scrubs--using it to attract audiences? Examining the tropes of kink in books, TV shows, film and the music industry, this work addresses these and other questions that depictions of BDSM raise for the feminist audience. The author interweaves her own research and experiences in the BDSM scene with the subculture's portrayal in the media. Instructors considering this book for use in a course may request an examination copy here.
| Author | : Chris M. Lyon |
| Publisher | : Createspace Independent Publishing Platform |
| Total Pages | : 0 |
| Release | : 2012-10-26 |
| Genre | : |
| ISBN | : 9781480160941 |
Have you felt 'left out' of the traditional relationship self-help books because you derive great pleasure from following your partner's requests and direction on many things in your life? Or do you respond to the natural inclination to guide, direct and protect your partner? Are your friends and family having difficulty understanding that your relationship works more like a captain and first mate on a boat? If so, this innovative book, Leading and Supportive Love, the Truth about Dominant and Submissive Relationships, can help with new and clearer understanding of yourself, your relationship and acceptance with those that you love and care for. The Dominant and Submissive Relationship is an ancient and contemporary harmonious dance that has become mysterious, magnetic, powerful, and controversial in modern day society. It may not be what you think, and some of the truth may surprise you! It's a law of nature for socialized animals and humans to have hierarchical relationships. There are those who answer that call in a more literal, thorough way. The couple has a 'pack leader'; or a dominant leader; and a submissive member. Through history to modern day, both roles have been held by both men and/or women...Oh and yes, this is a relationship where both partners are equals. Read about case illustrations, research insights, relationship help, and surprising details that may make you look at this type of long-term, committed relationship in a whole different way, no matter what gender you are! Do you identify with one of these lists of traits? Most people either do identify or know someone who does. If so, this unprecedented book is for you! S-Type Service to your partner is of great priority to you and you take it very seriously. Decisiveness, direction, and guidance from your partner makes you feel secure and loved. You avoid conflict and are generally non-confrontative in nature in close relationships. You greatly appreciate your partner being clear and direct with communication, so there are no doubts about what the expectations are. You appreciate the freedom that comes from structure, surrender, and personal discipline. L-Type You have natural dominant traits and seem comfortable and confident when using them. You place an importance on follow-through and follow-up from your partner. You step into your natural abilities to lead, guide, protect and direct. It's important to you that you earn trust from your partner. You will not ask for it or demand it up front. You feel safe, secure and valued when your partner trusts you to lead and make decisions in the areas agreed upon.
| Author | : C P Mandara |
| Publisher | : |
| Total Pages | : 292 |
| Release | : 2020-12-29 |
| Genre | : |
| ISBN | : 9781549619267 |
The First Time Lois Meets James - It's All About Pleasure... And Pain"I am going to break you.That's the whole purpose of this exercise. From the moment the door inside that room closes, I am not going to be Mr. Nice Guy. I am going to do everything in my power to hear you scream, and I won't stop until I hear you beg for mercy. Do you wish to proceed on that basis?"Today my name is Lois Reeves. I have an appointment with dominant "James Leverett" this morning, because my next assignment requires that I be a "submissive" and I have no idea what that entails. I'm about to find out... by jumping in at the deep end."Why do you like meting out pain? Do you enjoy hurting women?"If possible, his smile got wider. "Is that what you think we do here? Hurt women?" He paused, and I resisted the urge to squirm. "Are women all over the world," he leaned over the desk to give me the full weight of his stare, "crazy enough to pay for that kind of thing?" His pen tapped sharply on the desk, daring me to answer."All over the world?" The words didn't come out as I'd intended them to, ending up as more of a pathetic whisper. Backing up against my chair, his large frame making me rather uncomfortable in the fragile emotional state I was in, there were a couple of seconds silence as I deliberated my next move. Needing desperately to get back to normal so I could return to work, I needed the release that I suspected only this kind of scenario could bring, without me being back in the field of course, which wasn't going to happen until I was cleared. I'd been off work for six months now, and the inactivity was killing me. For someone who lived their life on the edge, sitting down in front of the TV channel hopping every day was one of the worst punishments possible. The adrenaline junkie in me was clamouring for a high, and the most excitement I'd found in downtown London recently was a near mugging attempt.
| Author | : Sharyn Ferns |
| Publisher | : Createspace Independent Publishing Platform |
| Total Pages | : 468 |
| Release | : 2013-12-16 |
| Genre | : |
| ISBN | : 9781494737054 |
This anthology of true life vignettes offers intimate glimpses into hot BDSM play between a female dominant and her boy. It includes passionate moments that cover the gamut of play: teasing, denial, chastity, flogging, caning, pegging, slapping, and much more. It also includes incredibly sweet exchanges full of tenderness and ownership, lots of kissing, laughter, affection, and silliness. "Your breaths come hard and fast. I bite you relentlessly, thrusting up against you from behind. Every new attack makes you wince and moan, but still you push back against me until I am shoving you up against the wall, tearing at your skin like I am going to devour you."
