Adult Children of Divorce

Adult Children of Divorce
Author: Elizabeth Thayer
Publisher: New Harbinger Publications
Total Pages: 202
Release: 2003-11-01
Genre: Family & Relationships
ISBN: 1608825957

If your parents divorced when you were young, you were probably affected by the breakdown fo their marriage. Divided loyalties, secrets kept from the other parent, one life lived in two separate houses—these may have been par for the course. With this guide, you will learn that the effects of the divorce are not permanently harmful. Find out how to forgive your parents, discover new ways to enrich your own relationships and learn that there are alternative realities available. Divorce experts and psychologists Jeffrey Zimmerman, Ph.D., and Elizabeth S. Thayer Ph.D., show you how to recognize how your parents’ divorce influenced your life, resulting in disruptions such as relationship failures due to financial reasons, difficulties with commitment, and repeated situations that “just don’t seem to work out.” They provide techniques to help you understand and overcome these and other issues common to adult children of divorced parents. Zimmerman and Thayer focus on helping you learn how to build self-esteem, become resilient, establish healthy boundaries, communicate clearly, open up to trust, show love, believe in commitment and deal with vulnerable feelings.

Adult Children of Divorce

Adult Children of Divorce
Author: Corey J. Washburn
Publisher:
Total Pages: 62
Release: 2017
Genre:
ISBN:

Previous research has examined the mental, physical, and emotional effects of divorce on children of all ages. While there is some research that examines adult children of divorce (ACOD) (e.g., Dornak, 2013; Lambert-South, 2013), this group is still largely understudied. Building on previous research and framing the current study with Social Exchange Theory (Blau, 1964; Homans, 1958; Kelley & Thibaut, 1978), this study examined adults 18 or older from divorced and married families and evaluated their perceptions of their own romantic relationships. Surveying these adults (N=266), allowed us to draw conclusions about ACOD’s perceptions of their own romantic relationships in light of their parents’ relationships, pinpoint connections between the age at the time of their parents’ divorce and their commitment to their own relationships, and thus, better understand relationship decision-making processes in ACOD. In doing all the above, I contribute to the literature which aids children undergoing divorce.

Adult Children of Divorce

Adult Children of Divorce
Author: Geraldine K. Piorkowski
Publisher: Bloomsbury Publishing USA
Total Pages: 208
Release: 2008-10-30
Genre: Psychology
ISBN: 0313346011

Romantic love is often an elusive, fragile, and tenuous state, difficult to maintain across time. The rates of divorce, re-divorce, relationship violence, and abuse today attest to the face we are failing at romantic love. And for teen-aged and adult children of divorce, romantic love can be especially elusive. Because they have no roadmap for a satisfying, stable romatic relationship derived from their own parents, they are confused by what love is and tend to make poor partner choices. Borrowing heavily from popular culture for unrealistic standards regarding love, they become disillusioned when their all-too-ordinary lovers don't measure up. Especially vulnerable to the problems their parents had, they tend to overreact in a similar negative fashion and are all too ready to consider divorce when unhappiness strikes. In attempting to halt intergenerational transmission of divorce, Psychologist Piorkowski points to how we can recognize that American popular culture presents an overly-sexualized, explosive, and superficial version of love that can't last. With this book, adult children of divorce can begin to see how they have been affected by familial experiences, and develop a new, realistic map to find more fulfilling and enduring romantic relastionships. Piorkowski, in an extensive review of literature, also looks at cultural factors and how they impact romantic love and marriage. In contrast to American popular culture's shallow rendition of romantic love, many cultures elsewhere in the world emphasize compatibility, religion, and family allegiance. As a result, says the author, such marriages appear more stable than American unions built upon the shifting sands of emotion.

Adult Children of Divorce

Adult Children of Divorce
Author: Edward W. Beal
Publisher: Delta
Total Pages: 378
Release: 1992
Genre: Family & Relationships
ISBN:

Based on research that includes more than 300 case studies, the authors teachreaders how to break the cycle that divorce creates and get on with leading ahappy and fulfilling lufe.

Adult Children of Divorce and Their Views of Their Parents' Divorce and Intimacy

Adult Children of Divorce and Their Views of Their Parents' Divorce and Intimacy
Author: Terry Dornak
Publisher:
Total Pages: 101
Release: 2011
Genre: Psychology
ISBN:

Previous research has found that adult children of divorce have a different perception of intimacy and marriage than adult children from intact families. This study focuses on the experiences of a selected sample of adult children of divorce. Three men and three women were interviewed about their perceptions of intimacy, marriage, love, and divorce and their experiences of their parents' divorce. The interview data was then analyzed through object relations theory. The participants' beliefs of love, intimacy, marriage, divorce, and sex varied; however, some similarities were found. Reoccurring descriptions of love involved acceptance and trust. Common factors of intimacy were sharing, communication, and love. Attitudes and beliefs regarding sexuality were the most varied among participants. Viewed from an object relation's theory, it was understood that many of the participants had antilibidinal egos that feared rejection and libidinal egos that needed attention and emotional connection. The findings of this study may lead to applications in therapy that may be preventative for children during and after the divorce process or may address relationship difficulties that adult children of divorce may have.

Divorce and the Next Generation

Divorce and the Next Generation
Author: Craig Everett
Publisher: Routledge
Total Pages: 216
Release: 2014-02-04
Genre: Medical
ISBN: 1317939875

This informative book clarifies the complex picture of how the experience of divorce in one generation may influence the next generation’s approach to and preparedness for marriage. It identifies research and clinical issues regarding the effects of the parental divorce experience on young adults’patterns of dating, attachment, and mate selection. Divorce and the Next Generation focuses primarily on young adults and the patterns and attitudes regarding intimacy and attachment that they will carry into their own adult marriages. The book contains research studies which compare differing variables of developmental achievement, personal adjustment, and attitudes of children from divorced and nondivorced families. The implications of these findings for understanding the intergenerational effect from divorce in one generation to marriage in the next are crucial as they guide professionals in their work with young adults and divorcing families in clinical and educational settings. This enlightening volume provides a foundation and a stimulus for more research into these dynamics. Divorce and the Next Generation addresses topics such as: the effects of childhood family structure and perceptions of parental marital happiness on marital and parenting aspirations differences in intimate relationships between college students from divorced and intact families a literature review of short- and long-term effects of parental divorce on children the effects of conflict and family structure on attitudes toward marriage and divorce differences in marriage role expectations between college students of divorced and intact families effects of parental divorce on children in Erikson’s identity stage indirect effects of parental divorce on self-concept via changes in family environment correlates of self-esteem among college-age offspring from divorced families Divorce and the Next Generation is full of useful information for beginning and advanced family therapists, marital counselors, family and psychological researchers, and other professionals interested in the effects divorce has on the families involved.

Generation Ex

Generation Ex
Author: Jen Abbas
Publisher: WaterBrook Press
Total Pages: 244
Release: 2004
Genre: Family & Relationships
ISBN: 9781578566884

In this book for adult children of divorce, Abbas helps them to understand the gives them the tools to create a dramatically different legacy.

Divorce Busting

Divorce Busting
Author: Michele Weiner Davis
Publisher: Simon and Schuster
Total Pages: 256
Release: 1993-02
Genre: Family & Relationships
ISBN: 0671797255

A step-by-step approach to making your marriage loving again.