Good-Enough Mother

Good-Enough Mother
Author: René Syler
Publisher: Simon and Schuster
Total Pages: 294
Release: 2007-03-27
Genre: Family & Relationships
ISBN: 141695127X

In an ideal world, mothers would have time to hand-sew their kids' costumes for the school play, prepare all-organic meals, and volunteer in the classroom at the drop of a hat. In reality, most moms have to settle for plopping their little ones in front of SpongeBob so that they can prepare yet another chicken nugget-based dinner, guiltily convinced they're falling down on the job. In Good-Enough Mother, René Syler pulls back the curtain to reveal the truth about modern mothering and reassure time-stressed moms that even if their children are strangers to made-from-scratch cookies, they can emerge as happy, well-adjusted, fully functioning members of society. Mother to two great kids of her own, Syler explains how she learned to chuck perfection for practicality -- in short, how she became a Good-Enough Mother. She shows other women seeking to balance family, work, and some semblance of a personal life how to happily join the ranks of Good-Enough Mothers, who occasionally serve breakfast for dinner yet give their children plenty of what really matters -- love, time, and support. Each essay provides welcome empathy and sage advice on navigating life's different obstacles, whether it's dealing with annoying Supermoms, bluffing through a third grader's math homework, or coping with the words that strike terror into every parent's heart ("Your son's teacher on line one"). Offering real wisdom tempered with humor and warmth, Good-Enough Mother will have every modern mom laughing in relief and recognition.

Discovering the Inner Mother

Discovering the Inner Mother
Author: Bethany Webster
Publisher: HarperCollins
Total Pages: 304
Release: 2021-01-05
Genre: Self-Help
ISBN: 0062884468

Sure to become a classic on female empowerment, a groundbreaking exploration of the personal, cultural, and global implications of intergenerational trauma created by patriarchy, how it is passed down from mothers to daughters, and how we can break this destructive cycle. Why do women keep themselves small and quiet? Why do they hold back professionally and personally? What fuels the uncertainty and lack of confidence so many women often feel? In this paradigm-shifting book, leading feminist thinker Bethany Webster identifies the source of women’s trauma. She calls it the Mother Wound—the systemic disenfranchisement of women by the patriarchy—and reveals how this cycle is perpetuated by wounded mothers who unconsciously pass on damaging beliefs and behaviors to their daughters. In her workshops, online courses, and talks, Webster has helped countless women re-examine their lives and their relationships with their mothers, giving them the vocabulary to voice their pain, and encouraging them to share their experiences. In this manifesto and self-help guide, she offers practical tools for identifying the manifestations of the Mother Wound in our daily life and strategies we can use to heal ourselves and prevent our daughters from enduring the same pain. In addition, she offers step-by-step advice on how to reconnect with our inner child, grieve the mother we didn’t have, stop people-pleasing, and, ultimately, transform our heartache and anger into healing and self-love. Revealing how women are affected by the Mother Wound, even if they don’t personally identify as survivors, Discovering the Inner Mother revolutionizes how we view mother-daughter relationships and gives us the inspiration and guidance we need to improve our lives and ultimately create a more equitable society for all.

Mother Daze

Mother Daze
Author: Charles N. Dennett
Publisher: PublishingWorks
Total Pages: 0
Release: 2009-11
Genre: City and town life
ISBN: 9781933002859

Have mothers gone mad? They magically do it all, yet never quite think they've accomplished enough. Full of hard-hitting anecdotes and advice.

It's Momplicated

It's Momplicated
Author: Debbie Alsdorf
Publisher: NavPress
Total Pages: 288
Release: 2018-09-04
Genre: Religion
ISBN: 1496426592

Let’s face it: when it comes to mothers and their daughters, things can get a little . . . complicated. Momplicated, you might say. Whether your relationship with your mom has been wonderful or stressful, redeemed or broken, close or nonexistent, it’s one of your life’s most important and defining connections. Its effects have probably followed you into adulthood. If you have conflicting feelings toward mom—or if you wish you could get past some of the baggage that holds you back—this is your book. Combining spiritual disciplines and the best of current therapeutic practice, It’s Momplicated will help you discover How your early connection with your mother may have impacted your sense of self and your other important relationships—and what you can do to break the cycle Why you and your mother have the relationship you have—the underlying reasons that may be contributing to strain and unease Tools and exercises to help you cope with some of the most common effects of a broken relationship, including anxiety, depression, lack of confidence, and trust issues How to be the daughter and mother God wants you to be even if your mom wasn’t who you needed her to be. It’s never too late to love, never too late to heal, and never too late to trust God to turn the pain in your story into a redemption song. As you read It’s Momplicated, you’ll realize that while God doesn’t promise to fix all your circumstances, He does promise to uphold you and lead you to a healing place of knowing you are truly precious and loved, no matter how your past has affected you.

How Not to Be a Perfect Mother

How Not to Be a Perfect Mother
Author: Libby Purves
Publisher: HarperCollins UK
Total Pages: 242
Release: 2012-06-28
Genre: Family & Relationships
ISBN: 0007381832

A fresh new look brings this parenting classic up-to-date for a new generation of mothers and mothers-to-be. Taking an irreverent and humorous look at the trials and tribulations of motherhood, Radio 4’s Libby Purves has created an invaluable survival guide so that even the most unpromising madonna can cope with the baby years.

The Conflict

The Conflict
Author: Elisabeth Badinter
Publisher: Metropolitan Books
Total Pages: 223
Release: 2012-04-24
Genre: Social Science
ISBN: 1429996919

In the pathbreaking tradition of Backlash and The Time Bind, The Conflict, a #1 European bestseller, identifies a surprising setback to women's freedom: progressive modern motherhood Elisabeth Badinter has for decades been in the vanguard of the European fight for women's equality. Now, in an explosive new book, she points her finger at a most unlikely force undermining the status of women: liberal motherhood, in thrall to all that is "natural." Attachment parenting, co-sleeping, baby-wearing, and especially breast-feeding—these hallmarks of contemporary motherhood have succeeded in tethering women to the home and family to an extent not seen since the 1950s. Badinter argues that the taboos now surrounding epidurals, formula, disposable diapers, cribs—and anything that distracts a mother's attention from her offspring—have turned childrearing into a singularly regressive force. In sharp, engaging prose, Badinter names a reactionary shift that is intensely felt but has not been clearly articulated until now, a shift that America has pioneered. She reserves special ire for the orthodoxy of the La Leche League—an offshoot of conservative Evangelicalism—showing how on-demand breastfeeding, with all its limitations, curtails women's choices. Moreover, the pressure to provide children with 24/7 availability and empathy has produced a generation of overwhelmed and guilt-laden mothers—one cause of the West's alarming decline in birthrate. A bestseller in Europe, The Conflict is a scathing indictment of a stealthy zealotry that cheats women of their full potential.

The Art of Holding Space

The Art of Holding Space
Author: Heather Plett
Publisher: Page Two
Total Pages: 0
Release: 2020-09-29
Genre: Family & Relationships
ISBN: 1989603475

"A supportive, practical guide for all those who want to learn the best way of holding space for themselves and others."--Provided by publisher.

Musings for Mom

Musings for Mom
Author: Nicole Merritt
Publisher:
Total Pages:
Release: 2021-06-24
Genre:
ISBN: 9780578941400

Fighting against the 'perfect mom' stigma, one honestly embarrassing rambling at a time and fighting for the sanity, joy, and peace of moms everywhere, one very much-needed reminder at a time. Musings for Mom is inspiration, humor, and practical advice for the imperfect mom. Written by one of NBC Today Show's most published bloggers, Nicole Merritt, Musings for Mom is a wholly relatable, growth-prompting, yet informal playbook for moms seeking to maintain their selfhood and sanity through motherhood and marriage. "Nicole writes with the urgency of a war journalist, only she reports from the battlefront of parenting," remarks author and positive psychologist Dr. Robert Zeitlin. Author and television personality Erika Katz calls Nicole's book a "must-read," citing that it'll "warm your heart and nourish your soul!"

An Imperfect Mother

An Imperfect Mother
Author: J. D. Beresford
Publisher: BoD – Books on Demand
Total Pages: 294
Release: 2023-09-29
Genre:
ISBN: 3368196065