Leadership and Self-deception

Leadership and Self-deception
Author: The Arbinger Institute
Publisher: Berrett-Koehler Publishers
Total Pages: 193
Release: 2002
Genre: Business & Economics
ISBN: 1576755029

Explains why self-deception is at the heart of many leadership problems, identifying destructive patterns that undermine the successes of potentially excellent professionals while revealing how to improve teamwork, communication, and motivation. Reprint.

Why We Lie

Why We Lie
Author: David Livingstone Smith
Publisher: Macmillan
Total Pages: 262
Release: 2007-08-07
Genre: Language Arts & Disciplines
ISBN: 9780312310400

Readers of Richard Dawkins and Steven Pinker will find much to intrigue them in this fascinating book, which declares that our extraordinary ability to deceive others - and even our selves - 'lies' at the heart of our humanity.

Lies We Tell Ourselves: The Psychology of Self-Deception

Lies We Tell Ourselves: The Psychology of Self-Deception
Author: Cortney S. Warren, Ph.D.
Publisher: Choose Honesty, LLC, Cortney S. Warren, Ph.D.
Total Pages: 60
Release:
Genre: Psychology
ISBN: 1600131425

Humans are excellent liars. We don’t like to think of ourselves as capable of lying; it hurts us too much to admit. So we lie to ourselves about that, too. As a clinical psychologist, I am regularly confronted with the brutal truth that we all lie. I am not talking about deliberate, bold-faced lying. No, this type of dishonesty is far harder to detect and admit. It is the kind of lying that comes from not being psychologically strong enough to be honest with ourselves about who we are. And I believe that it is our biggest obstacle to living a fulfilling life. I wrote this book for anyone interested in becoming more honest. In it, I present a range of self-deceptive examples couched in psychological theory to help us explore ourselves. Although it is a relatively short book, indented to be read in about an hour, I hope that the content provokes deep thought. For when we are honest about who we really are, we have the opportunity to change.

The Folly of Fools

The Folly of Fools
Author: Robert Trivers
Publisher: Basic Books (AZ)
Total Pages: 418
Release: 2011-10-25
Genre: Science
ISBN: 0465027555

Explores the author's theorized evolutionary basis for self-deception, which he says is tied to group conflict, courtship, neurophysiology, and immunology, but can be negated by awareness of it and its results.

Self-Deception

Self-Deception
Author: Herbert Fingarette
Publisher: Univ of California Press
Total Pages: 204
Release: 2000-02-23
Genre: Philosophy
ISBN: 9780520923638

With a new chapter This new edition of Herbert Fingarette's classic study in philosophical psychology now includes a provocative recent essay on the topic by the author. A seminal work, the book has deeply influenced the fields of philosophy, ethics, psychology, and cognitive science, and it remains an important focal point for the large body of literature on self-deception that has appeared since its publication. How can one deceive oneself if the very idea of deception implies that the deceiver knows the truth? The resolution of this paradox leads Fingarette to fundamental insights into the mind at work. He questions our basic ideas of self and the unconscious, personal responsibility and our ethical categories of guilt and innocence. Fingarette applies these ideas to the philosophies of Sartre and Kierkegaard, as well as to Freud's psychoanalytic theories and to contemporary research into neurosurgery. Included in this new edition, Fingarette's most recent essay, "Self-Deception Needs No Explaining (1998)," challenges the ideas in the extant literature.

Useful Delusions: The Power and Paradox of the Self-Deceiving Brain

Useful Delusions: The Power and Paradox of the Self-Deceiving Brain
Author: Shankar Vedantam
Publisher: W. W. Norton & Company
Total Pages: 198
Release: 2021-03-02
Genre: Psychology
ISBN: 0393652211

A Behavioral Scientist Notable Book of 2021 A Next Big Idea Club Best Nonfiction of 2021 From the New York Times best-selling author and host of Hidden Brain comes a thought-provoking look at the role of self-deception in human flourishing. Self-deception does terrible harm to us, to our communities, and to the planet. But if it is so bad for us, why is it ubiquitous? In Useful Delusions, Shankar Vedantam and Bill Mesler argue that, paradoxically, self-deception can also play a vital role in our success and well-being. The lies we tell ourselves sustain our daily interactions with friends, lovers, and coworkers. They can explain why some people live longer than others, why some couples remain in love and others don’t, why some nations hold together while others splinter. Filled with powerful personal stories and drawing on new insights in psychology, neuroscience, and philosophy, Useful Delusions offers a fascinating tour of what it really means to be human.

Lies!, Lies!!, Lies!!!

Lies!, Lies!!, Lies!!!
Author: Charles V. Ford
Publisher: American Psychiatric Pub
Total Pages: 0
Release: 1999
Genre: Deception
ISBN: 9780880489973

Lies! Lies!! Lies!!! The Psychology of Deceit looks beyond compulsive liars in our society and considers the ongoing flood of lies that we as human beings experience every day. Who lies? Not just children, politicians, advertisers, and salespeople. Our co-workers lie. Our friends lie. Our relatives lie. And we lie to them. Everybody lies. We learn to lie and to detect deceit as a developmental task. Dr. Ford's philosophy is that lying is part of the bridge between one's internal world (beliefs, perceptions, expectations, fantasies) and one's external world (reality). Lies work not only to deceive others but to deceive ourselves. This book shines a spotlight on an understudied phenomenon that affects us all as we raise children, choose a relationship, move forward with a career path, or buy a used car.

A Perfumed Scorpion

A Perfumed Scorpion
Author: Idries Shah
Publisher: Octagon Press Ltd
Total Pages: 202
Release: 2000
Genre: Sufism
ISBN: 0863040802

Using the powerful approach of classical teachers, Shah has crafted a contemporary teaching tool that blends a fastpaced look at today's world with the timeless teachings of the Sufis. The book brings into sharp focus the conditioned behavior and self-deception that are common in Western minds. Far more than a literary tool for breaking loose old mental habits, it is a blueprint for a process of self-development that precludes self-deceit. Truly a book among books, A Perfumed Scorption is treasured the world over for its clarity of wisdom and forcefulness of insight.

Vital Lies, Simple Truths

Vital Lies, Simple Truths
Author: Daniel Goleman
Publisher: Simon and Schuster
Total Pages: 294
Release: 1985
Genre: Psychology
ISBN: 0684831074

A penetrating analysis of the dark corners of human deception, enlivened by intriguing case histories and experiments.