31 Days to Masculinity

31 Days to Masculinity
Author: Hunter Drew
Publisher:
Total Pages: 426
Release: 2017-05-18
Genre:
ISBN: 9781546796053

There has been a shift away from the development of masculinity in men. This has created generations of men who are repressing their masculine nature instead of expressing it. The result is depressed, sexless, self-loathing, unmotivated men simply existing in this world.After the Men of March campaign concluded this book was written out of sheer necessity. Hundreds of men participated in the program and improved their marriage, health, relationship with their children, and allowed them to experience the joy which only comes with authentic living.This 31 Day Program has been tried and tested to create the development of self and to relight that masculine flame which exists inside every man. The Red Pill, Manosphere, and Masculine bloggers are all working to help men reclaim their authentic and genuine nature.This book will help you become the man, husband, and father you should have been all along.This program is unlike any other out there as it will challenge you physically and mentally. If you make it the entire 31 Days, you'll realize that the man you wanted to be was inside you all along, you just had to let him out.Don't look back a year from now, still in the same stage of live regretting you never took the plunge. Commit to yourself for 31 Days and live the rest of your life as a man who walks his own path, not the one which has been laid out for him.The Family Alpha is primarily my perspective on life and maintaining masculinity in marriage whereas 31 Days to Masculinity, the byproduct of Men of March is the culmination of experiences and feedback from hundreds of men who've reclaimed their masculinity and are now living authentic lives.

For the Love of Men

For the Love of Men
Author: Liz Plank
Publisher: St. Martin's Press
Total Pages: 326
Release: 2019-09-10
Genre: Social Science
ISBN: 1250196256

A nonfiction investigation into masculinity, For The Love of Men provides actionable steps for how to be a man in the modern world, while also exploring how being a man in the world has evolved. In 2019, traditional masculinity is both rewarded and sanctioned. Men grow up being told that boys don’t cry and dolls are for girls (a newer phenomenon than you might realize—gendered toys came back in vogue as recently as the 80s). They learn they must hide their feelings and anxieties, that their masculinity must constantly be proven. They must be the breadwinners, they must be the romantic pursuers. This hasn’t been good for the culture at large: 99% of school shooters are male; men in fraternities are 300% (!) more likely to commit rape; a woman serving in uniform has a higher likelihood of being assaulted by a fellow soldier than to be killed by enemy fire. In For the Love of Men, Liz offers a smart, insightful, and deeply-researched guide for what we're all going to do about toxic masculinity. For both women looking to guide the men in their lives and men who want to do better and just don’t know how, For the Love of Men will lead the conversation on men's issues in a society where so much is changing, but gender roles have remained strangely stagnant. What are we going to do about men? Liz Plank has the answer. And it has the possibility to change the world for men and women alike.

The Man They Wanted Me to Be

The Man They Wanted Me to Be
Author: Jared Yates Sexton
Publisher: Catapult
Total Pages: 273
Release: 2020-04-14
Genre: Social Science
ISBN: 1640093850

This provocative, “critically important” memoir of working-class boyhood in rural Indiana offers a searing cultural analysis of toxic masculinity in American culture (NPR). As progressivism changes American society, and globalism shifts labor away from traditional manufacturing, the roles that have been prescribed to men since the Industrial Revolution have been rendered obsolete. Donald Trump's campaign successfully leveraged male resentment and entitlement, and now, with Trump as president and the rise of the #MeToo movement, it’s clear that our current definitions of masculinity are outdated and even dangerous. Deeply personal and thoroughly researched, the author of The People Are Going to Rise Like the Waters Upon Your Shore has turned his keen eye to our current crisis of masculinity using his upbringing in rural Indiana to examine the personal and societal dangers of the patriarchy. The Man They Wanted Me to Be examines how we teach boys what’s expected of men in America, and the long–term effects of that socialization―which include depression, shorter lives, misogyny, and suicide. Sexton turns his keen eye to the establishment of the racist patriarchal structure which has favored white men, and investigates the personal and societal dangers of such outdated definitions of manhood. “ . . . exposes the true cost of toxic masculinity . . . and takes aim at the patriarchal structures in American society that continue to uphold an outdated ideal of manhood.” —Book Riot

The Mask of Masculinity

The Mask of Masculinity
Author: Lewis Howes
Publisher: Hay House, Inc
Total Pages: 196
Release: 2017-10-31
Genre: Self-Help
ISBN: 1788171284

‘This is one of the most important topics today that seemingly no one is talking about: how men can take care of their emotional health in a 21st century that demands it. Crucial reading for any young or struggling man.’ - Mark Manson, #1 New York Times bestselling author of The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck At 30 years old, Lewis Howes was outwardly thriving but unfulfilled inside. He was a successful athlete and businessman, achieving goals beyond his wildest dreams, but he felt empty, angry, frustrated, and always chasing something that was never enough. His whole identity had been built on misguided beliefs about what "masculinity" was. Howes began a personal journey to find inner peace and to uncover the many masks that men – young and old – wear. In The Mask of Masculinity, Howes exposes: · The ultimate emptiness of the Material Mask, the man who chases wealth above all things; · The cowering vulnerability that hides behind the Joker and Stoic Masks of men who never show real emotion; and · The destructiveness of the Invincible and Aggressive Masks worn by men who take insane risks or can never back down from a fight. He teaches men how to break through the walls that hold them back and shows women how they can better understand the men in their lives. It's not easy, but if you want to love, be loved and live a great life, then it's an odyssey of self-discovery that all modern men must make. This book is a must-read for every man – and for every woman who loves a man.

Clint Eastwood and Issues of American Masculinity

Clint Eastwood and Issues of American Masculinity
Author: Drucilla Cornell
Publisher: Fordham Univ Press
Total Pages: 387
Release: 2009-08-25
Genre: Philosophy
ISBN: 0823230147

In this risk-taking book, a major feminist philosopher engages the work of the actor and director who has progressed from being the stereotypical “man’s man” to pushing the boundaries of the very genres—the Western, the police thriller, the war or boxing movie—most associated with American masculinity. Cornell’s highly appreciative encounter with the films directed by Clint Eastwood revolve around the questions “What is it to be a good man?” and “What is it to be, not just an ethical person, but specifically an ethical man?” Focusing on Eastwood as a director rather than as an actor or cultural icon, she studies Eastwood in relation to major philosophical and ethical themes that have been articulated in her own life’s work. In her fresh and revealing readings of the films, Cornell takes up pressing issues of masculinity as it is caught up in the very definition of ideas of revenge, violence, moral repair, and justice. Eastwood grapples with this involvement of masculinity in and through many of the great symbols of American life, including cowboys, boxing, police dramas, and ultimately war—perhaps the single greatest symbol of what it means (or is supposed to mean) to be a man. Cornell discusses films from across Eastwood’s career, from his directorial debut with Play Misty for Me to Million Dollar Baby. Cornell’s book is not a traditional book of film criticism or a cinematographic biography. Rather, it is a work of social commentary and ethical philosophy. In a world in which we seem to be losing our grip on shared symbols, along with community itself, Eastwood’s films work with the fragmented symbols that remain to us in order to engage masculinity with the most profound moral and ethical issues facing us today.

Iron John

Iron John
Author: Robert Bly
Publisher: Da Capo Press
Total Pages: 0
Release: 2004-07-28
Genre: Social Science
ISBN: 9780306813764

In this deeply learned book, poet and translator Robert Bly offers nothing less than a new vision of what it is to be a man.Bly's vision is based on his ongoing work with men and reflections on his own life. He addresses the devastating effects of remote fathers and mourns the disappearance of male initiation rites in our culture. Finding rich meaning in ancient stories and legends, Bly uses the Grimm fairy tale "Iron John," in which the narrator, or "Wild Man," guides a young man through eight stages of male growth, to remind us of archetypes long forgotten-images of vigorous masculinity, both protective and emotionally centered.Simultaneously poetic and down-to-earth, combining the grandeur of myth with the practical and often painful lessons of our own histories, Iron John is a rare work that will continue to guide and inspire men-and women-for years to come.

Male Trouble

Male Trouble
Author: Constance Penley
Publisher: U of Minnesota Press
Total Pages: 338
Release: 1993-01-01
Genre: Art
ISBN: 0816621713

The contributors provide a thought-provoking, comprehensive study of masculinity in American culture today.

Masculinity and the Other

Masculinity and the Other
Author: Heather Ellis
Publisher: Cambridge Scholars Publishing
Total Pages: 355
Release: 2009-01-14
Genre: Social Science
ISBN: 1443803952

Histories of masculinity have generally examined both social ideologies of masculinity and subjective male identities within frameworks that define them against the feminine. Yet historians and sociologists have increasingly argued that men have been and continue to be defined both socially and subjectively as much by their relations to other men as in relation to women. This collection brings together the work of scholars of masculinities working in a variety of fields, including literature, history and art history, to examine some of the forms of 'otherness' against which ideas of masculinity have been defined throughout history. The collection reflects the current breadth of scholarship relating to the study of masculine alterity. While the subjects addressed are largely historical, the time span covered is broad and the disciplinary approaches to the subject matter are equally wide-ranging. A huge variety of men, masculine behaviours and definitions of masculinity are considered in an exciting and invigorating collection that showcases both established academics and emerging scholars in the field.

What it Means to be a Man

What it Means to be a Man
Author: Rafael L. Ramírez
Publisher: Rutgers University Press
Total Pages: 164
Release: 1999
Genre: History
ISBN: 9780813526614

What It Means to Be a Man begins with a discussion of machismo set in the context of the social construction of masculinity. Ramírez presents his interpretation of what it means to be a Puerto Rican man, discussing the attributes and demands of masculinity, and pointing out the ways in which strength, competition, and sexuality are joined with power and pleasure. He examines the erotic relationships between men as part of the expressions of masculinity, and analyzes how the homosexual experience reproduces the dominant masculine ideology.

In a Time of Fallen Heroes

In a Time of Fallen Heroes
Author: R. William Betcher
Publisher: Simon & Schuster Books For Young Readers
Total Pages: 312
Release: 1993
Genre: Psychology
ISBN:

Over the past three decades, women have strived to find and articulate their own true nature. In this thoughtful and challenging work, two Harvard psychiatrists attempt to do something similar for men, to redefine masculinity without swagger, resentment, or a false sense of correctness.